View Full Version : How to understand women?

08-24-2004, 06:58 PM
One of the best man who understood women(as they say, atleast in the literary world) Casanova, speaks abt his great love, the young and mysterious Frenchwoman, Henriette, in Cesena.
"People who believe that a woman is not enough to make a man equally happy all the twenty-four hours of a day have never known an Henriette." Henriette left him, returned to his family, and Casanova remembers it in his autobiography as one of the saddest moments in his life. "What is love?" he asked, and compared love to an incurable illness and divine monster.
Rather he can.. :nono:
May be women are the best answers to themselves.. :think:

08-24-2004, 07:17 PM
பெண்கள் எல்லாம் மாயை :ee:

08-24-2004, 07:52 PM
How to understand women is romba kastamana question..adhu avangalalaiye kooda answer panna mudiyadhu :wink:

idhukku mela naan pesina..edhachum solli maatikuven.. :ahha:

08-24-2004, 07:56 PM
How to understand women is romba kastamana question..adhu avangalalaiye kooda answer panna mudiyadhu

Very true .. enna avangalukke avanga enna seyya poraangagarathu theriyaathu.. too emotional and senti athu thaan kaaranam.

idhukku mela naan pesina..edhachum solli maatikuven..

Krish bayapidaatheenga.. naangalellam irukkom... :yes:

08-24-2004, 08:16 PM
WHat is going on here?

Let me get this straight...you guys are saying women are enigmatic creatures that are over emotional and sentimental??? And you HAD to bring it up in the Women's section eh? :Ksp: :Ksp: :snooty:

Well you guys are going to have to take whats coming for you!! I know a couple of people that can use :evil: really well in this topic!

Firstly, who knows what kind of a person Casanova really was. Historical works were all written by men! Cesena might have been too right to leave him!

Secondly, you all have given up before trying. That is the real problem and that is why women get over emotional and too "senti". Its because that is the only way we can get across to you lot that are too quick to give up!

For my share...let me just :evil: :evil: :evil:

08-24-2004, 08:27 PM
Jaggy 4 u first of all explore about u then u can understand women.....

Enna pathi ennalaaiye innum puriyalaa appuram en aduthavangaaa....

Shy vanthangaanna Poorri kattai la adi vulzhum......

08-24-2004, 08:27 PM
enigmatic creatures that are over emotional and sentimental

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Ferny I think you are better than me in putting things into words... :evil: (ithu yen pangukku)

This is not just for Casanova.. ppbly that is what happens to most men... :ahha:

08-24-2004, 08:38 PM
I have been miserably failing in understanding humans as a whole :( :( .. Given this, I envy you guyz.. you are atleast able to understand a sect....

nalla tips kodunga.. I will try them (ofcourse with women :wink: :wink: )

08-24-2004, 08:40 PM
yaapa Ashokku!!! I was not agreeing with you!!

The problem lies with men not with women!! We are not that hard to figure out if you put a little effort into it!

:evil: :evil: :evil: I'm sure more will come your way

Paathu pa!!

08-24-2004, 08:49 PM
:sm12: :sm12:

Ferny Babe ...don't give the game away :wink:

you're absolutely right...you can't understand women ...so forget about it
because it is far beyond the level of intelligence you possess :ee:

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08-24-2004, 08:54 PM
because it is far beyond the level of intelligence you possess

:sm12: :sm12: :sm12:

Appaadi Podu Blue!!!

08-24-2004, 09:05 PM
Enna kootu serareengala.... ok ok no probs...

you put a little effort into it!

because it is far beyond the level of intelligence you possess

Little effort and intelligence ellam illai... romba per, periyavanga chinnavanga, ithai ellam try panni vazhve maayamnnu paadittu poitaanga...
Ethaavathu onnunnaa " ORU PONNU MANASAI INNURU PONNU THAAN PURINJUKKA MUDIYUMM"nu sollittu poiduveenga... apparam innuru ponnu vanthaaa "UNALLA ITHAI ELLLAM PURINJUKKA MUDIYAATHU"nnu solliduveenga.... apparam konja neram kazhichu "ENNALAYE ENNAI PURINJUKKA MUDIYALAI"nnu sollittu senti dialogs ellam adikka aarambichuduvaanga....

only way we can get across to you lot that are too quick to give up!

athe thaan naanum sollaren.. ethuvaa irunthaalum.. naanga yosichu mudivu eduppom.. ana ponunga.. azhuthu adam pidichu kaariyathai saathichuduvaangaa.

Naan bootham padamellam poda maaten.... athu unga vazhi....
yen vazhi thani vazhi seendaathe :nono:

08-24-2004, 10:10 PM
I think u guys are watching too much tamil moives,andha badhipu unga writings la theriyudhu :lol: .

Who told and what makes u to think that women won't think and act :sm14: and then coming to a final conclusion that men cannot understand women.Some men make things complicated and they see everything in the same view, understanding women is not an exception. :sm12: :evil:

08-24-2004, 10:12 PM
it is nothing to do with intelligence...if it is with respect to intelligence Einstien was not able to understand his wife and his case was a divorce..This Venus ppl are so confusing to guys, so many ppl wasted their own life trying to explore...Bermuda Triangle a vida pudiranadhu..
may be they themselves couldnt predict...what you call such ppl, half baked ?? :lol:
Am not so harsh, but when genius and the best of best ppl couldnt find answer, it makes us wonder..some hidden things..trying to explore.. :wink:

08-24-2004, 10:21 PM
These geniuses you talk of jagadeeshan didn't think about their families for a second. Einstien was a work-aholic. You are taking him as an example??? You don't need to have a nobel prize in physics to understand women.

All you need is a little sensitivity and patience...you can leave Nobel at home :wink:

08-24-2004, 10:42 PM
ok I agree Einstien was a Nerd.....
if you go real deep, to the evolutionary levels, for a men to get attracted its simple.. see hot woman, they feel attracted but for women, it's MORE COMPLEX. Her attraction to you is primarily based on your BEHAVIORS. women have their own world and even own vocabulary and it is not normal..check out the below..just for fun..
This is the word we use at the end of any argument in which we feel we are right, but need to shut you up. NEVER use 'Fine' to describe how a woman looks. This will cause you to have one of those

This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five
minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so I feel that it's an even trade.

This means something and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. "Nothing"
usually signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with the word "Fine".

GO AHEAD (with raised eyebrows)
This is a dare. One that will result in a woman
getting upset over "Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine".

GO AHEAD (normal eyebrows)
This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care". You will get a raised eyebrow "Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in
about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.

This is not actually a word, but is still often a
verbal statement very misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing".

Again, not a word, but a verbal statement. "Soft
Sighs" are one of the few things that some men actually understand. She is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe and she will stay

This word followed by any statement is trouble.
Example; "Oh, let me get that". Or, "Oh, I talked to him about what you were doing last night". If she says "Oh" before a statement, run, do not walk, to the nearest exit. She will tell you that she is "Fine"
when she is done tossing your clothes out the window, but do not expect her to talk to you for at least 2 days. "Oh" as the lead-in to a sentence usually signifies that you are caught in a lie. Do not try to lie more to get out of it, or you will get raised eyebrows and a "Go ahead," followed by acts so unspeakable that I can't bring myself to write about them.

This is one of the most dangerous statements that a
woman can say to a man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before visiting on you major retribution and tribulations for what ever it is that you have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and used in conjunction with a raised eyebrow "Go Ahead". At some point in the near future when she has plotted and planned, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble.

This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is
giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance to tell the
truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a "That's

A woman is thanking you. Do not faint, just say you're welcome.

This is much different than "Thanks". A woman will
say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have hurt her in some callous way, and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh". Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud
Sigh", as she will only tell you "Nothing".