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Priyanka
10-05-2004, 02:03 PM
Hey gals! Men have lots of gr8 qualities which we must learn from them. Here are the listings.

Learn from men How to:

1.do mistakes and put blame on others: As they do all sorts of mistakes and say "ஆவதும் பெண்ணாலே, அழிவதும் பெண்ணாலே.

2."kaka" pudicchify others and cheat them: As they have been cheating women by saying "you are beautiful", "your eyes are beautiful" etc.

3.be jealous: As they are with women and never tolerate their achievements.

4.Pretend to be innocent: As they have all sorts of bad habits (not all of them) and pretend to be innocent to their wifes and mothers.

5.give some lame excuse for your laziness: As they give "Male chauvenism" as an excuse to escape from all sorts of work.

6.be ruthless: As they are with ladies.

7. pretend as if you are being tortured even though you are torturing some on else: as they do with ladies.

8. not to use your brain just like men who are (or pretend to be) dunder heads.

9. be a hypocrat, as men show off they really love their wifes.

If you learn all these qualities from men. You will definitely come up in life for sure.

ashokcsn_2000
10-05-2004, 02:21 PM
2."kaka" pudicchify others and cheat them: As they have been cheating women by saying "you are beautiful", "your eyes are beautiful" etc.



nee asingama irukke, unna enakku pudikalai..... appadi ippadinnu sollikittu irunthhaaa .. yaarume maata maatanga.. vazhkai muzhukka brammachariya irukka vendi thaan....



3.be jealous: As they are with women and never tolerate their achievements.


very small percentage of the population i would say.. not everyone......... I am sure that the perspective of a modern educated and career woman is being accepted by most men....



6.be ruthless: As they are with ladies.

7. pretend as if you are being tortured even though you are torturing some on else: as they do with ladies.

8. not to use your brain just like men who are (or pretend to be) dunder heads.

9. be a hypocrat, as men show off they really love their wifes.


:snooty: Totally cant accept these..... u are trying to project a totally negative angle that i untrue in 99% of the cases... Men have always cared for their wives and tortue :00: :00: :00: that is just too juch.. maybe u have had some bad experence..... or just trying to argue the case for women on fallacious stances....

RaasuKutty
10-05-2004, 02:37 PM
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How about moving this to Jokes Section..

some desperate souls trying to damage men's reputation & his noble intentions and his honest words fail yet again.. :D :D

Priyanka
10-05-2004, 02:41 PM
My mother suffered a lot. That is why I hate these men.

Aana ennoda husband gem. But that kind of husbands vaikkarathu romba romba rare. I am one of the rarest lucky women.

Come on ladies. What do you think?

ashokcsn_2000
10-05-2004, 02:47 PM
My mother suffered a lot. That is why I hate these men.

Aana ennoda husband gem. But that kind of husbands vaikkarathu romba romba rare. I am one of the rarest lucky women.



It is the other way around karthis... maybe ur mom was unlucky..... u are one among the millions... i am sure geetham thaikulam will agree with that...

Any impact that a childhood experience has on a person has an impact on his/her life througout... but i am sure it is high time that u changed ur views and continued with life...

Priyanka
10-05-2004, 02:56 PM
Any impact that a childhood experience has on a person has an impact on his/her life througout... but i am sure it is high time that u changed ur views and continued with life...

I will never change my mind as far as gents are concerned. Gents are hypocrats ithu nadarindha unmai. And the atrocities they do against women? Realy horrible.

You may argue that so many wifes torture theit husbands. If that is the case aambalainga enna? Easy-aa divorce panni rendaavathu kalyaanam panninuduva. Aana pombalaingaloda gathi?

I will give you an example for this. couples-ku kuzhandhai porakkalenna odane divorce pannittu rendavathu kalyanam pannikkarathu yaaru? Aangala pengala? "Pengalum appadi pandraanga" appadinnu neenga argue panninaa athai naan otthukka matten. It is very very rare.

goodcomplanboy
10-05-2004, 03:33 PM
I will never change my mind as far as gents are concerned. Gents are hypocrats ithu nadarindha unmai. And the atrocities they do against women? Realy horrible.


karthis ithellam koncham over. Unga kitte vanthu women are all stupids sonna kovam varuma varaatha (just because a few women are stupid) antha maathiri thaan. Please be gentle with you are accusations. Not all men are hypocrats.

Neenga entha Gramathule irukeenganu theriyale. Yen men, mela ippadi oru aversion ungalukku.

Shy
10-05-2004, 03:34 PM
Acho .. ennapa topic ithu.. enna aachu..

Hi karthis.. Never met before :) Welcome to geetham and hope u enjoy ur stay here...

I totally understand ur feeling karthis.. I too know of many situations..

Tharaasula weigh panina ofcourse I agree guys cheatimg, torturing guys thaan more....

But generalise :think: :think: athu enaala mudiyalai.. because i know of many guys similarly who take suich good care of their women in life...

Shy

ashokcsn_2000
10-05-2004, 03:44 PM
Kathis i dont want to take this argument furthe as it is getting uglier... let me jus t finish it off with this... u have been seeing thinigs in a very narrow fashion.. everyone has one or an other bad experience with certain things in life and tend to have a proclination towards hating it..... But it is better to evolve and grow with the society as things improve rather than crying over the past ......

Happy to know that u have a gem of a life partner... make him ur example and try to look at ur surroundings in a more positive way...

ENJOY LIFE..... MAKE IT SWEET..... YOU CAN PICK THE ROSE OR THE THORN... IT IS WHAT YOU CHOOSE....

Bluelotus
10-05-2004, 04:57 PM
uhhhh First I thought it was a joke :? ...was going to shift it...now thinking perhaps to women's section :think:

Karthis Dear,

I am sorry that your mother was put through a terrible experience....but really Men are not like that

sheesh :Ksp: can't believe I'm going to type this but...they are really nice individuals, kind, gentle, understanding...blah blah blah... :D


Hyprocrites make up less than 0.1% of the male human population....please don't judge all of them in the same manner ...because of a rotten egghead :?

and women ...I'm afraid are not all perfect either....they are some bad eggs among us too :(

like Ashok says ...move on Karthis...don't hold it against the whole male population...
you won't gain anything by it....and if you do have sons it may be reflected on your behaviour towards them in the furture...just soo not worth it...
:sm03: I'm sorry If I'm out of turn.....

blue.

PS: how abt coming to debate whether or not Feminism is a redundant movement? :wink: :wink:

goodcomplanboy
10-05-2004, 05:15 PM
sweet blues :sm08: :sm08:

Karthis, sorry that your mother has to go through a tough time. But life'le ellarume nallavanga illaye :( so move on in life'nga

vasan
10-05-2004, 05:26 PM
sheesh can't believe :Ksp: I'm going to type this but...they are really nice individuals, kind, gentle, understanding...blah blah blah...


me neither.. :00: Did you.. did you really really write this? :00:

What happened? You alright bluey? :P :P :P :sm12: :sm12: :sm12:

Ofcourse you know the men are nice individuals. Take one Mr. Vasan, for example.. :wink: (do I see poori-kattais flying :sm12: :sm12: )

All kidding aside, its a very unkind generalization Karthis. I am sure, it sounds reasonable because of whatever observations you have made in life, and its really heartbreaking that you should go through all of it. But, do trust me... There are enough men, who are more like the Man in your life that you adore.

I do hope that you will find strength and courage to believe so, and be more open. Don't throw away your caution completely - but please be more open. I can't quote statistics on how many bad are there, but I do know that there are plenty of good men & women, and world can be at peace.. :)

As some one much wiser than me, said.. its an equal failure to trust every one as to trust no one.

Vasan

jaggy4u
10-05-2004, 05:33 PM
ithellam rombaa over uuu...males mela periyaa ego ullavangha thaan ippdi eluthaa mudiyum...
Penghal naattin kanghal nnu ninaikkira males thaan geetham la irukkom so ithellam ingha porunthathu...:)

Priyanka
10-05-2004, 05:37 PM
Hey! Guys sorry I did not mean any of you in person. I do accept that there are good males. I myself have seen in my personal experience. But they are very very very very very (to the power of 1000) rare. Most of them are selfish. All geetham members are one of the rarest males.

anainar
10-05-2004, 05:40 PM
Wow!! It requres one Karthis to bring out the hidden admiration for men in Feminists like Blue. I just cant believe that Blue spoke her mind out!! Kudos kiddo!!! Men are admirable creatures. Like every creature they have their own warts,idiosyncracies, and annoyances. But it too much to generally put a gender in the waste basket.

So karthis, while we all feel sorry for what ever happened in your life, please dont generalize and put all men or women in the same bracket. To me every human being has an admirable side in them. So, look at the bright side.

I dont have anything more to say. I also jumped in drawing my sword, but looking at the tone of Karthis, sheethed it. Please karthis, let past be past and get over it. Nothing is going to change it. Take it easy...

Cheers

Priyanka
10-05-2004, 05:59 PM
Ok. Ok. Guys! Relax. Easy..easy. I just told my views. I did not mean to offend you guys. Please do not take it too personaly. :nono: Let us not carry over this topic any further. Please do not be angry with me. I have a lots of male friends in geetham and I do not want to lose them. Please take it easy. I am realy sorry if I have hurt your feelings. Sorry for the harsh comments on you.
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Athu ennavo theriyalai enga amma patta kashtatthai nenaccha ottu mottha aan vargatthu melaiye enakku kovam kovamaa varathu. Even though I know it is silly I cant help it. I hope you all can understand my feelings.

Note: My father too is not that kind of a bad person. Avar bayangara M.C. (P nu solla mudiyathu. appaavacche! :Ksp: ) and egoist. Thaan soldrathu thaan correct-unnu eppovum saadippar.

vasan
10-05-2004, 06:41 PM
haioo.. Karthis, thappaa purinchiteenga.. :(

No one is angry, Karthis. Not a bit.

Ungalludaiya bad experience etc paarththappo manasukku kashtamaa irukku. On the other hand, there are nice people also. And if we (you & me & everyone else too), think badly about all people because of our experiences, all of us will be unhappy for ever.

Kadaikku pogumpothu, coconut vaangurom. One coconut bad-aa irunthaa, do we call all the coconuts as bad? Illai thaaney? Aduththa murai vaangumpothu careful-aa check panni vaangurom.. Same thing with guys/girls/friends etc.. Experiences should teach us to be careful, but it shouldn't lead us to make hasty conclusions on people. Avalo thaan..

Okvaa? Yaarukkum kovam illai. Neengalum kova padatheenga. No need to say sorry also. Okvaa? Cheerful-aa irunga. :) Hmm.. hmm.. Ungallukku, Geetham men- saarba, hmm.. a whole bunch of flowers.. :P

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Okvaa? :) Smile pannunga, pleeeeaaseeee.. :)

Vasan

Priyanka
10-05-2004, 06:47 PM
ஈஹீஹீஹீ (Ennoda muppatthi naalu pallum therinjurukkume! Rendu palla pudingittaanga pa! Ippo naan palla pudungina karthis)

Thanks vasan. :sm08: