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jaggy4u
12-15-2004, 06:53 PM
Imagine this scenario..
A girl proposes a guy, the guy too likes her...They started loving each other, all is going fine...Both the parents like each other's family and when all seems to be ok...A new villain crops up, in the name of astrology..Although both family are not much interested in astrology, due to a close relative, they check the horoscope compatibility of the both, and the astrologer says it doesnt match...Now every1 in confusion...
What would you do?
* Will you go with the words of astrologer?
* Will you argue astrology is fake?

Shy
12-15-2004, 06:58 PM
Argue astrology is fake :)

Enna sollunga jaggy unga veetulaiyaa.. dont worry.. astrology ellam onnum ellai.. ellam manasu thaan ;) just kidding


Shy

ashokcsn_2000
12-15-2004, 07:17 PM
Forget astrology dude....

If someone is adament abt astrology..... simply blame the astrologer and bring in a new one... this time whom u all ready set-up.... ;) and let him convince ther parties... :ahha:

Jaggy unga veetla enna prachanai pannaraangala.... namma geethamlaye oru JYOTHIDA SIGAMANI irukkaru.... avar kitta solli unga kalyaanatha mudichudalaam... kavalai padaaatheenga....


BTW wedding invistation eppo podaporeenga....

silican
12-15-2004, 07:21 PM
.... namma geethamlaye oru JYOTHIDA SIGAMANI irukkaru.... avar kitta solli unga kalyaanatha mudichudalaam... kavalai padaaatheenga....



யாரு ?? :think:

Jaggy,
Konja naalave note pannittu dhan irukken. Loveukku thoodhu pooradhu, avtar'la pattampoochi kanakka heart parakkaradhu..jamaainga. Astrology ellam nambina dhan unmai. Nambatti ellam Gilma, Bilpothri....

So dont worry. Best Wishes.

Silican

jaggy4u
12-15-2004, 07:25 PM
adada...shy, ashok, silicx ellam pottu thaakaranghale...well let me wait for more responses then i will come out with my views..Avatar vechellam kanakku podarelle, nyayama?

goodcomplanboy
12-15-2004, 08:10 PM
Jaggy - Astrology'nrathu ellam oru guess thaan. I will not lose my love for someone guessing about my life. So innum athai ellam nambindu irukkaama, vaazhkayile settle aagura velaya paaka sollunga.

Josyaam paathu kalyanam panravanga divorce pannikirathum undu, love panni, jaathagam porutham illama kadaisi varaikkum vaazhravangalukm undu. So Jaathagam, astrology ellam thooki oru moolayile pottutu vaazhkaya paaka sollunga.

Who is he to guess whats going to happen in your life. Neenga thayiriyama pray pannittu nadakura velaya paarunga.

Ethaachum help, venumna sollunga. Saaman set ellam eduthuttu pasangaloda varen.

Shy
12-15-2004, 08:12 PM
adada...shy, ashok, silicx ellam pottu thaakaranghale...well let me wait for more responses then i will come out with my views..Avatar vechellam kanakku podarelle, nyayama?

unga view pathi irukatum.. entha post ungalukku thaanae ;) athai sollunga first.. appuram paarunga.. BTW silican sonathukku appuram thaan parthaen.. avatar, love help.. enamoo irukku.. onnumae ellama smoke varaathae Shy has put her thinking cap :think:

Shy

vasan
12-15-2004, 08:33 PM
Astrology ?? :00: What astrology? Ask them to change their names to Chinese names (appropriate and matching) and follow chinese astrology... It will work out.. :P :P

Dude.. Only two things matter: Does the girl like the guy? Does the guy like the girl?? And the other one, which are beneficial, is parents blessings.. !! Ithukkum mela enna venum??

Every thing else is immaterial.. :wink:

Best wishes, Jaggy.. Marakkama invitation kudunga.. :P

silican
12-15-2004, 08:36 PM
Shy has put her thinking cap


Ivvalo porumaiya yosichcha eppadi ? Paarunga ippo avar avatar maathitu aduththa levelukku poyi, kalyanam pannikka pora Kovil padam pottrukkaru..

Enna Jaggy, endha ooru adhu ?? Thamizh cinema'la Kalyanam pannikkara Thiruneer malaiya ??? :lol:


- Silican

anainar
12-15-2004, 08:47 PM
Jagga,

There is contradiction in your situation. Belief in astrology is either 0 or 1. The mere fact that they looked at matches using astrology makes me think the concerned persons have some belief in astrology. In that case it is better to discuss and come to a conclusion rather than being confused.

It is normal human nature to find a scapegoat if things dont go according to plan. If after 1 year something happens, that the couples are not happy, easily the blame will go to a rational decision taken. If the couples are so sure that this situation will not arise or even if it arises, will tide over that instead of finding a scape goat, they can get married. Else, it is better to split.

BTW, does this situation relate to you in anyway? If so have to confuse you more. :wink: :wink: கலங்கின குட்டைல தான் மீன் புடிக்க முடியும்

Cheers

jaggy4u
12-15-2004, 09:10 PM
Jagga,

There is contradiction in your situation. Belief in astrology is either 0 or 1. The mere fact that they looked at matches using astrology makes me think the concerned persons have some belief in astrology. In that case it is better to discuss and come to a conclusion rather than being confused.


Ya, they looked at matches but its understandable , its generic curiosity every1 has on their loved one's futures.
if the split happens will you Blame the Astrologer or Astrolgy or their individual characters on how they looked upon the situation?

Every1's point is not to follow Astrology blindly...so it sounds good.

And as far as every1's doubt of whether the question referred is related to me, my answer is yes, :wink: am that culprit... :cool:

Shy
12-15-2004, 09:26 PM
Shy has put her thinking cap


Ivvalo porumaiya yosichcha eppadi ? Paarunga ippo avar avatar maathitu aduththa levelukku poyi, kalyanam pannikka pora Kovil padam pottrukkaru..

Enna Jaggy, endha ooru adhu ?? Thamizh cinema'la Kalyanam pannikkara Thiruneer malaiya ??? :lol:


- Silican

Ahha.. correct silican, summa solakudaathu samiyaara irunthaalum intha vishyathula fasta kandupudichureenga... goodu...

Jaggy .. symbolica solli asathureenga poonga.. but ellarukkum pudichu marriage senchuka pooreenga, why kovil (kandeepa God will bless the couples, yaengae nadanthaalum), nalla granda oru halla senchukalaamae ;) enna naan solrathu.. antha avatar yaetha iruntha poodunga

Shy

Shy
12-15-2004, 09:30 PM
Jagga,

There is contradiction in your situation. Belief in astrology is either 0 or 1. The mere fact that they looked at matches using astrology makes me think the concerned persons have some belief in astrology. In that case it is better to discuss and come to a conclusion rather than being confused.


Ya, they looked at matches but its understandable , its generic curiosity every1 has on their loved one's futures.
if the split happens will you Blame the Astrologer or Astrolgy or their individual characters on how they looked upon the situation?

Every1's point is not to follow Astrology blindly...so it sounds good.

And as far as every1's doubt of whether the question referred is related to me, my answer is yes, :wink: am that culprit... :cool:

[scroll:eeefcbba0a]Congratulations !!!!!:dance: :clap: :sm30: :dance: :clap: :sm30: :dance: :clap: :sm30: [/scroll:eeefcbba0a]

Shy

silican
12-15-2004, 10:20 PM
Ya, they looked at matches but its understandable , its generic curiosity every1 has on their loved one's futures.
if the split happens will you Blame the Astrologer or Astrolgy or their individual characters on how they looked upon the situation?

Every1's point is not to follow Astrology blindly...so it sounds good.

And as far as every1's doubt of whether the question referred is related to me, my answer is yes, am that culprit...

hei Jaga,
Sollave illa.."Jaggyforu" nnu summa dhan ID vachirukeengannu nenachen..Ippo dhan puriyudhu andha "u" vera yaaronnu..
mm. Asaththunga. :clap:

- Silican

jaggy4u
12-15-2004, 11:01 PM
Thanks Shy..although its too early ;)
Silicx, actual aa enthaa commitment layum mattikaama thaan irunthen, but ivangha visayathula vilunthutten..anyway so far so good...:)

anainar
12-15-2004, 11:06 PM
அடப்பாவி ஜக்கா, இப்படி இசகு பிசகா மாட்டிக்கி ட்டீங்களே. :wink: :wink: Good luck.

I will tell you a trick. If one astrologer says no match, go see another one. He will tell some thing else. Then see a third one. He might say totally different thing. So, selectively use all these to convince elders if they are concerened about the mismatch while you are not. If they themselves are not concerned as well as you, throw the horoscope to dustbin and go ahead.

Cheers

Priyanka
12-15-2004, 11:30 PM
Jaggy! Naan super-a oru idea tharavaa? Vera astrologer maatthinaa ellaam veettula otthukka maattaanga. Neenga ippadi pannunga. Astrologer-ai thaniya sandhicchi oru 5000-o illai 10,000-o thattula dhakshanai-nnu solli kudutthudunga. Indha kaalatthula kaasukku mayangaathavan evanume irukka maattan. Appuram athe astrologer-e jadhagam super-a porundhirukkunnu solliduvaar. Enakku therinja oru case-la nejamaave appadi panniyirukkaanga.

Everything is fair in love and war. :P

Priyanka
12-15-2004, 11:37 PM
Jaggy - Astrology'nrathu ellam oru guess thaan. I will not lose my love for someone guessing about my life. So innum athai ellam nambindu irukkaama, vaazhkayile settle aagura velaya paaka sollunga.

Josyaam paathu kalyanam panravanga divorce pannikirathum undu, love panni, jaathagam porutham illama kadaisi varaikkum vaazhravangalukm undu. So Jaathagam, astrology ellam thooki oru moolayile pottutu vaazhkaya paaka sollunga.

Who is he to guess whats going to happen in your life. Neenga thayiriyama pray pannittu nadakura velaya paarunga.

Ethaachum help, venumna sollunga. Saaman set ellam eduthuttu pasangaloda varen.

Ithukku ennoda sondha anubavatthulaiye bathil sollivida mudiyum. Enga appa ammavum love marriage thaan. Avanga rendu peru jaadhagatthaiyum josiyar-ta poi kaamiccha pothu "Ivanga rendu perukkum nicchaiyam kalyaanam nadakkaathu. Appadiye nadandhaalum nilaikkaathu, pirinjuduvaanga" appadinnu savaal vittaar. Avar sonnathu enga kudumpatthai poruttha varai appadiye palicchucchaam. Enga thaathaa solliyirukkaar. Aana almost 30 years-a enga appaavum ammaavum sandhoshamaa thaan kudumbam nadatthikkittu irukkaanga.

So go ahead dude! :b: Josiyam jadhagam ellam nambikkittu irukkaatheenga! "Seegrameva kalyaana prapthirasthu". :P

Shy
12-16-2004, 03:14 AM
Thanks Shy..although its too early ;)
Silicx, actual aa enthaa commitment layum mattikaama thaan irunthen, but ivangha visayathula vilunthutten..anyway so far so good...:)

Yaethuvum early ellai :) So Happy for you !!!

Seekarum ellarkkum kalyaana sapidu podunga.. antha astrologeraiyum paavam marriagekku invite panidalaam :)

Shy

suha
12-16-2004, 03:30 AM
haiyaa...jaggy bro ku marriage......jaggy bro ku marriage :clap: :clap:

But one conditon jaggy bro.... :sm10: .......after married....ungha wife..(adhu thaan aniyeee)geetham la vandhu vitudaanum...ok va. :ee: ...ilana astrolgy kitta naan vennam solliduvvein... :Ksp:

actulla...ingha ladys kammi...see.....pattimandram la kuda ladys kamiya irrukangha adhuku thaan... :wink:

indha sri bhaiya nala...emathitei irrukangha...bhabhiye kuttitu varamma :oops: ..varratum vaarratumm...........

evolo cute nathanar irrukumbodhu :baby: .....yarumei why kuttitu varadhu illa... :think:

silican
12-16-2004, 03:56 AM
"Seegrameva kalyaana prapthirasthu".



எத்தனாவது தடவையா இந்த டயலாக் சொல்றீங்க ?? :think: ஒவ்வொருத்த ருக்கா கால்கட்டு போட்டு ஓரமா ஒக்காத்தி வச்சிடலாம் னு எதாச்சும் திட்டமா ?? :lol:

சிலிக்கன்

Bluelotus
12-16-2004, 05:07 AM
Jaggy Congratulations :clap: !!

all my best wishes to you and the lady :D


Jaggy Bro :evil: serioulsy :doh: bribe the atsrologer :ee:
ithukuda naangalaa sollannum :wink:


the thing is you guys have done a really silly thing....by consulting the astorloger you have put yourself in a bind...now if anything were to happen...even a tiny litte quarrel....all those old biddies will blame it on the non-matching charts :doh:

so quickly get another reading from a totally corrupt one :ee:

jokes appart....Good luck :b:

blue.

Priyanka
12-16-2004, 05:32 AM
"Jaggy kalyaanaa vaibhogame (avar)
vaazhvil aanandham aarambame..."

ashokcsn_2000
12-16-2004, 01:42 PM
Jaggy assathiteenga ponga........


Wish you a very very happy marred life..... kalyana album ellam podunga.....


Manamakkalai vaazthi vidai peruvathu

aswin
12-21-2004, 04:31 AM
Congratulations Jaggy !

Actualy i think in astrology they always have some parigaram for any problem . If you ask them they might come up with some solution, so that you will be comfy without confusions. It is always better to avoid astrological scenes , it saves a lot of time. Since you have already stepped in, face it . I am sure there has to be some ways.

RaasuKutty
12-21-2004, 05:12 AM
Theres nothing for me to tell.. Get ready for ur marriage.. Congrads..

Be sure to read the experiences that some seniors have shared in geetham.. It will help u a lot.. :wink:

Shy
12-22-2004, 01:44 AM
Theres nothing for me to tell.. Get ready for ur marriage.. Congrads..

Be sure to read the experiences that some seniors have shared in geetham.. It will help u a lot.. :wink:

Eppo avar athai keataara.. yaen marriage aarathuku munnamae bayamburuthureenga :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

Dont worry jagga, these guys chumma solraanga :)

Shy

ashokcsn_2000
12-22-2004, 01:54 AM
Eppo avar athai keataara.. yaen marriage aarathuku munnamae bayamburuthureenga


Hey enna ippo enna sollitaaru raasu.... experience irukku paarungannu thaane... good experience bad experience ethaavathu sonnaaraa.... neengalaa assume pannika vendiyathu.... :evil: :evil: :evil: (engalukkum evil smiley poda theriyum.... :ee: )

Shy
12-22-2004, 02:00 AM
Eppo avar athai keataara.. yaen marriage aarathuku munnamae bayamburuthureenga


Hey enna ippo enna sollitaaru raasu.... experience irukku paarungannu thaane... good experience bad experience ethaavathu sonnaaraa.... neengalaa assume pannika vendiyathu.... :evil: :evil: :evil: (engalukkum evil smiley poda theriyum.... :ee: )

Intha pasangalai pathi theriyaatha enna.. engae adi vanga kooduthunu, appadiaye chumma maelotama soluveenga, so that jagga purinchu usher aavarnnu... but we are vevaram, code wordla engalai pathi thappa peseena kooda we will decode it and find out what u are talking abt :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

BTW, romba santhosham neengalum evil smiley naraiyaa use pannunga, naan oorukku poi iruntha timela yaarum use panaama athooda count is very low now.. we will bring it up back in top 3 soon :)

Shy

sri_gan
12-22-2004, 03:05 PM
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


code wordla engalai pathi thappa peseena kooda we will decode it and find out what u are talking abt

Amma ya amma ivanga than Queen of Decoding, ellam decode panni cup ellam kuda vangi irrukanga .... ella ponnungalum tution eduthukonga ...

Jaggy kku marriage nadaka pohuthu... anga kuda vanthu evil smiley podurenu perumai adichukurengale... ungala eppadi mudiyuthu... :nono: :nono:


Jaggy... too much side track now to the main stream.

Like iyanaar pointed out Astrology is either 0 or 1 there is no grey in the middle, but you did mentioned in your post Girl Proposed and they both like each etc... which I would assume they want to know better about themeselves before marriage.

There could be millions of reasons between two individuals to take a decision and finally end up one of the commonly popular tools to avoid each other.

I will not say scapegoat or anything else, its a mere fact between two people and as a third person you can only watch and do nothing about it ... including words.


* Will you go with the words of astrologer?
* Will you argue astrology is fake?

I wouldn't do neither, because it doesn't make any sense. Marriage or Love is not about knowing astrology is fake or not or about the astrologer even.

My argument is stay away from it and try to know your partner better and move your way towards the family life ;).

dinesh
12-22-2004, 06:31 PM
* Will you go with the words of astrologer?
* Will you argue astrology is fake?
If it was me, I will be very thankful to the astorloger for saving me from marriage... :sm12:

Normally I don't believe in this, but in this occasion, I'm more than willing ot believe :sm12:

Pavam jaggy......yaetho konjam samooga perachanai pathi pesalamnu porapattar.....athukkullae.... avarakku kalyanam panni vechuteengalaeppa.... :)

Priyanka
12-23-2004, 06:09 AM
Eppo avar athai keataara.. yaen marriage aarathuku munnamae bayamburuthureenga


Hey enna ippo enna sollitaaru raasu.... experience irukku paarungannu thaane... good experience bad experience ethaavathu sonnaaraa.... neengalaa assume pannika vendiyathu.... :evil: :evil: :evil: (engalukkum evil smiley poda theriyum.... :ee: )

Intha pasangalai pathi theriyaatha enna.. engae adi vanga kooduthunu, appadiaye chumma maelotama soluveenga, so that jagga purinchu usher aavarnnu... but we are vevaram, code wordla engalai pathi thappa peseena kooda we will decode it and find out what u are talking abt :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

BTW, romba santhosham neengalum evil smiley naraiyaa use pannunga, naan oorukku poi iruntha timela yaarum use panaama athooda count is very low now.. we will bring it up back in top 3 soon :)

Shy

Ennathu code language-a! Ivangalaa! :lol: Ada neenga veranga! Normal language-e ozhunga pesa theriyaathu! Ithula code languagd veraiyaa. Nenacchaale sirippu thaan varuthu. Etho olarraanga vittuttu poyittee iruppeengalaa! Ithukku poyi tension aagikkittu!

m31
01-18-2005, 02:45 AM
if u really love the girl astrology would not mean anything to u.