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jaggy4u
02-17-2005, 07:13 AM
if this is already posted here, kindly read again and follow it :ee:

1. DON'T BE TOO POSSESSIVE : Don't start a fight just because you
caught him talking or walking with a girl or keeping pictures and
letters from some girl you don't eeven know.

2. DON'T INVESTIGATE : Always checking where your boyfriend might be,
who's with him or what he's doing will definitely annoy him.

3. DON'T BE A "DOG" : Yapping over a heated argument will not solve
the problem. It will only increase tension between the two of you and
could end up in a serious quarrel.

4. DON'T WALK OUT : Hey, come back here! Walking out in the middle of
a heated discussion will not solve issues. Best to talk things over.

5. DON'T BE LATE : Coming late to your dates is a bad habit. Be on
time. Cherish every minute of your special time together.

6. DON'T STAND HIM UP : Not coming up to your dates or scheduled
meetings also isn't a good idea. Honestly tell him if you will not be
able to make it. Just imagine how would you feel if he stood you up.

7. DON'T LIE : Lying to him about where you've been or what you've
done will cause suspicions and eventually..start petty to serious
arguments.

8. DON'T SNEAK IN HIS PERSONAL BELONGINGS WITHOUT PERMISSION :
Curiosity killed the car. Especially if you haven't known each other
for years yet.

9. DON'T FORGET TO SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH HIM : No matter how busy
you are, physical presence is important. Quality time is very
essential in a relationship. That's why long-distance love hardly
succeeds. Not seeing him for a month is long enough.

10. DON'T HIDE FROM HIM : There won't ever be a decent excuse of
reason for this. What do you have in mind for doing this so, anyway?

11. DON'T DICTATE HIM : Unless he asks, don't tell him what to do.
Also, don't forbid him to go out with his friends. Respect his
decisions.

12. DON'T MISS YOUR ANNIVERSARY : Because it's your "historical" moment, duh.

13. DON'T ASK HIM TO CHOOSE BETWEEN YOU AND BASKETBALL : Don't be too
harsh on petty matters. He may like sports or he may be dedicated
hobbyist but the fact remains. You are his girlfriend and there's no
need to be jealous of his extracurricular activities.

14. DON'T COMPARE HIM TO YOUR EX-BOYFRIEND : That's not fair. Whoever
kisses better, just keep it to yourself.

15. DON'T KISS AND TELL : Don't ever squeal "bed scenes." Your
intimate moments should only be shared and kept exclusively by the two
of you.

16. DON'T WORRY OR OVERREACT WHEN HE'S DRIVING : Remember, he isn't
going to compromise your safety on the road. Sit back and enjoy the
ride (unless he's drunk).

17. DON'T EMBARRASS HIM IN FRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE : It's the male ego
thing. Never, never say..."He farts too loud, don't you, honey?"

18. DONT BREAK YOUR PROMISE : That is self-explanatory.

19. DON'T KEEP SECRETS FROM YOUR BOYFRIEND : Your secrets will be safe
with him. Remember, guys are trustworthy than girls. Unless, of
course, your boyfriend's your biggest secret.

20. DON'T ASK HIM TO BUY TOO MANY THINGS FOR YOU : This is not nice.
Wait for him to ask you what you want.

21. DON'T DATE YOUR EX-BOYFRIEND : Dont dare see your ex without your
boyfriend's consent. Even if it was just a simple dinner together,
don't dare mess with his trust.

Priyanka
02-17-2005, 07:20 AM
Ithilirundhu namakku enna therikirathu? Indha aambalaingalai thrupthi paduttharathu romba romba kashtam-nu :( Ennennellaam condition podraanga paarunga! :Ksp:

Shy
02-17-2005, 05:17 PM
:evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

ennada aal sathamae ellai konja naal nu nenaichaen

:snooty: :snooty: :snooty: :snooty:


Shy

Priyanka
02-17-2005, 05:22 PM
Sorry! Edited my post! :ee:

Bluelotus
02-17-2005, 05:41 PM
what does MCP stand for, PK?

Jaggy bro,

there's a bit of a flaw in your reasoning thingy...cos I wouldn't tell all my secrets to my bf even if I had one.....My brother told me that all guys discuss all these "secrets" between them ... :ahha:

and it's abt a boy-friend ...that is to say a transient being...not necessarily permanent :ee:

and the best way to avoid an argument IS to walk away till both parties are cooler :ahha:

Priyanka
02-17-2005, 05:48 PM
what does MCP stand for, PK?

Aiyaiyoo! Ippadi yedaagodamaa kettu tholacchutteengale. Sonna Jaggaa ennai :sm17: :sm15: :sm14: panniduvaar. Sollaama irundhaalum nallaa irukkaathu.

Sari, dhairiyatthai varavazhacchundu solren.
Edited :) Neenga kelvi pattathillaiyaa?

Bluelotus
02-17-2005, 05:53 PM
:ee: I have PK, I have ...but never used the acronym :wink:

tinker
02-17-2005, 06:14 PM
Expect a thread from one of the TKT 's(Shy or Priyanka) in a while about 21 things you shouldn't do to your girfriend.

jaggy4u
02-17-2005, 06:57 PM
ingha rombaa hot aa irukku..naan escape ;)
but PK - MCP post panna maadiri naangha post pannina inthaa moderators edit panna ma viduvanghala..eppavumey ponnunghalukku urimay jaasthi ingha :evil:

Bluelotus
02-17-2005, 07:06 PM
inthaa moderators edit panna ma viduvanghala..eppavumey ponnunghalukku urimay jaasthi ingha :evil:

not true not true :ee: :ee: :ee: We will edit anything and everything which could be construed as embarrassing or insulting to any gender or group :ee:


say Tinker, what does TKT stand for then?

:00: I wish you guys would use acronyms I'm familiar with :?

Priyanka
02-17-2005, 07:18 PM
Dear Jagga! Please check your PM

anainar
02-17-2005, 07:20 PM
Blue,

There is one more acronym floating around. EKT. Check that too. :sm12: :sm12: And that is coined by our own TKT. :sm12: :sm12:

Cheers

tinker
02-17-2005, 08:11 PM
[quote=jaggy4u]
say Tinker, what does TKT stand for then?

:00: I wish you guys would use acronyms I'm familiar with :?


People who fought for India's independence from the Britishers were called Sudhandhira poratta thyagigal , similar to that any post anywhere in this site you can see Shy and Priyanka fighting for thaikulam so they both are called Thai Kula Thyagigal :-).

PS: Shy and Priyanka , enna adikkadhinga j/k ok.

sri_gan
02-17-2005, 08:39 PM
Jaggy!!

Nalla experience'o.....

Itha thana iyya arambathula irruntha ambalinga manasa purinchu nadanthuka solluranga.

Ithuku peru than AMP :sm12: :sm12: :sm12:

jaggy4u
02-17-2005, 08:46 PM
unmaiyiliye ponnungha koncham dathy thaan...ennoda own experience la solren..naanum ivangha bayangramana arivali pola nnu ninappen, but palaghi paartha dathyaa irukkum..99% i have seen only such girls..naanum 7th std la irunthu kadala podaren...1 , 2 over maturity thavira mathathu ellam dathy's thaan...dathys in the sense i mean a little emotional idiots. mathaa padi thaappa onnum sollala...;)

kalyanam aana sri_gan, anainar ivangha ellam sollalam, avangha summation on women pathy..

sri_gan
02-17-2005, 09:49 PM
Ennatha jollurathu sorry sollurathu,valkaiya valnthu pakanum .....Thambi...ippa nee thunbatha pathuruka.so inneme nee inbatha papa(kalyanathuku apporam than) :sm11: :sm11:


Note
===
Nanum unna mathi than :sm02: Now i am :sm05:

silican
02-17-2005, 09:51 PM
unmaiyiliye ponnungha koncham dathy thaan...ennoda own experience la solren..naanum ivangha bayangramana arivali pola nnu ninappen, but palaghi paartha dathyaa irukkum..99% i have seen only such girls..naanum 7th std la irunthu kadala podaren...

No way.. I dont agree. :snooty: By Dhadhi I guess you mean opposite of Arivaali (in your terms)

My Theorem states that, Beauty + Brains = Beta
Where Beauty, Brains take positive values :b: and Beta is a +ve Constant.

So if you say 99% girls are Dhadhi, then we should have 99% girls to be beautiful. Well sadly that is not the case.:snooty:

- Silix

(the research continues .....)

butterfly
02-20-2005, 02:12 AM
3. DON'T BE A "DOG" : Yapping over a heated argument will not solve
the problem. It will only increase tension between the two of you and
could end up in a serious quarrel.

4. DON'T WALK OUT : Hey, come back here! Walking out in the middle of
a heated discussion will not solve issues. Best to talk things over.

Enna nu ketalum thappu...sari sandai venamnu ponalum thappu ....hmmmm :snooty:

suvitha
02-21-2005, 04:15 PM
oh boy, :Ksp:

Maybe you should rename the thread to:
21 THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T DO TO YOUR BOYFRIEND /GIRLFRIEND!!

see how wonderful it goes with the other gender:
[glow=red:5af98e28c6]21 THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T DO TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND!![/glow:5af98e28c6]


1. DON'T BE TOO POSSESSIVE : Don't start a fight just because you
caught her talking or walking with a boy or keeping pictures and
letters from some boys you don't even know.

2. DON'T INVESTIGATE : Always checking where your girlfriend might be,
who's with her or what she's doing will definitely annoy her.

3. DON'T BE A "DOG" : Yapping over a heated argument will not solve
the problem. It will only increase tension between the two of you and
could end up in a serious quarrel.

4. DON'T WALK OUT : Hey, come back here! Walking out in the middle of
a heated discussion will not solve issues. Best to talk things over.

5. DON'T BE LATE : Coming late to your dates is a bad habit. Be on
time. Cherish every minute of your special time together.

6. DON'T STAND HER UP : Not coming up to your dates or scheduled
meetings also isn't a good idea. Honestly tell her if you will not be
able to make it. Just imagine how would you feel if she stood you up.

7. DON'T LIE : Lying to her about where you've been or what you've
done will cause suspicions and eventually..start petty to serious
arguments.

8. DON'T SNEAK IN HER PERSONAL BELONGINGS WITHOUT PERMISSION :
Curiosity killed the car. Especially if you haven't known each other
for years yet.

9. DON'T FORGET TO SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH HER : No matter how busy
you are, physical presence is important. Quality time is very
essential in a relationship. That's why long-distance love hardly
succeeds. Not seeing her for a month is long enough.

10. DON'T HIDE FROM HER : There won't ever be a decent excuse of
reason for this. What do you have in mind for doing this so, anyway?

11. DON'T DICTATE HER : Unless she asks, don't tell her what to do.
Also, don't forbid her to go out with her friends. Respect her
decisions.

12. DON'T MISS YOUR ANNIVERSARY : Because it's your "historical" moment, duh.

13. DON'T ASK HER TO CHOOSE BETWEEN YOU ANYTHING ELSE: Don't be too
harsh on petty matters. She may like FAMILY/FRIENDS/HOBBIES... or she may be dedicated
hobbyist but the fact remains. You are her boyfriend and there's no
need to be jealous of her extracurricular activities.

14. DON'T COMPARE HER TO YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND : That's not fair. Whoever
kisses better, just keep it to yourself.

15. DON'T KISS AND TELL : Don't ever squeal "bed scenes." Your
intimate moments should only be shared and kept exclusively by the two
of you.

16. DON'T WORRY OR OVERREACT WHEN SHE'S DRIVING : Remember, she isn't
going to compromise your safety on the road. Sit back and enjoy the
ride (unless she's drunk).

17. DON'T EMBARRASS HER IN FRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE : It's the female ego
thing. Never, never say..."She farts too loud, don't you, honey?"

18. DONT BREAK YOUR PROMISE : That is self-explanatory.

19. DON'T KEEP SECRETS FROM YOUR GIRLFRIEND : Your secrets will be safe
with her. Remember, girls are more understanding than boys. Unless, of
course, your girlfriend's your biggest secret.

20. TELL HER WHAT YOU THINK OF HER SHOPPING HABBITs : Tell her if you really think that she's buying too much (with your money!). She will understand if she loves you.

21. DON'T DATE YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND : Dont dare see your ex without your
girlfriend's consent. Even if it was just a simple dinner together,
don't dare mess with her trust.

butterfly
02-21-2005, 05:00 PM
Thats a good one suvitha :yes: ...Hope ur feeling better with ur flu now

silican
02-21-2005, 05:02 PM
19. DON'T KEEP SECRETS FROM YOUR GIRLFRIEND : Your secrets will be safe
with her.

:sm12: :sm12: :sm12: Sorry...Couldnt control my laughter. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Priyanka
02-21-2005, 07:36 PM
Well done Suvitha! :clap: :yes:


Suvitha wrote:19. DON'T KEEP SECRETS FROM YOUR GIRLFRIEND : Your secrets will be safe
with her.


Sorry...Couldnt control my laughter.

Aiiyeee! :evil: Romba thaan. :snooty:

goodcomplanboy
02-21-2005, 07:55 PM
Well done Suvitha! :clap: :yes:


Suvitha wrote:19. DON'T KEEP SECRETS FROM YOUR GIRLFRIEND : Your secrets will be safe
with her.


Sorry...Couldnt control my laughter.

Aiiyeee! :evil: Romba thaan. :snooty:

unmai kasakutthaa :sm12: :sm12: :sm12:

yogesh220
02-21-2005, 11:54 PM
19. DON'T KEEP SECRETS FROM YOUR GIRLFRIEND : Your secrets will be safe
with her.

:sm12: :sm12: :sm12: Sorry...Couldnt control my laughter. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

raasaaa......I beg to differ.....

pen manasu aalamunnu aambalaikkum theriyum...
athu pombalaikkum theriyum... antha
aaalathilee enna undu yaarukkuththaan theriyum.....

....I agree that girls talk a lot....emphasize... a lot....but that does not mean that they cant keep secrets...... if they resolve to keep something secret, then they are the toughest nuts to crack.... (But you would never know, when does they resolve for it....) :):):):)(Note: I am not a TKT) :):):)

silican
02-22-2005, 12:50 AM
No Yogeshu...

Girls can keep their secrets (அமுத்துறக ளின்னு கேள்வி பட்டுருக்க ீங்களா ?) and their own secrets. But tell a girl something and add a line "its a secret between u and me.." thats it. You cant imagine how far your secret 'travels'. :sm12: My personal experience...:)

- Silix

yogesh220
02-22-2005, 01:03 AM
ohh...OK....as I said earlier, the secrets we tell them to keep as secrets are doomed to be not kept as secrets...and they are always on the "DONT resolve to keep it secret list..."... yeah I have heard about Amuthurakali.....from you...

http://www1.yashrajfilms.com/images/humtum/cartoon/cartoon_44.jpg

silican
02-22-2005, 01:08 AM
Very funny :sm12: :sm12:

I like that cartoon girl's expression. :lol: :lol:

- Silix

suha
02-22-2005, 05:26 AM
wht means Amuthurakali.....adhu yaroda name??? :think:

silican
02-22-2005, 04:24 PM
amuthrakaali = person who is very quiet :ush: even after knowing a big secret. Adhu madhiri aalungalai ellam seekaram nambave koodadhu. :snooty: Silenta irundhuttu namakku pinnadiye kuzhi vettikitu iruppanga. :00:

- Silix

Shy
02-22-2005, 07:03 PM
Hello.. romba thaan :evil: :evil:

Velila thaan eppadi pechu.. girls pathi..

but the real fact is men are the best gossipers and secret losers :evil: :evil:

Shy

silican
02-22-2005, 07:21 PM
romba thaan

RDE - Romba Dhan :Evil:

Idhai neenga Unga Signature'la podalame..:think: Almost ella postliyum use panreengalennu edho oru chinna idea.. :ee:

- Silix

PS: Idhukku oru RDE potraadheenga :sm12:

Shy
02-22-2005, 07:47 PM
pooduvaen

romba thaan :evil: :evil:

;)

Yogi antha cartoon yaethoo oru hindi film related thaanae :think: me forgot the name....

Shy

yogesh220
02-22-2005, 09:01 PM
yeah....

Saif ali khan and my hearthrobe Rani mukherjeee in HUMTUM.....

"soochthiii hai jyaadaaa....
kam woh samjthee hai...."... :):):):)

Shy
02-22-2005, 09:26 PM
oh rani fana neenga... appo kandeepa black paarungo.. arumaiyaana acting

Ofcourse theater or DVDla parunga :)

Shy

Priyanka
02-23-2005, 12:33 AM
Hello.. romba thaan :evil: :evil:

Velila thaan eppadi pechu.. girls pathi..

but the real fact is men are the best gossipers and secret losers :evil: :evil:

Shy

Neenga solrathu correct thaan Shy! Romba naalaikku naan ladies mattum thaan gossip pannuvaangannu nenaccheen. But the way guys gossip! Ladies-aiye minjiduvaanga! And about keeping secrets... rrr... I don't have any idea how good are men in this. Athuvum ovvottharoda wife patthi comment vera adicchuppaanga!

But I accept that ladies-aala secret-a maintain panna mudiyaathu. You will not believe! Ennoda friend, purushanukku evvalavu sambalam, evvalavu kadan irukkunnu ellaam pesindruppaa! :doh: Majority of ladies-ku ethu ethu poratthiyaaroda pesalaam ethu ethu poratthiyaaroda pesa koodathunnee theriyarathillai. :doh: And they will always be complaining about their mother-in-law or sister-in-law which I really really hate! :doh:

yogesh220
02-23-2005, 12:46 AM
And they will always be complaining about their mother-in-law or sister-in-law which I really really hate! :doh:


thoodaaa.... yaaru sollrathu athai.... aththai???? :):):):lol:

silican
02-23-2005, 12:58 AM
You will not believe! Ennoda friend, purushanukku evvalavu sambalam, evvalavu kadan irukkunnu ellaam pesindruppaa!
Ippo adhaiye dhane neenga seyyareenga :sm12:


And they will always be complaining about their mother-in-law or sister-in-law which I really really hate!

You hate people complaining ?? :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: appo idhukku peru enna ?? :sm12: :sm12:

Sorry PK, enakennanne theriyalai :( unga kitta vambu valaththu adi vaangatti thookame vara maatengudhu :snooty:

- Silix

jaggy4u
02-23-2005, 01:09 AM
:lol: :lol: :lol:
silicx kalakittingha pongha :b:
paavam PK :wink:

Shy
02-23-2005, 01:53 AM
But I accept that ladies-aala secret-a maintain panna mudiyaathu. You will not believe! Ennoda friend, purushanukku evvalavu sambalam, evvalavu kadan irukkunnu ellaam pesindruppaa! :doh: Majority of ladies-ku ethu ethu poratthiyaaroda pesalaam ethu ethu poratthiyaaroda pesa koodathunnee theriyarathillai. :doh: And they will always be complaining about their mother-in-law or sister-in-law which I really really hate! :doh:

aaaaahaa .. intha aambalaingalae ippadi thaanu poi eppo majority of women :think:

Enna aachu PK...

paavam antha ponnu, u might have considered her poratthiyar, yaethoo nalla friendnu unga kita soli irupaa paavam :lol: :lol: just kidding....

About secrets, I disagree with you. Its not gender specific. Evaloo guys oota vai naan parthu irukaen and many girls you can never get anything out of... so oru individuala thaan parka mudiyum intha secret keepingkku..

Shy

yogesh220
02-23-2005, 02:26 AM
About secrets, I disagree with you. Its not gender specific. Evaloo guys oota vai naan parthu irukaen and many girls you can never get anything out of... so oru individuala thaan parka mudiyum intha secret keepingkku..

true ...true.....(naanum shy akkaakitta avanga palaya peeru keetteen...sollaveeyillai..... :):))

Priyanka
02-23-2005, 05:50 AM
paavam antha ponnu, u might have considered her poratthiyar, yaethoo nalla friendnu unga kita soli irupaa paavam just kidding....

I can't accept that. Enna thaan friend-naalum pesa vendiyathai thaan pesanum. Husband and wife naduvula oru privacy vendaamaa?


thoodaaa.... yaaru sollrathu athai.... aththai????

:cry: Enna Yogi ippadi sollitteenga? Entha oru post-laiyaavathu en maamiyaaraiyo naatthanaaraiyoo patthi complain panni ezhuthiyirukkeena? Ennai patthi nalla therinjirundhum ippadi sollitteenga! :cry: Very bad very bad! :snooty:

Shy
02-23-2005, 05:56 AM
I can't accept that. Enna thaan friend-naalum pesa vendiyathai thaan pesanum. Husband and wife naduvula oru privacy vendaamaa?

I dont qualify Loan and salary as a level of privacy.. Very best friends do discuss all these :)

Shy

Priyanka
02-23-2005, 06:18 AM
I can't accept that. Enna thaan friend-naalum pesa vendiyathai thaan pesanum. Husband and wife naduvula oru privacy vendaamaa?

I dont qualify Loan and salary as a level of privacy.. Very best friends do discuss all these :)

Shy

Well... Opinion differs. Husband and wife-kulla nadakkara vishaiyangkal naalu suvaththukkulla irukkanumnu ninaikkiraval naan. I will never discuss our private matters even to my parents.

Shy
02-23-2005, 02:37 PM
I can't accept that. Enna thaan friend-naalum pesa vendiyathai thaan pesanum. Husband and wife naduvula oru privacy vendaamaa?

I dont qualify Loan and salary as a level of privacy.. Very best friends do discuss all these :)

Shy

Well... Opinion differs. Husband and wife-kulla nadakkara vishaiyangkal naalu suvaththukkulla irukkanumnu ninaikkiraval naan. I will never discuss our private matters even to my parents.

Hello loan and salary doesnt happen in between 4 walls.. its the life we all are working for - OUTSIDE. 4 wallskkula kadakarthu onnae onnu thaan, I dont want to be specific nenaikuraen.. and ofcourse athai thaviravum many vishyangal we can have between couples.. but not materialistic things alone :)


Shy

jaggy4u
02-23-2005, 05:15 PM
aniyaayathukku topic aa divert panni eduthuttu poittangha...

Bluelotus
02-23-2005, 11:37 PM
jaggy bro...I wouldn't worry too much abt it :wink:

I shall take your advice into account when I get myself a boyfriend, and do exactly the opposite ..okievaa :sm12:

blue.

anjaligirl
03-15-2005, 04:07 AM
jaggy4u are u a guy or a girl? just wondering wat made u come up with this ?
Personal experience or wat you would like to see in you girlfriend?

jaggy4u
03-15-2005, 06:27 AM
jaggy4u are u a guy or a girl? just wondering wat made u come up with this ?
Personal experience or wat you would like to see in you girlfriend?

:00: :00: :00:

Sukran
05-28-2005, 11:53 PM
How about "Do Not Dump Him." and "Do not try to Kill Him?" :nono: :sm12:

Manju_11
05-29-2005, 02:50 PM
hmm ithellam ean boysku solla koodathu nu neenaichen, but inga suvita already post pannitanga. thnx