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valluvan
05-26-2006, 05:09 PM
This letter was written in response to an article in the NY Times: (with no harm meant to anyone in particular)



Pride of Asian Women



[align=justify:2e9149b86f]Dear Editor,
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Asian male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to an Asian male, good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Asian female's attitudes about our relationship.

My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Asian women were slim to none. As he said they were too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Asian men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world.

If Asian women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks. I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Asian men about why we white women are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us. Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Annan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...!

I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Asian men, let me know.

Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA.

The Response:

Dear Editor,
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.
Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old Sri Lankan man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful Non-White men.

I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why Asian men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why Asian men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The Sri Lankan girls in my neighborhood were raised traditionally. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.

Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of Asian males date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of Asian men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our Asian women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many Asian men look for a more docile woman! Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous Asian men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women.

I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful Asian men date white women. Non-Whites like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong Non-White women.

And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire Non-White women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert, DeNiro and David Bowie -to name a few.

I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed. Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess.

Remember, when Non-White Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.

Read your history! It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the Non-White woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was Non-White women who were breastfeeding and raising your babies during slavery. It is the Non-White woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Asian women were born with two strikes against them: being Non-White and being a woman.

And, through all this, still they RISE!

It is because of the Asian women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about Asian women.

Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with Asian women. I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin?

Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and ******* with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the Non-White woman has.

BOTTOM LINE:
If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman, someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children; someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. No offense taken, none given.

Signed,
Sri Lankan Royalty [/align:2e9149b86f]


Source : Forwarded mail

Shy
05-26-2006, 06:13 PM
enna ithu :think:

shy

san2003
05-27-2006, 02:12 AM
is this a true article??


then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin?

Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and ******* with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous?

so true... n the "MEN" still go for pale looking white women :doh: :lol:

valluvan
06-03-2006, 04:49 PM
enna ithu :think:

shy

Actually it seems that the first part of the article was a letter written by an white woman to a news paper challenging asian women. A SL dude responded to that letter nicely explaining the prides of asian women.

Though I couldn't confirm the authenticity of the article as the source is a forwarded mail, I thought that the SL dude responded nicely and cleverly. Hence shared here.

any offence? :think:

Bluelotus
06-03-2006, 05:23 PM
blah blah who cares.... all those who want to get married to white or yellow or pink or brown or purple or blue :wink: ppl go ahead :ahha: I'll come throw the confetti (oh and the arisi too----- along with my ever-following-lost-puppy :ahha: )

rosa_mystica
06-03-2006, 05:35 PM
If i was white, i would be a "dead man (girl) walking"

Go SL dude!!! he totally rocks!!!

vasan
06-03-2006, 05:56 PM
Its a forwarded mail thats been around for a while, Valluvan.

This is what Gordelvansmargd (in another post, right here) calls as asian xenophobia. Just playing to south asian pride.. by stereotyping people.

Silly. And untrue. And meant to be malicious.

Vasan

valluvan
06-03-2006, 06:10 PM
oh... okie.

vasan
06-03-2006, 06:15 PM
all those who want to get married to white or yellow or pink or brown or purple or blue :wink: ppl go ahead



Yeah.. yeah.. Just rush in, where angels fear to tread. Right ahead, full steam..

v- :sm12: :sm12:

ps: Didn't read it properly before.. :doh: :ee: :P

dinesh
06-03-2006, 06:28 PM
Silly. And untrue. And meant to be malicious.
Yup. :b:

From Keira to Halle, from Michelle Wie to Meera Jasmine, they are all pretty. Why bother arguing over trivial things like colour? :ee:

valluvan
06-03-2006, 06:42 PM
From Keira to Halle, from Michelle Wie to Meera Jasmine, they are all pretty. Why bother arguing over trivial things like colour? :ee:

you have a point dude :ee: