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arumugam57
10-21-2003, 07:00 PM
Guys you know one of our geetham members , one tamil guy married a hindi speaking girl who is still going for party , dance , drinkinking etc etc. So lot of fights there in their home for 48 hours per day. He is a big booser , big womeniser , big puffer but he don't want his wife do all those things.

My general question is " I wanna know a indian guy's opion.. possible ? wat do u guys think of a gal who goes clubbing, smoke or drink... i know guys do tat all the time... guys wana have fun rite? why can't gals do tat.. i know some guys dun mind... but for those guys who mind and also feels tat only guys can do such stuff... wats UP wif tat??... "

vasan
10-21-2003, 07:09 PM
same thing as what I would think of a guy who goes clubbing and smoking... :) No difference whatsoever.... And yes, I am an Indian.

dinesh
10-21-2003, 07:30 PM
I wanna know a indian guy's opion.. possible ?

Does that mean you don't want ME here?


Guys you know one of our geetham members , one tamil guy married a hindi speaking girl who is still going for party , dance , drinkinking etc etc. So lot of fights there in their home for 48 hours per day. He is a big booser , big womeniser , big puffer but he don't want his wife do all those things.

er...good story....

sri_gan
10-21-2003, 07:32 PM
I differ a bit but I like to respect human values.

1. Naan Party clubbing ellam pannurathu illai, I expect my girl to be that way also, but if she differs, I may give company with an expectation she will understand my feeling also.

2. It is not about Indian or Asian or a Kattu vasi... when it is centers around me it is about humanity.

3. Not everything we do is rite and not everything we do is bad.. these are just material.

4. I strongly believe in a world which is beyond material, it can be anything you can term it as Dream, looser, Maya anything... but its my own world and everyone is treated with the feeling they are a same exact counter part.

5. I believe in souls.

If these are all can be a part of something, I strongly say I'm a human and I value any other human.

sri_gan
10-21-2003, 07:34 PM
I wanna know a indian guy's opion.. possible ?

Does that mean you don't want ME here?


Guys you know one of our geetham members , one tamil guy married a hindi speaking girl who is still going for party , dance , drinkinking etc etc. So lot of fights there in their home for 48 hours per day. He is a big booser , big womeniser , big puffer but he don't want his wife do all those things.

er...good story....

Shidinesh this is not like some other forum.. "er.." ;) I guess you know what i mean.. If you have your own thoughts share it then raise the questions. Gotcha?

dinesh
10-21-2003, 07:37 PM
Shidinesh this is not like some other forum.. "er.." I guess you know what i mean.. If you have your own thoughts share it then raise the questions. Gotcha?

of course it is not some other forum.......
please read my post carefully.
the question has only been asked to 'indian guys'. So I have asked arumugam permission whether I can contribute. And I'm waiting till he gives me permission.

sri_gan
10-21-2003, 07:38 PM
Shidinesh this is not like some other forum.. "er.." I guess you know what i mean.. If you have your own thoughts share it then raise the questions. Gotcha?

of course it is not some other forum.......
please read my post carefully.
the question has only been asked to 'indian guys'. So I have asked arumugam permission whether I can contribute. And I'm waiting till he gives me permission.

Ofcourse you can, thats the form I can bring you into that innum ma puriyalai... + Read my postings on what I stand ok va...

vennai1
10-21-2003, 07:38 PM
Drinking within limits (say once a week) can be tolerated.

And smoking occasionally (say once a day) is ok. :b:

Clubbing (once a week or even better once a fortnight) is ok ;)


as long as money is being spent tooooooooo much ! :b:

anainar
10-21-2003, 08:27 PM
I underwear drinking, smoking. What is that clubbing? Strip clubbing? Illati getting together at some place? Clearaa sollunga.

I have one thing though. Smoking is injurious to health, whether with in limits or not. So there is no question of differentiating. Both should avoid that. But woman, it is even more required, for the simple reason that they carry babies. It is more out of physiology rather than morality. Same is true for drinking and woman. Again, drinking occasionally could be ok, but not while pregnant or nursing a baby.

Clubbing I dont understand. We guys get together at one of our place normally on weekends, play games, cook food toether and all such things. Dont know whether that is categorised as clubbing. But strip clubbing everyday is bad. Once in a while for a bachelor party is fine :lol: :lol: :lol:

Cheers.

arumugam57
10-21-2003, 08:31 PM
the question has only been asked to 'indian guys'. So I have asked arumugam permission whether I can contribute. And I'm waiting till he gives me permission.

Enna ithu.. By chance if you contribute with out my permission then naan enna unnodatha iluthu vatchu aruthruvanaa enna? I mean am I going to cut your throat (nothing else) or what?.

Just tell your opinion yaar.

BTB I know what are you going to tell about this topic. :ee: :ee: :ee: :ee:

arumugam57
10-21-2003, 08:35 PM
Drinking within limits (say once a week) can be tolerated.
And smoking occasionally (say once a day) is ok. :b:
Clubbing (once a week or even better once a fortnight) is ok ;)
as long as money is being spent tooooooooo much ! :b:

Anne what about she is taking tution for only one night with her boy friend .. She may take tution about the secrets of life and will teach you after wards for free of cost. Let it be yearly once?. :ahha: :ahha: :ahha: :ahha: :ahha:

sri_gan
10-21-2003, 08:35 PM
Dont know whether that is categorised as clubbing. But strip clubbing everyday is bad. Once in a while for a bachelor party is fine


Arumuganainar,

what is the difference?

Once bachelor party nu sollunga othukiren.

Once in a while athukku meaning vera correcta?

enna i like these words:

Kalavum katru mara.

anainar
10-21-2003, 08:39 PM
Ada paavi Srigan,

Bachelor party of your friends pa. Not necessarily yours. Well, athu kooda no problem for guys who divorce their wives on the fly( or guys who get divorced by their wives on the fly )...

Cheers.

sri_gan
10-21-2003, 08:50 PM
Ada paavi Srigan,

Bachelor party of your friends pa. Not necessarily yours. Well, athu kooda no problem for guys who divorce their wives on the fly( or guys who get divorced by their wives on the fly )...

Cheers.

:lol: appo ennoda bachelor party kku varamattenga... enna vo ponga Arumugainar... any way you are a married man.... naan innum kavali payaa than....

arumugam57
10-21-2003, 09:05 PM
enna vo ponga Arumugainar... any way you are a married man..

Etho Oru thadava kannalam pannittaaru. Athukulle "he is married man" a enna? :nono::nono::nono::nono::nono: :nono:

Aiyanar is still a ilamai unjaladum bachalor minor. You know his nice name also Mr. Minor Kunju. you know?

Cheers.

sri_gan
10-21-2003, 09:06 PM
Aiyanar is still a ilamai unjaladum bachalor minor. You know his nice name also Mr. Minor *bad word*. you know?



Seri 6face, :lol: ethukaga athukku avara bad word ellam pottu kuppidure....

vennai1
10-21-2003, 09:07 PM
clubbing is not only strip clubbing...it includes having a night out

for fun - may be dance, bar, video gaming, etc.

sometimes done in pairs - sometimes it might be all girls night out.

but it is a little too expensive to be done often. :nono:

anainar
10-21-2003, 09:39 PM
6Face,

Athu enna bad word? I know "Minor Mappillai" and Mappillai is not a bad word. And, naan ellam verum pechu thaan. Kamukkama iruppaangaly, antha paartynga thaan dangerous.( ungala maathiri ).

Sri, aana unga paarty epponnu sollunga, enge irunthaalum odi vathuruven. But they have banned lap dance in Cal. So dont have party there. Go to some other place.

Cheers

vennai1
10-21-2003, 09:46 PM
iyannaar, 6face solraa maari... you are behaving like a

Mr. Minor Kooonju ;) ;) ;)

anainar
10-21-2003, 09:59 PM
Minoraa? Naana? Cha, konjam unmai pesinaa minoraa? Inga US/Netherlands/France/Italy la club pogaathavanga yaarunnu sollungappa paarkalaam? And I dont wear silk dhothi and jibba or gold chain. Me an ordinary citizen, pays my taxes and tickets, and stop at stop sign religeously. Me not a minor! Minor ellaam 6Face, always ready to rape a Delhi girl! :lol: :lol: Ithula vera he said he wants advance notice for better performance if Simran is coming in Delhi girl dress. Avaru minoraa , illaati naana??

Cheers.

vennai1
10-21-2003, 10:03 PM
just wrote that to clarify that bad word thing you people were

talking about ;) ;)



btw, iyaanaar nee minor illa aanaa major .. ;) ;)

arumugam57
10-21-2003, 10:09 PM
Vennai.., What you told is correct.

Anainaar is a married minor koooonjuu. I have to inform any girl/guy who is having Tuppaki to give a good treatment to anainaar.

Ok vennai.. So many messages before I asked you one question. You didn't see or what?

vennai1
10-21-2003, 10:23 PM
Anne what about she is taking tution for only one night with her boy friend .. She may take tution about the secrets of life and will teach you after wards for free of cost. Let it be yearly once?. :ahha: :ahha: :ahha: :ahha: :ahha:





paadam theriyavillai endraal ennai ketkattum... ;)

enakkum theriyavillai endraal trial and error seithe

naangal pizhaiththu kolvOm ;) ;)

um pondru poli tuition master kalidam sellaa kuudaathu :nono: :evil:

dinesh
10-21-2003, 11:07 PM
BTB I know what are you going to tell about this topic

oooh...anyway I'll tell it.
Girls who choose to smoke or go clubbing is nothing of my concern. It's their choice and they have the right to do whatever they please as long as it is legal.

Now coming to the point where this concern a girl who is my partner, again I cannot actually set them 'rules and regulations'. It's their choice and they have every right to decide themselves. BUT, I'll let them know my displeasure about smoking, as I don't like smoking, but will not force them. Then again, I don't expect a girl who smokes to end up as my partner :lol:

clubbing is quite harmless as long as you don't overdo it, or get into the additional "benefits" (like ecstasy, say).....it's just a place just to have a good time, eventhough in my personal opinion it's just a waste of time.
I certainly wouldn't have anything against my partner going clubbing, as long as she knows what she is doing, which she ought to, as a grown-up.

sri_gan
10-22-2003, 12:04 AM
Minoraa? Naana? Cha, konjam unmai pesinaa minoraa? Inga US/Netherlands/France/Italy la club pogaathavanga yaarunnu sollungappa paarkalaam? And I dont wear silk dhothi and jibba or gold chain. Me an ordinary citizen, pays my taxes and tickets, and stop at stop sign religeously. Me not a minor! Minor ellaam 6Face, always ready to rape a Delhi girl! :lol: :lol: Ithula vera he said he wants advance notice for better performance if Simran is coming in Delhi girl dress. Avaru minoraa , illaati naana??

Cheers.

Naan ponnathu illa. Avalothan.

vijey
10-22-2003, 04:10 AM
i thing also that if the men or women has to decide what they are doing.

only one probleme.
the women has to be very carefull if she is pregnant because of that child.

arumugam57
10-22-2003, 08:41 AM
Inga US/Netherlands/France/Italy la club pogaathavanga yaarunnu sollungappa paarkalaam?

Naan ponnathu illa. Avalothan.

Sri.. Ange yellam nee poga mudiyathu. That is only for Adults. Means the guy / girl who attained 15 years or more. You can go after five years to those places. Ok. Athuvarai kaathiru.

Cheers.

dinesh
10-22-2003, 09:05 AM
Means the guy / girl who attained 15 years or more

18 is more likely. Most of the places ask you for ID if you look like you are an underage person.

arumugam57
10-22-2003, 09:20 AM
Thanks for info shidinesh.

Then sorry sri_gan. You have to wait just 8 years more. Then you can enjoy all those puffs , parties , dances Ok?.

Cheers.

anainar
10-22-2003, 12:59 PM
Thanks for info shidinesh.

Then sorry sri_gan. You have to wait just 8 years more. Then you can enjoy all those puffs , parties , dances Ok?.

Cheers.

Cha, Sri, intha vaaru vaararaanga ellarum! :lol: :lol: Thevaya ithellam? Pesaama kaiyayum vaayayum moodikittu iruntha solluvaangala ippadi? Any way, looks like I may have to wait for 15-20 years for your bachelor party. Athukkullay minor position will go to 6Face. So naan varra mudiyaathu. Neengalay enjoy :lol: :lol:

Cheers.

sri_gan
10-22-2003, 02:08 PM
Thanks for info shidinesh.

Then sorry sri_gan. You have to wait just 8 years more. Then you can enjoy all those puffs , parties , dances Ok?.

Cheers.

Appuram naan ponnathu illai nu specifica solliruken... naan parthathu illai nu sonnenaa??? think raja...

For example: Ange irruka computers and disco lights and dance plasma tv, vip room inge ellam kuda poirupen... some other reason kaga... not necessary to booz and booz and booz.. :ee:


Well, Anyways... I know why sali pudicha arumugam got excited... Nenga venna parunga ethavathu overa solli mattikuvan... Give and take policy theriumala...


I have little krishna on my avator for a reason...

Arumuganainar varuranga nu nenga nenacha naan enna pannamudium... the more the people talk about me the more the people know about me....

:lol: Well, In one way it is an advantage for me and not to the topic enna correcta???

Every single aspect of life is fun, when you know how to have fun... it is not necessary that you are child, or bachelor or a married man.

When you know how to have fun then thats what it counts ...

Waiting for counter response.... *Topic Sudu pidikithu*

arumugam57
10-22-2003, 04:47 PM
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sri_gan
10-22-2003, 06:36 PM
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Enna Aarumuga.. onnum theriyatha mari :Ksp: ellam podure... I asked something and I told something reply pannu raja.... can i reduce that bolds to italic.. will it make you talk ....

anainar
10-22-2003, 06:45 PM
Sri,

I read your post again and again, but ennoda kuruvi moozhaikku onnume puriyalai. You said you had been to some place, but to watch tube lights. Ithu enna kathai? Netila adichaa maathiri sollunga. Nammoda Frontal Cortex will not take subtle hints. Straightaa sollanum. Have you ever been to a strip club? Yes or no! It does not matter whether you went to watch disco lights or computers. Poneengala illaya? Athu thaan question.

Aama, athu enna Krishna avatar? Avaru thaan intha leelaila mannan theriyumo? He will be surrounded by gopika streegal always. Neengalum appadithaano?

Cheers.

arumugam57
10-22-2003, 06:52 PM
I understood some thing.
sri gan went to stip club places. But not for watching stripping. But for cleaning the tube lights. :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

I am not telling that. Sri_gan is telling that.

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

sri_gan
10-22-2003, 06:56 PM
Sri,

I read your post again and again, but ennoda kuruvi moozhaikku onnume puriyalai. You said you had been to some place, but to watch tube lights. Ithu enna kathai? Netila adichaa maathiri sollunga. Nammoda Frontal Cortex will not take subtle hints. Straightaa sollanum. Have you ever been to a strip club? Yes or no! It does not matter whether you went to watch disco lights or computers. Poneengala illaya? Athu thaan question.


Strip clubs kku naan poganum nu nenachathu illai so pogalay.

I've seen clubs, it is friendly favour is fixing some electronics over there so Athunala club pakalai nu soll matten.

I have lot of western friends also, Avanga party kku pogum pothu I will be quietly watching when they drink even now, yet I tasted drinks when I liked to taste it... "kalavum katru mara"

Why i'm telling that is because everything we do is under our control not beyond that and I will not tell any reasons on to blame a situation...




Aama, athu enna Krishna avatar? Avaru thaan intha leelaila mannan theriyumo? He will be surrounded by gopika streegal always. Neengalum appadithaano?

Cheers.

Ithukkuthan intha kelvikkuthan antha avatare potten.
Krishna was playing with girls when he was under the age of 10 so to a matter of fact antha agele we don't really see a gender difference or I would say pure form of love. I love to go to that age and play like him, but i'm just another material person, who survives with facts of science, and I do eat the food when I'm hungry....

Rombe pesurano... But this topic is really good.




I understood some thing.
sri gan went to stip club places. But not for watching stripping. But for cleaning the tube lights. :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

I am not telling that. Sri_gan is telling that.

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:


Erkanave naan sonnen... Sometimes i will be quiet to get the informations from others,, so now i'm quiet. :ee: nee aadu 6face... neeye ethachum solluve... :ee: appa irruku.

anainar
10-22-2003, 06:58 PM
6Face,

Enakku onnu appadiyay oru dialogue vaaila varuthu Srigan pathi, but given that this forum is not such a place, me keeping my mouth shut!!! Intha Dhool padathula, Reema and Vikram will be closeted in bedroom, and Reema will be teaching Vikram. Appo current cut aayidum because of Jyothika. Appo mayilsaamy will tell this dialogue!!! Srigan, watch the movie and appurama vanthu sollungo...

Cheers

sri_gan
10-22-2003, 07:00 PM
6Face,

Enakku onnu appadiyay oru dialogue vaaila varuthu Srigan pathi, but given that this forum is not such a place, me keeping my mouth shut!!! Intha Dhool padathula, Reema and Vikram will be closeted in bedroom, and Reema will be teaching Vikram. Appo current cut aayidum because of Jyothika. Appo mayilsaamy will tell this dialogue!!! Srigan, watch the movie and appurama vanthu sollungo...

Cheers

Come on.. nenga sollunga athuthan nalla irrukum ....

I think i have that movie some where... I think in WMV format.. Diwali kku venuma???

Ellarum enjoy pannatume...PM me...

anainar
10-22-2003, 07:13 PM
Sri,

I have watched that movie in DVD. Nice movie and Jyothika was so nice in that movie. Ahh! intha scenela, Mayilsaamy will ask Vivek, "Boss, naan vena oru light kondu varatuma?". Vivek will rue himself, "Aaamaanda, intha vilakku pudikkara velai mattum thaan baaki, athayum seyya solluthiyaa??"

Oru velai ithukkaaga thaan you went to Strip clubs Srigan?? Advance apologies, if you are offened Srigan.

Cheers.

vennai1
10-22-2003, 08:29 PM
what is wrong in going to strip clubs?

why are you people shouting at srigan??? :think:

anainar
10-22-2003, 08:33 PM
Who is shouting at Srigan? Pona ponennu sollama, I wentto watch disco lights, computer and video games nu avaru thaan peela vuttutu irukkaru. Naanellam pona, only for watching figures. Tube light, video games are all distractions. It is for Srigan maathiri aalungalukku.That is why we are pulling his legs.

Naanvathu strip club porathu thappnnu solrathavathu? Athellem sariya panna vendiya nerathula coreeta pannanum. Illati thaan problem.

Cheers.

sri_gan
10-22-2003, 08:46 PM
Who is shouting at Srigan? Pona ponennu sollama, I wentto watch disco lights, computer and video games nu avaru thaan peela vuttutu irukkaru. Naanellam pona, only for watching figures. Tube light, video games are all distractions. It is for Srigan maathiri aalungalukku.That is why we are pulling his legs.

Naanvathu strip club porathu thappnnu solrathavathu? Athellem sariya panna vendiya nerathula coreeta pannanum. Illati thaan problem.

Cheers.

Who is saying I got shouted... Pointe vittu puttu... enna pathiye pesurenga Iyyanaar..... Nenge enna ellam pannurengalo athu ellam ennalaium pannamudium and it proved its in our hand and not situation thats my point.

Nenga ellarum serunthu enn kala pulla pannunalum... I don't care thats why my avatar changed to little krishna... (Iyaanar do you agree with the krishna points i gave, pathila kannum)

Background pattu:

Theeratha Villatu pillai.. kannan
Theruvila pengalukku oyaatha thollai....


Nenga enakku frienda irrunthu enkuda pazhakina only you can completely say naan peela vidurana.. illa naan sollura mariye irrukana nu therium... correcta?

dinesh
10-22-2003, 09:20 PM
are we talking about normal clubs or strip clubs??? I was under the impression that 'clubbing' in the topic meant normal nightclubs

sri_gan
10-22-2003, 09:32 PM
are we talking about normal clubs or strip clubs??? I was under the impression that 'clubbing' in the topic meant normal nightclubs

Unakku ella replies um padikka neram illai nu therliva ve theriyuthu... kelvi kekuratha paaru...

anainar
10-22-2003, 09:36 PM
Dinesha,

The topic started as normal club only. Naan thaan added strip club. Ellaam koncham spice serthu vudathaan. Ippo paarunga, Sri has gone ballistic, saying he did not go to strip club.

Sri, I agree with you dude. Unless I have been with you or known you for 10 years, still I cant say whether you went to a strip club or not. How can I be sure that you did not go when I was not around?? :lol: :lol:

The point is not about whether you went or not. You said, you might have gone, but to watch disco lights or computers. Ange thaan prachinayay. That is what we were pulling your leg about. Nothing else. I know many of my friends who had never been to such clubs. May be they dont know what they are missing:lol: :lol:

So hats off to you for being such a sport, despite me walking a thin line and at times crossing that also to pull your legs. Good spirits buddy, :b: :b: :b:

Cheers.

vennai1
10-22-2003, 09:40 PM
no idiot will go to strip clubs to watch the disco lights... !


in olden tamil there is a proverb...

if listener is **, people will say somebody has got 2 ** ;) ;)


ithe kathai thaan inga... :lol:

anainar
10-22-2003, 09:47 PM
Sri,

Naan sollalaingo, solrathu Thalaivar. Avaru paadu unga paadu. Pogalainnu sollunga, vitturrom, and we will stop.

Athai vittutu, poyirukkalaam,appadiyay ponalum disco light paarka ponen, computer paarka ponengra kathai ellam venam. Athu thaan solrom. If you are in California, you are in for tough times. They have passed law that the dance cannot go closer than 6 ft to the customer. Appuram enna fun?

Cheers.

sabeshan
11-13-2003, 05:55 AM
Mr. Minor *bad word* nna enna?? Naa Vivek comedy ellam avvalavaa paakaradhilla... :)) :))

katteri
11-16-2003, 12:36 PM
Kalyanam enbhathu 1000 kalauthu payir yosithu mudivu pannannum....
Think b4 u act...
But most of the women in india were not asked for their opinions of their partner selection atlast what happens is ...she gets adjusted to the behaviour of her hubby...(kalanalum kanavan FULL ANAlUM purushan)...The topic is not evils of drinking/smkng/clbbng.......What they need is better understanding of each other....if this not so 48 hours illai ella neramum sandai than :sm17: :sm18: :sm19: :sm15:@ the same time its nothing wrong women smkng /drinking if men does why cant they..... :?:

cselva
11-18-2003, 02:36 PM
BEFORE MARRIAGE A BOY OR GIRL CAN BE HOW EVER THEY WANT AS SOON AS A BOND LIKE MARRIAGE IS MADE THERE IS A GIVE&TAKE POLICY LIKE U HAVE TO SACRIFICE SOME THING WHICH U WANT SO U WILL BE ABLE TO LEAD LIFE IN A HAPPY WAY FOR EVER .FOR DISCUSSION WE CAN SAY OH OKAY SHE CAN GO FOR NIGHT CLUB ,BAR HAVE DRINK.THINK WHEN THEY GETS A BABY IF THE BABY IS WISHING TO GO WITH THEM DO THEY TAKE THE BABE WITH THEM???

katteri
11-18-2003, 08:01 PM
BEFORE MARRIAGE A BOY OR GIRL CAN BE HOW EVER THEY WANT AS SOON AS A BOND LIKE MARRIAGE IS MADE THERE IS A GIVE&TAKE POLICY LIKE U HAVE TO SACRIFICE SOME THING WHICH U WANT SO U WILL BE ABLE TO LEAD LIFE IN A HAPPY WAY FOR EVER .FOR DISCUSSION WE CAN SAY OH OKAY SHE CAN GO FOR NIGHT CLUB ,BAR HAVE DRINK.THINK WHEN THEY GETS A BABY IF THE BABY IS WISHING TO GO WITH THEM DO THEY TAKE THE BABE WITH THEM???

Thats s the reason most modern families and foreign people have child after 5-6 years

cselva
11-19-2003, 03:58 PM
SO WHAT COULD BE THE SOLUTION .MODERN FAMILIES&FOREIGN PEOPLE R STOPPING TO GO AFTER 5OR 6 YRS

anjaligirl
04-23-2004, 06:07 PM
Clubbing is just something that pl grow out of, or do rarely after they get jobs and famillies. Atleast that is what happens in Western countries. A lot of tamil girls also drink including myself and I see nothing wron with that as long as it is done with moderation, that aplies to guys as well. If the guy is drinking and clubbing and he expects the girl to be otherwise, hes got another thing comming to him.

raja1234
06-13-2004, 02:09 AM
o.k they can smoke drink or do whatever they want. But if they do it thinking thats freedom of expression, equality to men or modern way of life......then I pity them.

They are lost persons of this world.