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ns80
02-22-2007, 04:50 AM
Why is that women after they get married, push every guy above 25 whom they know closely (like brother, cousin, friend) into marraige appa-amma'va vida ivanga forcing jasthi. indha kola verikku karanam enna ?

tinker
02-22-2007, 04:53 AM
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

vasan
02-22-2007, 04:53 AM
indha kola verikku karanam enna ?

kola veriyaa.. :00: :sm12: :sm12: adap paavs.. :sm12:

Ellaam pasam thaan, kaNNaa.. paasam thaan. :ee: :b:

Always-sees-the-positive-thing-v- :ee: :wink:

butterfly
02-22-2007, 04:59 AM
Why is that women after they get married, push every guy above 25 whom they know closely (like brother, cousin, friend) into marraige appa-amma'va vida ivanga forcing jasthi. indha kola verikku karanam enna ?

:sm12: :sm12: :sm12: evalavu naal thaan freea suthuveengo :)

On a serious note after 25 its good to get married...rather thaan drag until after 30...specially for gals...thgh the trend now is changing...ppl are delaying marriage.

when we look at our parents its nice to see them relaxing at 50, no worries...enjoying their retirement...so y cudnt we do the same?

wat is the harm in getting married & sharing our life with another person?....when u have decided to do so...y prolong it?

vasan
02-22-2007, 05:01 AM
when u have decided to do so...y prolong it?

Yes. The key is "when you have decided to do so".. Not a moment too soon.

v- :wink:

ns80
02-22-2007, 05:03 AM
paasam dhaan othukkaren. 1-2 vaati kekkalaam. kettukitte irundha eppadi :Ksp:

naan romba naal kazhichu paatha schoolmate'um ippadi thaan ovvoru vaatiyum kettu paduthara. ippadi nariya per irukkanga. adhukku thaan indha thread :ee:

tinker
02-22-2007, 05:04 AM
naan romba naal kazhichu paatha schoolmate'um ippadi thaan ovvoru vaatiyum kettu paduthara. ippadi nariya per irukkanga. adhukku thaan indha thread :ee:

You are not talking abt the naalvar ani ... are you ?

butterfly
02-22-2007, 05:05 AM
Yes. The key is "when you have decided to do so".. Not a moment too soon.

v- :wink:

heheehehe....u will decide when ur 25 & then wait for dunno wat ;)

ns,
ippo than notice senjen indha kola verikku karanam enna ?

neengale solli irukeengo someone closenu..like cousin,brother,friend....so dont u think its out of love & freedom they approach the person asking them to get married?

butterfly
02-22-2007, 05:11 AM
paasam dhaan othukkaren. 1-2 vaati kekkalaam. kettukitte irundha eppadi :Ksp:

naan romba naal kazhichu paatha schoolmate'um ippadi thaan ovvoru vaatiyum kettu paduthara. ippadi nariya per irukkanga. adhukku thaan indha thread :ee:

Ns,
Next time u see her...can u pls give her hifi for our naalvar ani sangam ;)

zephr
02-22-2007, 12:02 PM
they had felt the real married life,and in good faith they would like to see again,to the nearest,happening onbehalf - caring , love and due respect :)

anitam
02-22-2007, 01:29 PM
ns, veetla ponnu pakka aranbichacha.... good. eppa eppditha solveenga. Kalyanathukku apram pakkla enna solreenganu.

ns80
02-22-2007, 02:37 PM
You are not talking abt the naalvar ani ... are you ?

avangalayum serthu dhaan :sm12:
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neengale solli irukeengo someone closenu..like cousin,brother,friend....so dont u think its out of love & freedom they approach the person asking them to get married?

ippadi irukka eppovavadhu kekkalaam. eppome kettute irundha nallava irukkum sollunga ? avanga avangalukku edhavadhu career/monetary goals irukkum. adhukkappuram pannipaanga, parents' generation'la nariya per 30+, 35+ ellam pannitu irundhirukkanga. ippo ellam mid 20s to early 30s pannikaraanga, adhula enna thappu ? 25'la nariya per professional'a settle'e aagirukka mataanga.

sila perukku kalyanam pannikanum'ne ishtam irukkadhu. appadi irukkuravangal force panni enna prayojanam
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anitam, innum illa. enakku kalyanam anappuramum ippadi thaan solluven :D.

Shy
02-22-2007, 03:25 PM
aiyoo.. please RT pakkam pogaathe.. :oops: :oops: :oops:

Shy

ns80
02-22-2007, 03:34 PM
naan parthutten :lol: :lol: :lol:

Teena
02-22-2007, 03:39 PM
Ns....You just explain your privacy, wish and thoughts to the ones who are forcing you......if they are still forcing ignore them

Suppose adhu adhu unga akka or close family memebraa irudha you cannot ignore them istead explain pannungha unga viruppam yennanu and try to convince them.

You don't have to worry abt your marriage until 29 or 30. Enjoy your life!!! approm find your girl then settle down in life.

butterfly
02-22-2007, 06:12 PM
avangalayum serthu dhaan :sm12:
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ippadi irukka eppovavadhu kekkalaam. eppome kettute irundha nallava irukkum sollunga ? avanga avangalukku edhavadhu career/monetary goals irukkum. adhukkappuram pannipaanga, parents' generation'la nariya per 30+, 35+ ellam pannitu irundhirukkanga. ippo ellam mid 20s to early 30s pannikaraanga, adhula enna thappu ? 25'la nariya per professional'a settle'e aagirukka mataanga.

sila perukku kalyanam pannikanum'ne ishtam irukkadhu. appadi irukkuravangal force panni enna prayojanam
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anitam, innum illa. enakku kalyanam anappuramum ippadi thaan solluven :D.


Thats a totally different story ....i wud never recommend to force such ppl into marriage.

Ppl who are setlled professionally but just postponing marraige, shud give a reasonale excuse Y he/she dont want to marry...if thats not possible ppl will wonder & ask questions :)

an example i can give here...my friend 29 now, he his settled professionally, has his own home...but wanted to wait & enjoy his life...he went to India last year & his uncle asked him wats wrong?...at ur age u have no Gf nor ur ready for wedding...something must be wrong with u :)

butterfly
02-22-2007, 06:13 PM
Ns....You just explain your privacy, wish and thoughts to the ones who are forcing you......if they are still forcing ignore them

Suppose adhu adhu unga akka or close family memebraa irudha you cannot ignore them istead explain pannungha unga viruppam yennanu and try to convince them.

You don't have to worry abt your marriage until 29 or 30. Enjoy your life!!! approm find your girl then settle down in life.


Teena,
enna andha pakkam goal podareengo :evil:

Shy
02-22-2007, 07:42 PM
naan kekanumnu irunthen pattams ketutaango.. :b: teena..olunga intha boatkku vanthudu.. athaan unakkum nalathu :ee:

Seriously...

Indian mentality padi.. oru sandhooshamana life appadina.. correctaana timela padichu, career stablize aana appuram, within 1-2 yearsla marriagepanikarthu thaan.. people would want their loved ones to settle in life at the right age/time(settle meaning nalla career and having fun matum illai, marriage). So they tend to ask the question. Nambo kekalainu vachupoom, appuram intha oor mathiri till 35 kooda they will leading a very comfy life.. yes personall avangalukku athu supera irukkum thaan.. but vayasu poguthenu avangalukku theriyaathu.. so kooda irukara family friends appo appo nyabagam padutheena thaan they will know that..

pattams solra mathiri marriageae venaamnu irukaravangalai force panni the other partner (paiyanoo/ponnoda) lifeaiyoo namba spoil pana kuudathu.. athu thappu.. but intha vayasula yen avasaramnu think panni thatti kazhikaravangalai paduthalaam ;)

Shy

katteri
02-22-2007, 08:39 PM
naan kekanumnu irunthen pattams ketutaango.. :b: teena..olunga intha boatkku vanthudu.. athaan unakkum nalathu :ee:

Seriously...

Indian mentality padi.. oru sandhooshamana life appadina.. correctaana timela padichu, career stablize aana appuram, within 1-2 yearsla marriagepanikarthu thaan.. people would want their loved ones to settle in life at the right age/time(settle meaning nalla career and having fun matum illai, marriage). So they tend to ask the question. Nambo kekalainu vachupoom, appuram intha oor mathiri till 35 kooda they will leading a very comfy life.. yes personall avangalukku athu supera irukkum thaan.. but vayasu poguthenu avangalukku theriyaathu.. so kooda irukara family friends appo appo nyabagam padutheena thaan they will know that..

pattams solra mathiri marriageae venaamnu irukaravangalai force panni the other partner (paiyanoo/ponnoda) lifeaiyoo namba spoil pana kuudathu.. athu thappu.. but intha vayasula yen avasaramnu think panni thatti kazhikaravangalai paduthalaam ;)

Shy


Enna ippadi sollieteengaa...


Vayasu aachunnu en kavalai padanum....

Balavijay
02-22-2007, 08:40 PM
Seriously...

Indian mentality padi.. oru sandhooshamana life appadina.. correctaana timela padichu, career stablize aana appuram, within 1-2 yearsla marriagepanikarthu thaan.. people would want their loved ones to settle in life at the right age/time(settle meaning nalla career and having fun matum illai, marriage). So they tend to ask the question. Nambo kekalainu vachupoom, appuram intha oor mathiri till 35 kooda they will leading a very comfy life.. yes personall avangalukku athu supera irukkum thaan.. but vayasu poguthenu avangalukku theriyaathu.. so kooda irukara family friends appo appo nyabagam padutheena thaan they will know that..

pattams solra mathiri marriageae venaamnu irukaravangalai force panni the other partner (paiyanoo/ponnoda) lifeaiyoo namba spoil pana kuudathu.. athu thappu.. but intha vayasula yen avasaramnu think panni thatti kazhikaravangalai paduthalaam ;)

Shy
well said shy,.teacher endral teacher thaan..... :clap:.and other ladies.,Teena and pattam...:b:
nalla advise paa....nana.....you are so lucky :)

katteri
02-22-2007, 08:40 PM
Why is that women after they get married, push every guy above 25 whom they know closely (like brother, cousin, friend) into marraige appa-amma'va vida ivanga forcing jasthi. indha kola verikku karanam enna ?

Choose the best answer:
(A)
Naallu peru nalla santhosama irukkanumnaaa...

oruthan baligadaaa va porathu thappe illaa.....


(B)
Oruthaan nallaa iruntha ....nallu perukku pudikaathu....

Shy
02-22-2007, 08:47 PM
Choose the best answer:
(A)
Naallu peru nalla santhosama irukkanumnaaa...

oruthan baligadaaa va porathu thappe illaa.....


(B)
Oruthaan nallaa iruntha ....nallu perukku pudikaathu....

ennada captain sathaamae innum illaiyenu paarthen :snooty: :snooty:

athu enna guys thaan baligaadu.. yen girls iruka kudaatha enna.. athu antha antha relationship poruthu :evil: :evil:

yevaloo cases padikuroom.. girls baligaadu aagarathu..literally :evil:

Shy

katteri
02-22-2007, 08:51 PM
ennada captain sathaamae innum illaiyenu paarthen :snooty: :snooty:

athu enna guys thaan baligaadu.. yen girls iruka kudaatha enna.. athu antha antha relationship poruthu :evil: :evil:

yevaloo cases padikuroom.. girls baligaadu aagarathu..literally :evil:

Shy


3 nallu veliyaa poi irunthen....athukuleee enna ...ippadi adakki vasikureenu solreengaa..



Shy:

Oru diff: Girls ku athu suicide...prechanaii nu therinjeee kaala vaikurrangaa ...


Aana Boys ku appadi illaa...:

athunaa laa than Baligada..nu solrom....

Shy
02-22-2007, 08:56 PM
helllooooooooooooooo

therinchae thaan oru ponnu poi oru loosu'a marriage panikuraala enna

illai therinche thaan family ippadi torture paduthumnu marry panikuraala..

ellarkkum torture theriyaama poi mateekarthula thaan..

baliyaadu is also for girls.. parents avanga kadamai mudiyanumnu kooda marriage pani vachuduraanga.. are they asking her dreams???? so neenga oru side matum thaan kashtapadurathunu sola mudiyaathu :evil:

Shy

katteri
02-22-2007, 08:58 PM
helllooooooooooooooo

therinchae thaan oru ponnu poi oru loosu marriage panikuraala enna

illai therinche thaan family ippadi torture paduthumnu marry panikuraala..

ellarkkum torture theriyaama poi mateekarthula thaan..

baliyaadu is also for girls.. parents avanga kadamai mudiyanumnu kooda marriage pani vachuduraanga.. are they asking her dreams???? so neenga oru side matum thaan kashtapadurathunu sola mudiyaathu :evil:

Shy

Appadi paarthaaa


Boys ku vidivua kaalamee kidaiyathu.....

Shy
02-22-2007, 09:01 PM
:sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil:
:sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil:

Girls'kku thaan velichamae illai vaazhkaila.. :ee:

Shy

yasodha
02-22-2007, 09:07 PM
Shy points ellam i will agree...:b:

Nana ippo enna ungallukku marriage vendaamaa...sari pesaama saamiyaara poidunga athu thaan best...yaarum yathuvum solla maattanga...;) :sm12: oru thadavai samiyaarna life fulla samiyaar thaan athai maranthudaatheenga...:)

katteri
02-22-2007, 09:12 PM
:sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil:
:sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil: :sm15: :evil:

Girls'kku thaan velichamae illai vaazhkaila.. :ee:

Shy


Completely Side track:

Inthaangaa velicham.....

Appuram velicham thara mattengurangaa boys nu kutham sollaa theengaaa...
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Xtra velicham venumnalum kidaikkum..

chinglees
02-23-2007, 01:40 AM
Teena sonnathu thaan naanum solluven:p

chinglees
02-23-2007, 01:43 AM
Enna ippadi sollieteengaa...


Vayasu aachunnu en kavalai padanum....

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Shy
02-23-2007, 02:34 AM
captain :00::sm15:

Shy

Idiot
02-23-2007, 04:44 PM
Ns....You just explain your privacy, wish and thoughts to the ones who are forcing you......if they are still forcing ignore them

Suppose adhu adhu unga akka or close family memebraa irudha you cannot ignore them istead explain pannungha unga viruppam yennanu and try to convince them.

You don't have to worry abt your marriage until 29 or 30. Enjoy your life!!! approm find your girl then settle down in life.

:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

enakku therinju manasatchiyoda pesi irukeenga Teena :b: :sm08:

Yen vaazhthukkal :ee:
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ns,

invangalukku ellam mega serial paathuttu enna panurathunnu theriyalai. athaan mathavana potu nacharikarathu :doh:

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On serious note for guys 29 - 30 is better age to marry. will have some idea how to settle down and vaazhkaiya katti izhukarathoda innoru ponnaiyum katti izhuhthukittu poga vendiyathu thaan :ahha:

ns80
02-23-2007, 05:05 PM
idhu varaikkum Teena dhaan nyayama sollirukkanga :sm03:

adhu eppadi vayasu yerradhu theriyama pogum ? neenga sollalena kooda parents solla mataangala oru vayasukku mela. avan avanukku enna prechanayo.

neenga solra madiri sila perum irukkanga jolly'a irukkanum'nu. avangala ellam force panni enna aava povudhu. avangalukke theriyum enna panrom'nu. force panna mathram enna aavapovudhu ? oh BTW indha category'la sila ponnungalum irukkanga.

Idiot
02-23-2007, 05:10 PM
Whoever it is they can tell once, twice that is ok. kalaila coffee sapida aarambikarathulae irunthu, tiffin sapidum pothu, lunch, appo appo ethavathu kekka call pannum pothu, news kekum pothu..

sari ithai vitu kovilukku pogalaaamna angae oru jeevan vanthu nikkum :doh:

thambiya iruntha, annan kittae kekurathu thambikku eppopa kalyanamnu, annana iruntha thambikittae kekurathu eppopa annanukku kalyanmannu vera pozhappa kedaiyaathu. everybody have their own sense to think.

If it is going to be arrnaged marriage they will say at one point of time, everybody is educated and they know about their lifes. If it is going to be love marriage, antha ponnoda tholla thaangamaiyaavadhu :ahha: solliduvaan.

Shy
02-23-2007, 05:13 PM
hmmm..u guys are really pissed off.. :oops: :oops: :oops:

never thought so.

Shy

Minnie
02-23-2007, 08:28 PM
hmmm..u guys are really pissed off.. :oops: :oops: :oops:

never thought so.

Shy

shy,shy,shy...why why why:oops: :oops: ungalku enna work thaane vennum...intha guys ellam ippadi thaan bandha pannuvanga :ahha: they all are feeling vekkam :ee: for a change guys match pakkarathu vittu why not you try matching for geetham girls'ku :D of course me,blue and others wont mind if you take care of it ;) and hope you do know what kinda of qualifications we ask for ;) dont worry we wont putforth questions like Katz's friend :ahha: :ee: neega parthu ok sonna pothum no matter athu jeyam ravi or vishal :-D :ee:

Shy
02-23-2007, 08:42 PM
cho chweet.. chamathu girls.. kandeepa :b::b: :b: :b

Shy

Idiot
02-23-2007, 08:42 PM
shy,shy,shy...why why why:oops: :oops: ungalku enna work thaane vennum...intha guys ellam ippadi thaan bandha pannuvanga :ahha: they all are feeling vekkam :ee: for a change guys match pakkarathu vittu why not you try matching for geetham girls'ku :D of course me,blue and others wont mind if you take care of it ;) and hope you do know what kinda of qualifications we ask for ;) dont worry we wont putforth questions like Katz's friend :ahha: :ee: neega parthu ok sonna pothum no matter athu jeyam ravi or vishal :-D :ee:


appa inthaanga SHY tho vanthu irukaanga ellarukkum nalla maplaiyaaa paarungo.. ;) jeyam ravi, vishal, simbu, sibi, .. goundamani, senthil, vadivelu, karunaas :ee:

pasangala vidungo :oops: :oops: :oops: :clap: :clap:

Minnie
02-23-2007, 08:45 PM
appa inthaanga SHY tho vanthu irukaanga ellarukkum nalla maplaiyaaa paarungo.. ;) jeyam ravi, vishal, simbu, sibi, .. goundamani, senthil, vadivelu, karunaas :ee:

pasangala vidungo :oops: :oops: :oops: :clap: :clap:

shy look girls'ku start panna poringa therinju jealous/vekka patta parties ellam one by one coming out of bag :ee: symbolically feeling sorry for the oppurtunity they missed :ahha:

Idiot
02-23-2007, 08:47 PM
no sorry no hard feelings.

nalla paathu thalli vidungo engaeyavathu :wink:

Minnie
02-23-2007, 08:52 PM
no sorry no hard feelings.

nalla paathu thalli vidungo engaeyavathu :wink:

Yaara..ungala thaane :-D

katteri
02-23-2007, 09:18 PM
shy,shy,shy...why why why:oops: :oops: ungalku enna work thaane vennum...intha guys ellam ippadi thaan bandha pannuvanga :ahha: they all are feeling vekkam :ee: for a change guys match pakkarathu vittu why not you try matching for geetham girls'ku :D of course me,blue and others wont mind if you take care of it ;) and hope you do know what kinda of qualifications we ask for ;) dont worry we wont putforth questions like Katz's friend :ahha: :ee: neega parthu ok sonna pothum no matter athu jeyam ravi or vishal :-D :ee:


One second....

Vekkam etharkkuu.....

Angee suthi ingaa suthi kadasiyile en friend a kuttham sollainaa ungaala thooakamee varaathaaa.................... .

We are ready to look a match for u....


But i dont want to spoil ones life........:eek:


(joke aakum ...siringaaa:D )

Tom_arun
02-24-2007, 12:41 PM
ada pongo pa polatha vazkai, intha amma marugaluku,marumaga venumna namba thaliaye pottu urrutuvango,

matchi ns, ennaium un category la sethukopa:oops:

suha
02-24-2007, 06:01 PM
congrats PA:sm35:;) eppo married:ee:

oi congrats tommy;):sm35: sikirama amma ku orru DIL kutti tu po:ee:.......( but undoa athana gf kutti tu poidatha):doh:

Tom_arun
02-25-2007, 08:32 AM
Amma ku orru marumaga india la ,mathadhulaam aiya irukura edathula;)

ns80
02-25-2007, 08:37 AM
Amma ku orru marumaga india la ,mathadhulaam aiya irukura edathula

sugavasi ;) HK'ku yaarum vendama ;)
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congrats PA:sm35::wink: eppo married

irri irri nee employer post'lendhu fired :evil: :evil:

Tom_arun
02-25-2007, 08:46 AM
Hk ku thane,athu thaan namba Boss Suha oda friends irrukangale;)
Ns mothala athu panu pa intha employer seri illa:oops:

suha
02-27-2007, 05:16 AM
huh....my freinds enna ilachavala...( dont know sure wht it means) :ee:
odi po...poi unga urru US or india lae pathukko any illachava :ahha:

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PA...dont shy <<<<not akka>>>.......unmaiya solidu;)

coolian
02-27-2007, 06:48 AM
Dei nana...kalyanam vishayam ethaavathu iruntha, enkitta sollu da, naan advise kudukkarEn.

ns80
02-27-2007, 03:43 PM
adanga maatengreengale :snooty: :snooty:

Bluelotus
02-27-2007, 10:46 PM
adanga maatengreengale :snooty: :snooty:

The moment you mention the word marriage.....what did you expect :Ksp:

all singletons are at risk of being verbally tortured on the state of their non-existent-relationship by anyone who is in a stable relationship be they married or non-married.

Whether you go to a party or an old schoolmate's baby christening; the ultimate question will always be...so how come you're still single?
It doesn't matter if you've won the nobel prize, or swam across the atlantic to raise lots of dosh for cancer research... all they want to know is when you'll tie the stupid knott :Ksp:


They're just jealous NANA :ee:
just smile in a bouffon-ish kinda way...and grab something to eat instead :wink:
(answering back ain't worth it :ahha: )

Shy
02-27-2007, 10:56 PM
Dei nana...kalyanam vishayam ethaavathu iruntha, enkitta sollu da, naan advise kudukkarEn.

unakku enna theriyum, advice panra aLavukku :evil: :evil:

Shy

Priyanka
03-25-2007, 06:34 AM
Why is that women after they get married, push every guy above 25 whom they know closely (like brother, cousin, friend) into marraige appa-amma'va vida ivanga forcing jasthi. indha kola verikku karanam enna ?

Oru 30 vayasu varaikkkum vennaa kalyaanam pannikkalaam. Ana ungala maadhiri 80 vayasu varaikkum kalyanam pannikkaama irundhaa eppadi? ;)

P.S.: NS80-ngaradhanaala ungalukku 80 vayasirukkumnu nenaikkaren..:Ksp: Naan nenacchadhu sari dhaane? :lol: :lol: Hi! eppadi eppadi irukkeenga? Nice to see meet you. :yes:

ns80
03-25-2007, 09:20 AM
OPM,
idhellam peran pethingalukku ;)