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arumugam57
10-25-2003, 09:57 PM
சிந்தேஷ்!! நான் திருமணத்தை பற்றியே கருத்து வெளியிடுகி றேன் என்று நகைக்கதே !! :pray::pray::pray::pray:

திருமணத்தி ன் போது வரதட்சணை கூடாது...என் பது சட்டம்...
அது சரிதான் என்பது எனது கருத்தும் கூட...ஆனால் நடைமுறையில ்
அது ஒத்து வரவில்லை என்பது கண்கூடு....ஏ ெனில் 100 க்கு 90
திருமணங்கள ் வரதட்சணையோ டு தான் நடக்கின்றன . எனவே
அது சரியா ? தவறா? என்று பேசுவதை விட எது சிறந்த வரதட்சணை என ஆராய்வது தான் சிறப்பாக இருக்கும். எனது யோசனை ஒரு பெண்ணை பெற்றவர்கள ுக்கு அவளை திருமணம்
செய்து கொடுக்கும் பொழுது தன் மகள் காலம் முழுவதும் கண் கலங்காமல் சந்தோஷமாக eருக்க வேண்டும் என்று தான் விரும்புவா ர்கள். எனவே பெற்றோர் அவரவர்கள் வசதிப் படி தன் மகள் பெயரில் ஒரு வீடு வாங்கி தர வேண்டும்..... eதற்க்காக் ஆடம்பர
கல்யாண செலவுகள், தேவைக்கு அதிகமான நகைகள் ஆகியவற்றை
தவிர்த்து, வீடு ஒன்றை ரெஜிஸ்தர் செய்து தந்தால்....ம ப்பிள்ளைக கு
சொந்த வீடு eருந்தால்.... eந்த வீட்டை வாடகைக்கு விட்டு அதன் மூலம் மாதா மாதம் வாடகையாக ஒரு தொகை வரும் . அது மாப்பிளைக் கும்...ஏன் உங்கள் மகளுக்கும் ஒரு தொடர் உதவியாக
eருக்கும். தன் மூலம் நீங்கள் விரும்பியப டி உங்கள் மகள் காலம்
முழுவதும் மகிழ்ச்சிய ுடன் eருப்பது உறுதி. தங்கள் கருத்தை தெரிவிக்கல ாமே...?

sri_gan
10-25-2003, 11:06 PM
நீ சொல்வதை என்னால் ஒத்து கொள்ள முடியாது.

திருமணத்தி ன் போது வரதட்சணை கூடாது...என் பது சட்டம் என்றால் அதை மதிக்க வேண்டியது ஒவ்வொருவரி ன் கடமை.

இதை படித்தவர்க ள் முதலில் செய்ய வேண்டும்.

அப்போது தான் சமுதாயம் மேம் படும்.

dinesh
10-25-2003, 11:49 PM
some random stuff about dowry...
Dude......why are you posting really nteresting stuff about marriage, dowry etc. in the recent days? ;)

silican
10-25-2003, 11:53 PM
perusukku (6Face ) 57 vayasu (see ID)aaguthu. adhaan thannoda Paiyanukku perusu ponnu paakudhu. Evlo Dowry vaangalamnu therijikkaradhukkaga oru Quote kekkraar nammalai..

Silican

arumugam57
10-25-2003, 11:58 PM
Topic pathi pesungaiah!!

Shidinesh!! Athu thaan kai eduthu :pray::pray::pray::pray: pottu naan topic start panni irukkane.. Padikka mattiyaaa?

dinesh
10-26-2003, 12:07 AM
topic pathi ennatha pesa.....apart from saying it's a 'kena' thanamaana argument......
it's all fine to give dowry if the parents can afford it....but what about really poor people.......are those women not to get married forever?
and what about greedy grooms? do you think it's right to feed them forever......

shalu462000
10-26-2003, 04:01 AM
:clap: i'm accpt with u thoug. that's is the right way to give dovri. in this way the parents feel save for there dughter :clap:

saraku
10-26-2003, 10:59 AM
eppa dowry act support pannni pesarala payalovalaaa ... kelunga paa, en friend oruthar ipdi thaan dowry ellam vendam apdinu strong-a irunthaaru. moreover, arranged marriage thaan pannikuvenum irunthaaru .... avarku enna nelamai theriyumaa??? apdi engey pooi 'enaku dowry vendam" apdinu soll ponnu k-taalum, the first thought that struck the pen veetar was "may be this guy has some defects, athan dowry vendam-nu solran" ... my friend came to know of this thing through one of his family frnds who heard such a thing from the girl's family. after that my friend changed his mind and somehow married with usual dowry applicable to his status!

ithuthaan namma makaloda mentality! First change the mentality of givers, apram takers pathi kurai sollalam.

anainar
10-26-2003, 02:50 PM
Naan thaan sonnaynay, intha kaalathu pasanga are very well organised. I know guys who bought houses for them also before getting married. So, I am inclined to believe guys are not greedy. Most of us believe that forced dowry should be a thing of past.

Aana, sarakku maharaja brought up a nice point. Unless that also changes, such guys might be at disadvantage and will have to reconcile to status quo.

Ithukku thaan pesaaam love marriage pannungappa ellarum. Especially 6Face should fall in love with a mini skirt wearing Delhi girl and marry her. Enna, 6Face, Delhi is not going to leave you, where ever you go.

Cheers

thirudan
10-26-2003, 06:28 PM
that was right, and thing is even in these days in namakkal district the girl's parents are asking for the medical certificate of the groom for HIV free, thatmuch the people are aware , in that situation there is no need of thinking about the dowry na? also it seems, a house for a groom is the need of arumugam i think, thats y he is saying this as a minimum requirement ;) aaru, do u think a house in erumaipatti will do for a guy who is in washington dc? just think about this dear....
thiru....

vennai1
10-27-2003, 08:07 PM
6face,

very good thinking. to whomsoever it applies, that is the way

dowry needs to be done. most helpful for the bride and the groom

definitely. :b: :b:

having a own house is a lot more financially stronger than any other

assets... :b:

anainar
10-27-2003, 10:12 PM
Aama, what is this logic of the parents providing financial security to their children? Why, the guy/girl does not work or make a living himself? Cant he buy a house himself? Does anyone know how much satisfaction you get your own house, all by yourself? Those things cannot be told or expressed. Can only be felt.

My suggestion to all the guys/girls here is, please leave your parents alone, dont expect them to provide anything beyond education. You expect your parents to buy you a house, and that becomes a unfulfilled expectation if the parents cant deliver.

I am dead against any kind of security whether movable asset or in any other form provided by the parents. That makes their offsprings very dependant on them. I hated the movie Parthiban kanavu scene, when Srikanths father buys a house and gifts it to him. Dont know how many guys who see the movie might expect the same from their dads.

Cheers.

sri_gan
10-28-2003, 02:41 AM
Aama, what is this logic of the parents providing financial security to their children? Why, the guy/girl does not work or make a living himself? Cant he buy a house himself? Does anyone know how much satisfaction you get your own house, all by yourself? Those things cannot be told or expressed. Can only be felt.

My suggestion to all the guys/girls here is, please leave your parents alone, dont expect them to provide anything beyond education. You expect your parents to buy you a house, and that becomes a unfulfilled expectation if the parents cant deliver.

I am dead against any kind of security whether movable asset or in any other form provided by the parents. That makes their offsprings very dependant on them. I hated the movie Parthiban kanavu scene, when Srikanths father buys a house and gifts it to him. Dont know how many guys who see the movie might expect the same from their dads.

Cheers.


Ithu peechu Iyaanar...:clap: I waited for who will bring this :clap:

Summa appa vangikodu.. amma vangi koodu, mama vangi kodu..

Koncha nalaikku parents be happy.. ungalugaga than ivalo varusam kasta paduranga... ungalukku sappadu, dress, school, college, bus selavu.. ivalo pannium kalyanathukku dowry...

Oru self confidence ulla any person won't ask dowry, practically it is possible... unna kappathika unakku mudiyalai nu sonna athu somberithanam(lazyness).

Ovaru vettulaiyum, nammai pola thane avangalum nu nenuchuta ithu enn varuthu.... padicha pasanga ithu kekalama. Come on antha kalathula ellarthu kittiyum sothu irrunthuchu panninanga.. inniki nelamai appadiya irruku...

Eppadi thoonuthu, pannam kekalam nu.. ennala purunchukka mudiyalai, padicha pasanga avanga vettula ithu eduthu sollanuma illaya.

I heard one more thing also, if a mappillai says he don't need dowry then ponnu vettule speculation creat pannunvanga mappillaikku etho seri illai nu... come on give us a break.

Onnum mattum nalla theriyuthu.. marriage is very good business nothing but instead of adu maadu we have humans look at each other, kastama irruku.

anainar
10-28-2003, 04:57 PM
Siva,

Intha podu padareenga, we were telling guys to leave parents alone, without demanding anything from them. You are going one step ahead and asking guys to buy a house and give it to inlaws! Kilinchuthu lambaadi lungi ponga! Enna, veedu vaangarathu avlo easyaa? Athuvum kalyaanathukku vaangi, inlaws kudukkarathukku!! Super idea Siva. Engeyo irukka vendiyavaru neenga. Thavari poi inga vanthuteenga Siva.

Ungalukku payyan irukkaana? Iruntha sollunga, naan nalla ponnu paarkiren. Inga sonna maathiri inlaws ku veedu vaangi kodukkanum, enna? You should train your son also like you.

Cheers.

anainar
10-28-2003, 06:14 PM
Siva,

Ennamo, 6Face ukku solreenga theriyuthu. Naan kekkalai veedu as dowry. Kettathu 6Face.Avarukku purinja sari. Ithukku aamaam poda, innoru boom boom maadu Vennai vera. Ellam, ponnu pethu, kalyaanam panna try panna theriyum.

Dowry whether given voluntarily or forcefully should be avoided as much as possible. Leave the life if young ones in their own hands and let them decide what is that they want. They should deserve what they have. Appo thaan, they will know the value. Otherwise, they will be chella pillais, hiding behind their mama's pallus.

Cheers.

sri_gan
10-28-2003, 06:21 PM
Siva,

Ennamo, 6Face ukku solreenga theriyuthu. Naan kekkalai veedu as dowry. Kettathu 6Face.Avarukku purinja sari. Ithukku aamaam poda, innoru boom boom maadu Vennai vera. Ellam, ponnu pethu, kalyaanam panna try panna theriyum.

Dowry whether given voluntarily or forcefully should be avoided as much as possible. Leave the life if young ones in their own hands and let them decide what is that they want. They should deserve what they have. Appo thaan, they will know the value. Otherwise, they will be chella pillais, hiding behind their mama's pallus.

Cheers.

Iyyanaar enna intha thakku thakurenga... Vennai inga vanthu pathil sollunga... before answering read all the replies appo than ungalukku oru flow puriyum...

Pure Side track::

Boom Boom Shakka laaka boom shak.. ippadi ya thalaya aattuvenga vennai :evil:

vennai1
10-28-2003, 08:22 PM
adadaa...inga athukulla pala peru pesiteengalaa... hmm... :)


dei siva... endaa... unakku mandaila moolai irukaa... ??? :evil:

in-laws-kku veedu vaangi kodukaa makkal enna kenaiyaa...

illa vennaiyaa...rendum illa... ithu vetti thanamaana pecchu ! :evil:


your inlaws will be 50-60 years old..why would they need a house...

and if at all they need...and could not buy it all those years ...

why should a 20-30 year youth boy need

to buy it for them... podaangaa... ! :evil: :evil:


Dowry demand panrathuthaan thappu... :nono: :nono:

that creates problems...

but if older people want to give gifts to their sons and daughters

there is absolutely nothing wrong in it as long as it is not demanded !

:b: :b:

vennai1
10-28-2003, 10:32 PM
Dei vennai i know they wuld be 50-60 yrs old,idhai yen yosika maatengare eppadi irundhalum adhu aparama onnakku thaane vandhu serum makku. Also naan sonnadhunala appadiye vaangi koduthuda poraangala.

:b:





dei loosu siva... keela vizhundhum thaadila seru ottala kadha thaan... ;)

podaanga... who told inlaws property will come to you after you die...

it depends on their will da...

so ellaathaiyum yosichu thaan naanga pesurom... unna maari illa...


what i told is the main point... underwear that first :evil: :evil:

if a person is not able to buy a house all his life and he becomes

50-60 years old and then he cannot expect his would be maapillai

to buy him a house ..... podaanga... idea kodukara moonjiya paaru :evil:

anainar
10-28-2003, 10:46 PM
Correeta sonneenga Vennai. If a man could not buy a house after attaining 60 years, but could produce a daughter/s, does not deserve a house, whether from would be maapillai or anybody. Nera kannammapetai poi paduthukalaam avaru.

Cheers

vennai1
10-28-2003, 10:52 PM
Correeta sonneenga Vennai. If a man could not buy a house after attaining 60 years, but could produce a daughter/s, does not deserve a house, whether from would be maapillai or anybody. Nera kannammapetai poi paduthukalaam avaru.

Cheers


iyanaar, appadi podra... ;) ;) :clap: :clap:


aanaa romba thittathey da... enga maama orutharu irukaaru :(

he is also poor background...so he is around 60 - no house yet...

has a daughter... but luckily for him got her married...

indha siva sonnaa maari veedu elaam kettirundhaa avlo thaan

avaru ponnukku kalyaanam aanaa maari thaan... ;) ;) :P

vennai1
10-28-2003, 11:24 PM
Vennai enna innaikkum office la bad day va. Onnala yaaraiyum loose,moolai irukanu ketkama pesa mudiyaadha.

Naan enna sonnen,in-laws dowry ketpaangana solli iruken,namba yen virupa pattu dowry koduka koodadhunu thaan solli iruken. Nee budhisaliya irundha veedu vaangum podhu joint name la vaangu. Appo onnaku thaane vandhu serum after them.

I never in my statement mentioned that in-laws will ask for dowry appadi mention panni irundhena i ll delete all the posts i have posted in this topic.

:b:


dei loosu siva,

moolai illennu proove pannra paathiyaa... ;) ;) :evil: :evil:

endha budhisaalida in-laws oda joint name-la veedu vaanguvaan...!!

podaa podaa... neeyum on idea-vum... :evil: :evil:


dowry vangurathu thappunnu sollu othukaren... but athukkaaga

orediyaa pondaati appanukku veedu innum vere enna...elaam

vaangi kodukanumnu sollathey..enna... ! :evil: :evil: :evil:

aamaa geetham login panrathukku munnaadi moolaiya kazhatti

vechuttuthaan varuviyaa... :fight: :fight: :think: :lol: :lol:

sri_gan
10-28-2003, 11:26 PM
Enna nadakuthu inga...

Naan dowry ye keka kudathu nu suthuren... inga adutha dowry round poikittu irruku...

Athula avan avan eppadi labakikalam nu idea vera.

Seri ithe mari ovvoru ponnu vitulayum pannuna summa than viduvengala? enna ponnoda sontha thambi anna akka thangachi ivanga perula jointa veedu vangi kodutha vangipingala?

Rouse a paruda?

Pannam/Porul kodukurathum thappu vangurathum thappu marriage kku... marriage oda punithame poduthu.

Erkanave sonna mari instead of cattles humans velai pesa paduranga...

Avalothan. :fight:

vennai1
10-28-2003, 11:30 PM
Nee vaanga maatena yaarume vaanga maatanganu avasiyam kidaiyaadhu.Aparam geetham la onnakku mattum thaan moolai jaasthi irukkunu ninaichukaadhe enna.

Ennakku oru paatu nyabagam varudhu but leave it....

:b:


dei loosu,

onakku paattu thaan theriyumaa... atha anga poi paattukku paattu

section paadu... yaar venaangaraanga ;) :sm12: :sm12: ;)


veedu venumaa...

onakku oru packet halwa venaa vaangi kodupaanga....

peraasai peru nastamadaa loosu.... ;) ;) :P :P

sri_gan
10-28-2003, 11:39 PM
Nee vaanga maatena yaarume vaanga maatanganu avasiyam kidaiyaadhu.Aparam geetham la onnakku mattum thaan moolai jaasthi irukkunu ninaichukaadhe enna.

Ennakku oru paatu nyabagam varudhu but leave it....

:b:

Nookam nalla irruntha pothum... naan evaukkum inga advise panavo.. puthisali yaarunu pakavo.. varalai.. annike sonnen...

Naan antha nenapoda inga vara vendiya avasiyam illai...

Manasula pattathai sonnen, solluren, solluven. purincha seri puriyatti purium koncha time kalichu.... may be days kuda agalam athukku naan onnum panna mudiyathu.

Itho onnum noble prize kedaika pora samacharam illai. ok va athu enakkum therium.

arumugam57
10-29-2003, 01:05 AM
I am not telling to any one to talk decently with mr.x. But mr.x is not feeling happy with the way you talked today too. I got a special request from mr.x to delete all his messages posted by him. Ofcourse I did that for keeping him happy. So please talk with in the range of acceptance by the opponent. Please understnd this guys.

Cheers.

arumugam57
10-29-2003, 07:22 AM
adadaa...inga athukulla pala peru pesiteengalaa... hmm

dei loosu xyx

idea kodukara moonjiya paaru

dei loosu xyz,


aamaa geetham login panrathukku munnaadi moolaiya kazhatti

vechuttuthaan varuviyaa

dei loosu,

peraasai peru nastamadaa loosu....

The above words are really too much. I am very sure the guy who talked above words will never get good friends in his life. silarukku oru tharam sonna puriyum. silarukku 100 thadava sonnalum mandayil eerathu.. imm.. we can't change

dinesh
10-29-2003, 10:24 AM
what's going on? Am I misssing a fight I ought to be in? :think:

vennai1
10-29-2003, 08:04 PM
[b]adadaa...inga athukulla pala peru pesiteengalaa... hmm

dei loosu xyx

idea kodukara moonjiya paaru

dei loosu xyz,


aamaa geetham login panrathukku munnaadi moolaiya kazhatti

vechuttuthaan varuviyaa

dei loosu,

peraasai peru nastamadaa loosu....


The above words are really too much. I am very sure the guy who talked above words will never get good friends in his life. silarukku oru tharam sonna puriyum. silarukku 100 thadava sonnalum mandayil eerathu.. imm.. we can't change




If someone speaks out stupid in front of a full house he should

expect to get stoned... and should atleast have the guts to

withstand it if not able to defend it.




What do you mean when I say that I went over the limit..

and what do you mean I wont get friends... I have more

friends for that gutless Mr. X for sure not only here but also

in real life !





With all due to Mr.X let me say...

What a stupendous logicless argument that so called Mr.X

was posting !!! I can tell again for sure that no one else

with a little bit of thinking would have given such an idea !!

aburvaraagam
10-29-2003, 09:41 PM
[b]adadaa...inga athukulla pala peru pesiteengalaa... hmm

dei loosu xyx

idea kodukara moonjiya paaru

dei loosu xyz,


aamaa geetham login panrathukku munnaadi moolaiya kazhatti

vechuttuthaan varuviyaa

dei loosu,

peraasai peru nastamadaa loosu....


The above words are really too much. I am very sure the guy who talked above words will never get good friends in his life. silarukku oru tharam sonna puriyum. silarukku 100 thadava sonnalum mandayil eerathu.. imm.. we can't change




If someone speaks out stupid in front of a full house he should

expect to get stoned... and should atleast have the guts to

withstand it if not able to defend it.




What do you mean when I say that I went over the limit..

and what do you mean I wont get friends... I have more

friends for that gutless Mr. X for sure not only here but also

in real life !





With all due to Mr.X let me say...

What a stupendous logicless argument that so called Mr.X

was posting !!! I can tell again for sure that no one else

with a little bit of thinking would have given such an idea !!




Excuse me don t think that watever u speak is absolutely brilliant. Moreover u don t have any rights to judge on statements whether it is stupid or not. I think u r posting here just to share u r thots. If u cannot agree with that thot just say so,u don t have to call others by name.

There r so many other persons in this forum who donot agree with every arguments posted,but that does nt mean that eveyrbody is calling names. It is not that i cannot defend myself. It is just that i don t want to argue with someone who does nt know how to talk to others. I did nt want to get in an argument but u provoked me.

arumugam57
10-29-2003, 09:45 PM
Vennai..

Every one is supporting sivakumar and no one is supporting you in this matter.

Better you change the way you are talking with people like sivakumar , sri_gan , senthil!!

Otherwise face the consequence!!!

As a good friend I am telling you before things are going beyong the limit.

Cheers.

arumugam57
10-29-2003, 09:47 PM
Ofcourse if some one is posting some stupid here then tell the message is stupid. Don't tell the guy who is talking is a stupid. That hurts the people.
Please understand.

I don't know why are you fighting with soft people like sivakumar and senthil!!!

Cheersl

vennai1
10-29-2003, 09:54 PM
I don't know why are you fighting with soft people like sivakumar and senthil!!!

Cheersl


I was not fighting with anyone and I donot like to fight. :nono:


The truth is whatever sivakumar wrote was stupid !

any sane person would vouch to that !

though I have to accept that I should not have called her loosu !

I am sorry siva for calling you a loosu but I still stand firm that

whatever you wrote was loosuthanam !


I donot see why she wanted to delete her posts when something

was still being talked about. :think:



I am not saying that I am brilliant, I never did ! I never would !

vennai1
10-29-2003, 09:55 PM
Ofcourse if some one is posting some stupid here then tell the message is stupid. Don't tell the guy who is talking is a stupid. That hurts the people.
Please understand.




Yes. I understand that now ! Sorry sivakumar!

Well 6face, as you said all the ideas given by sivakumar was

stupid !

aburvaraagam
10-29-2003, 10:02 PM
I was not giving any idea....if everything was taken as an argument y culd nt u take wat i wrote as an argument too. Don t u speak anything for arguments sake. Being in law school u know abt it. Onnaku ennoda idea stupida irukalam i really don t care abt it,ennakku enna thoninadho adhai ezhudhinen(i have every right to do that),i never really asked u to accept it nor anyone for that matter. If u can t take somethings just forget abt that.

Not that everybody thinks in the same manner(kaiyila 5 fingersum ore maadhiriya irukku,adhu maadhiri thaan manushanoda thotsum). Not that u shuld appreciate everyone atleast try not to criticise them by calling names.

:b:

vennai1
10-29-2003, 10:08 PM
I was not giving any idea....if everything was taken as an argument y culd nt u take wat i wrote as an argument too. Don t u speak anything for arguments sake. Being in law school u know abt it. Onnaku ennoda idea stupida irukalam i really don t care abt it,ennakku enna thoninadho adhai ezhudhinen(i have every right to do that),i never really asked u to accept it nor anyone for that matter. If u can t take somethings just forget abt that.

Not that everybody thinks in the same manner(kaiyila 5 fingersum ore maadhiriya irukku,adhu maadhiri thaan manushanoda thotsum). Not that u shuld appreciate everyone atleast try not to criticise them by calling names.

:b:



Peche maathathey...

I agree that I should not have called names like loosu... !

But athukaaga nee sonnathu elaam super ideas aayidumaa...

.. :nono: :nono:





Onnaku ennoda idea stupida irukalam i really don t care abt it,ennakku enna thoninadho adhai ezhudhinen(i have every right to do that),i never really asked u to accept it nor anyone for that matter.



when did I say you did not have the right to post !???

I just commented on what you wrote... which again... I have the

right to ! :b:

arumugam57
10-29-2003, 10:09 PM
Vennai!!

You just show only one guy who is supporting youir views. No one !!!
So whether you are standing for your views or not you are the defaulter.

So better leave this argument.

And for god's sake don't frame names in future.
It is realy irritating.

You may tell others also doing that. Yes..But no one is complaing.

Once people are complaining about your actions better don't do it.

Cheers.

vennai1
10-29-2003, 10:11 PM
Vennai!!

You just show only one guy who is supporting youir views. No one !!!
So whether you are standing for your views or not you are the defaulter.

So better leave this argument.

And for god's sake don't frame names in future.
It is realy irritating.

You may tell others also doing that. Yes..But no one is complaing.

Once people are complaining about your actions better don't do it.

Cheers.



Ok. Bosssss.. I accepted long back that I erred in calling her names.

and my views about her ideas is not only mine... if you look at the

thread even iyyanaar and srigan thought that was a stupid idea

which would never materialize in the real world !

aburvaraagam
10-29-2003, 10:29 PM
Fine arumuganainar did say that this idea will not work out,but he never in any of his lines mentioned it as Stupid. He did post a comment which was very pretty descent. Even sri did nt mention that it was stupid,well i am not saying that he agreed with the thot too. But it does nt matter to me,like how u people can express u r thots,the same way i expressed my thots that is all. You culd ve just commented on that in a simple way n left it. I wuld ve taken that sportively too. It wuld not have ended up in an argument like this. Anyway i wuld like to wind up with this argument.

:b:

aburvaraagam
10-29-2003, 10:35 PM
Ok. Bosssss.. I accepted long back that I erred in calling her names.

and my views about her ideas is not only mine... if you look at the

thread even iyyanaar and srigan thought that was a stupid idea

which would never materialize in the real world !



Nijam vazhakaiyila nadamuraila varadhadhu niraya irukku,adhunala do u stop trying that or do u stop talking abt that or argue abt that.

:b:

vennai1
10-29-2003, 10:35 PM
Fine arumuganainar did say that this idea will not work out,but he never in any of his lines mentioned it as Stupid. He did post a comment which was very pretty descent. Even sri did nt mention that it was stupid,well i am not saying that he agreed with the thot too. But it does nt matter to me,like how u people can express u r thots,the same way i expressed my thots that is all. You culd ve just commented on that in a simple way n left it. I wuld ve taken that sportively too. It wuld not have ended up in an argument like this. Anyway i wuld like to wind up with this argument.

:b:


Thanks for accepting your idea was stupid atlast ! :b:

Stupid is something which people will never do because it

will never work out. nothing wrong about it !



And on the record, I am taking everything sportively and just standing

by my words. I said loosu in a funny way did not know that

apparently you people would take it in a negative connatation.


I apologize again for using that word loosu on you ! :b:

aburvaraagam
10-29-2003, 10:37 PM
I stand corrected here,i never said that wat i expressed was stupid,it may to u but i don t care abt it.

vennai1
10-29-2003, 10:38 PM
Ok. Bosssss.. I accepted long back that I erred in calling her names.

and my views about her ideas is not only mine... if you look at the

thread even iyyanaar and srigan thought that was a stupid idea

which would never materialize in the real world !



Nijam vazhakaiyila nadamuraila varadhadhu niraya irukku,adhunala do u stop trying that or do u stop talking abt that or argue abt that.

:b:


I never told you or for that matter anyone to restrain from talking

or arguing be it anything ! Arguments are always for the better ! :b:


But if something is proposed which is not practical at all, people

would obviously remark the same ! Avlothaan ! :b:

vennai1
10-29-2003, 10:39 PM
I stand corrected here,i never said that wat i expressed was stupid,it may to u but i don t care abt it.


It is Seemingly true that you care about it more than ever,

which is why you went on to delete what you said ! huh !!

aburvaraagam
10-30-2003, 05:02 AM
yes i did before, that is y i deleted my msg, but not anymore, unnai pola ennaku mathavangala hurt panni pesatheriyathu therinjalum pesamatten ok ennaku nan pesiyathu stupuid a illai avalavuthan unnaku apdi eruntha i don't care about it anymore u got it cya mr.vennai

arumugam57
11-04-2003, 08:10 PM
Vennai!! Listen carefully.

1. You and your friends are going for a outing. There you are just making fun of one of your best friend. If he is taking it as a fun then you can tease him further and there is no problem. But if he starts feeling bad? To save your lifelong friendship what you should do?. You should tell sorry first and try to cool him down. Otherwise he will be no more your friend then.

2. Here siva too our good friend. He helped lot (better then you in some aspects) to geetham forums. Our long term known person and soft person. By mistake or by unknowingly he told some thing which you could not agree ( For a case). So you teased him. He felt very bad and expressed his feelings too. " Remember? Once he told " Innaikum unga officela hard dayaa? ". Can't you understnd his feelings?. You should have told sorry and brought the situation to normal. Athai vittutu keep on punching siva? It is very bad. What will you get if you prove that what he told is a loosu thanam?. What you will lose if you tell a sorry and bring the situations to nornal postion even though it is too late?.

I already told you that you will never win friends and I am sure your friends circle is too small. That is 100000% fact.

Change your attitude man.




Please don't repeat the same mistake in future. You already fought enough with sri gan , siva , senthil and more. Otherwise it will affect the growth of geetham

arumugam57
11-04-2003, 08:15 PM
Makkalee!! Enna thoongareengala? Vaangappaaa!! Vanthu vennaiku advice panni nalla vaziku kondu vaanga. Paithiyam piditchitta apparam onnum seiya mudiyathu. Athukkulla ethavathu senjaa thaan undu..

Vaangaa.. Vaanga.. Vaangaa..

http://www.clevertamils.com/forums/album_pic.php?pic_id=173

sri_gan
11-04-2003, 09:06 PM
Makka,

Leg pulling never proves that we are smarter than other, ithelam advice illa pa...

I even open a topic to become stupid anga orutharume pesalai...

Seri what is wrong in being a stupid... I know million advantages of being stupid... solla va????


Dei aaaaaaarumagaaaa... nee enna da pannure... change your avatar... irritate pannuthuda...

arumugam57
11-04-2003, 10:48 PM
Leg pull panrathu is a just fun. You know my friends pour water on me when I am presenting my work in the project when they feel results are not ok. Even some guys openly shouts " Aarumuga.. Thookam varuthu ". " Dei.. pooi pallu velakittu vaadaa " , zippu zippu zippu " and a lot. Infront of all cute delhi girls our tamil guys will do lot of dirty things. I enjoyed a lot. Often everyone does it in friends circle. Butwith in limits only.
If the victim friend is enjoying it then we can continue that. Once the victim friend is feeling bad or thinking that it is too much the guy who is pulling his legs has to stop it atleast that time. That saves the friendship. Mudiyave Mudiyaathu.. Naan continuousaa irritate pannuvennu sonna? The irritation will give its own bad results.

arumugam57
11-04-2003, 10:51 PM
Ennoda avtor paarthaa unakku enna thonuthu?
Tell me first.

I will think of changing the avtor then.

sri_gan
11-05-2003, 02:14 AM
Ennoda avtor paarthaa unakku enna thonuthu?
Tell me first.

I will think of changing the avtor then.

Etho sevuru illama muttikira mari irruku... appuram, too much animation athunala disturbance ahuthu.

arumugam57
11-05-2003, 04:20 AM
Athu paatukku muttitu irukku. Unnaya enna pannuthu?

Too Much Animation ? Just press Esc button in the page. It will stop all animations in the page.

Cheers.

sri_gan
11-05-2003, 01:35 PM
:lol: seri seri, it stops my animation also.... un animation mattum nirutha oru vali sollen, enga vennai inga kanum...