View Full Version : There r no reasons why we can love?

12-22-2003, 05:08 PM

There r no reasons why we can love someone so deeply. But their r thousand of reason why we can start to hate or be hurtled by someone who we love. Why so? When we started to love someone we expect that person to do this and that. But that person never did anything that u wish. How we should react at that time? Isn’t that call demand than wish? Let’s discuss....


gOODAy ......sWEEtmICHe :ahha:

12-23-2003, 12:54 AM
c'mon guys.....voice up!!
gOODAy :ahha:

12-23-2003, 06:51 AM
Give & Take Policy

Love is all give give and give... No take... Unfortunately does not work that way.

I hate to believe the fact :

" You scratch my back I scratch your back"

"You play with me I play with you"

You help me I help you"

You hate me, I hate you"

Why,I don't know... let see how ppl come with their opinions and I will fill more.


12-23-2003, 08:13 AM
romba thaan lollu .....venky :ahha:

12-23-2003, 02:39 PM
Frankly I have no clue why there is a rift when things don't work out the way the other person thinks or wants.

May be ego, or may be possesiveness?


12-23-2003, 03:00 PM

I agree with you for sure, who ever says they are in love, ego will be created in one form or another. Except friendship all the other relationships have ego issues.

No one is exception, no matter how much their understanding is.

12-23-2003, 03:53 PM
First of all, I cant accept that there are no reasons for someone to love somebody.. how come without any reasons u can fall in love.

U like them, u like their character, u like their personallity, u like the way they move.. u like the way they talk.. eppadi u have 1000 reasons to fall for someone.

When its like this.. how can we say there are no reasons to fall in ove..

First ethai enakku explain pannunga.. appuram naan proceed panraen ;)


12-29-2003, 08:20 AM
well shy,
now i am loving someone but i dont have the reason
for tat love ..... that friendship came like a passerbyer u see
but i missed him alot since he is away.....
still can't figure it out....wot he has that makes me down.....!!

12-29-2003, 04:06 PM
Miche.. answer me the following.. in the end u will see that there were reasons

(1) how did u know u love that person? what made u think that?

(2) Cant that be just a friendship.. how did u define it as love?

(3) Do u miss that person in most occasions?

(4) Do u feel that u think that person the most all the time?

(5) Do u think u can adjust to any thing in fear of losing that person?

(6) Do u think even though they are not beautiful, they are beautiful to u?

Eppadi 1000 questionskku are they miche.. answer them in ur heart honestly.. if most of them are yes.. then u are in true love.. and the defintion u will give for jsutifying that its love for the first few questions will give u the reasons why u love that person :)


12-29-2003, 06:02 PM
love is not a dept to demand for things.love is something a deal between heats.true lovers knows each other.

12-29-2003, 07:40 PM
I second shy