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katteri
02-10-2004, 10:19 AM
Drollers topic mudinchudichu...Lets start a new topic...There r girls i have met who like guys smoke, drink,strangely a girl said i want my hubby to be taking drugs only (per vendam)... :oops: :oops:
So do girls really look these qualities.....

seny
02-10-2004, 10:55 AM
Katteri,
Bayangarama kelvi than ithu... ana ennaku oru doubt... Smoking, drinking, drug addiction ithu ellam oru alloda Qualitynu sollamudiyuma???

Seny

katteri
02-10-2004, 12:23 PM
Katteri,
Bayangarama kelvi than ithu... ana ennaku oru doubt... Smoking, drinking, drug addiction ithu ellam oru alloda Qualitynu sollamudiyuma???

Seny
Quality a define pannunga.. mudiyathaa kastamana term...If u say pen is a good quality..vungallukku appearence , ennaku athoda performance, srigan nu ku atthoda color,ippaid niraiya difference irukkum.....


Smoking, drinking, drug addiction ithu ellam oru alloda Qualitynu sollamudiyuma???
nan ithu mattum solllaia thau ku kilaa irukira list a parunghaaaaa

seny
02-10-2004, 12:41 PM
Katteri,

"Vulagathil vullaa ella pazhakammum
Srigan, naughty, pola nallla payankal
very very innocent character".....

Ithu enna increasing order of Qualitya illa decreasing order of Qualitya????

Seny

katteri
02-10-2004, 12:55 PM
Katteri,

"Vulagathil vullaa ella pazhakammum
Srigan, naughty, pola nallla payankal
very very innocent character".....

Ithu enna increasing order of Qualitya illa decreasing order of Qualitya????

Seny
En seny nall payan certificate vangi irukangha rendu perumpartheenghaaal srigan drollers ku vote athigama vangiyum... avara jeika vidalai..Avallu nallla pasanghaaaa..

Order la ellam illai
Srigan pakkam pakkama vungalai pathi ezuthireenaaa (nalla vithama thann pa)...Intha lucky man nu ku oru padam (spl movie) kodukireennu sonniya athu enghe (manalane manghaiyin bhagiayam ... cud u recollect)

anainar
02-10-2004, 01:25 PM
Katta,

Drugs, alcohol does not define a person. They are more like habits and can be thrown away anytime if the guy has will power. But qualities define a person. A guy well meaning basically might be a drunkard for 5 years and might give up after that period to be a real great guy. So basically you cannot mix habits and qualities.

Innoru doubt, why did you add Sri and naughty as nalla payyangal? Sri_gan boasts of himself as scorpion. You know what a scorpion can do right? :lol: :lol:

Cheers

sri_gan
02-10-2004, 01:25 PM
Srigan pakkam pakkama vungalai pathi ezuthireenaaa (nalla vithama thann pa)...Intha lucky man nu ku oru padam (spl movie) kodukireennu sonniya athu enghe (manalane manghaiyin bhagiayam ... cud u recollect)



Active member section le PKS movie irrukum paaru athuthan.

seny
02-10-2004, 01:55 PM
Entha forumla droolers ku athigama vote vangi irukanga?? Na pakkavae illaiyae... :doh:

I will second anainar in this, a guy can quit these habits overnight [if he really wants and has the will power]...

"Enaku" therincha varaikum girlsku intha mathiri habits iruntha pidikkathu...

onnu namma Sri illana naughty polla nalla pasangalavo illana very very innocentta iruntha than pidikkum...

Seny

Honeyarjun
02-10-2004, 02:07 PM
None of the above... I dont like people who should always smoke, use alcohol, drugs etc... It doesnt mean that they should be innocent either.. I like people with this policy 'kazhavum katru mara'. Its not a big thing for me when people say..I never use alcohol,drugs etc... But one should have tried it atleast once and should say that... Thats where the real control is..
On the whole ,I like people with self control.

katteri
02-10-2004, 02:12 PM
Srigan pakkam pakkama vungalai pathi ezuthireenaaa (nalla vithama thann pa)...Intha lucky man nu ku oru padam (spl movie) kodukireennu sonniya athu enghe (manalane manghaiyin bhagiayam ... cud u recollect)



Active member section le PKS movie irrukum paaru athuthan.

Appaaa 1000 dollra koduthallum antha padam mattum vendam...manalane manghaiyin bhagiayam paravi illai ...

katteri
02-10-2004, 02:14 PM
None of the above... I dont like people who should always smoke, use alcohol, drugs etc... It doesnt mean that they should be innocent either.. I like people with this policy 'kazhavum katru mara'. Its not a big thing for me when people say..I never use alcohol,drugs etc... But one should have tried it atleast once and should say that... Thats where the real control is..
On the whole ,I like people with self control.

above list il vungha 'kazhavum katru mara' enna nu sollunghaaaa

Honeyarjun
02-10-2004, 02:24 PM
I can choose none here as none of the options fit my likings.. I will put my vote if you add this option... 'kazhavum katru mara' or even this option 'People with self control'..

(edited to add)oh..I can see u have added..'others..pls explain'. so my vote goes for that one..

Honeyarjun
02-10-2004, 02:28 PM
Katteri....did you mean that what are the things that are in my 'kazhavum katru mara' list?? If so.. I would say alcohol and smoke.. But NO drugs...

sri_gan
02-10-2004, 02:37 PM
Katteri,

Nalla pasanga, nalla pazhakkam ithukellam yaarume addict aha mattangaapa... kandippa intha election le naan thoothuruven.

Nee venna paren.

seny
02-10-2004, 02:37 PM
Honeyarjun,

drug addict marinallum vidamatinga pola?? ellamae vishamnathukku appuram atha mattum en othiki vaikuringa???

Seny

katteri
02-10-2004, 03:10 PM
Honeyarjun,

drug addict marinallum vidamatinga pola?? ellamae vishamnathukku appuram atha mattum en othiki vaikuringa???

Seny
Seny athu than intha topic '' MUNNA PONA KADIKKUM PINNA PONA VUTHAIKUM''

katteri
02-10-2004, 06:03 PM
Katteri,

Nalla pasanga, nalla pazhakkam ithukellam yaarume addict aha mattangaapa... kandippa intha election le naan thoothuruven.

Nee venna paren.
Srigan madiyila kanam iruntha than payam .. appuram en kavalai...

sri_gan
02-10-2004, 06:05 PM
Srigan madiyila kanam iruntha than payam .. appuram en kavalai...


nee ennavo sollure... already oru complete politics drroling section le parthen.

vennai1
02-10-2004, 06:15 PM
Kazhavum Katru Mara... :think:


Anne honey,

your are grossly mistaken anne...

to be a person with self-control, one does not need to get involved with

vices in the first place... :nono:


we all know smoking and drinking, drugs, girls, pub can be a lot of fun ! :)

but it is all temporary fun at the cost of body and mind! :evil:

so self-control comes when trying not to indulge in those activities.... :b:


just because a girl likes his man to be a stylish young lad, doesn't mean

the bloke shud get into drinking or smoking or what not...:nono: :evil:

after all, that is why we have a sixth sense :b:

anitam
02-10-2004, 09:02 PM
I voted for others..
yenna expect panna poranga... :D

1. Nalla payan
2. Yentha ketta pazhakamum irukka koodathu
3. Munneranumnu nenaikanum
4. vittukodukanum
5. vazhkaiya santhoshama valzha therunchirukanum. :cool:

Shy
02-10-2004, 09:09 PM
I voted for others

(1) Good hearted Guy
(2) Understands, Respect each other and vitukoduthu vaala therinchu irukanum
(3) Should know how to lead a happy, romantic Life
(4) Should have concrete thoughts abt his life
(5) Appo Appo konjam beer, smoke ok..but not like a drunker or chain smoker. Other kaeta palakam irukavae kuudaathu

Shy

sri_gan
02-10-2004, 09:13 PM
I voted for others.

Ennoda reason rombe simple:

Naan ponnu illai athunala enakku theriyathu, therinchukavum virumbalai.

anainar
02-10-2004, 09:17 PM
Sri,

This is for women to vote I thought. Any one can vote or what? But I dont believe these are qualities of a guy. These are more of habits. I second vennai on these. Self control is in trying not to get involved in all these things. Occasional beer or smoke is ok, but not addictive ones.

Cheers

Minik
02-10-2004, 09:18 PM
I voted for others.

To me I don't like guys who smoke. drinking its okay as long as he drinks in a social gathering and not too much that he gets drunk and vomit and say unnecessary things.

vomit achena, naan thane athe edhethe kazavanam :sm12:

vennai1
02-10-2004, 10:04 PM
To me I don't like guys who smoke. drinking its okay as long as he drinks in a social gathering and not too much that he gets drunk and vomit and say unnecessary things





I really feel that this so called cliched "Social Drinker" / "Social Smoker"

is how all depraving vices start in the first place... :nono: :evil:

Not everyone has the rigid self-control so as to inhibit over-indulgence... :?



I have been a teetotaler all my life...and being the son of a rich proprietor...

I was many a time exposed to parties and social gatherings...but just a plain No !

The point is to resist all these foibles in the first place ! :b:


Makkale, vendaam dont even start on stupid habit forming activities....

just for the sake of temporary fun ! :nono: :pray:

katteri
02-10-2004, 10:36 PM
Correct a sonne vennai... i was a teetotaller until 2 years back, but had a drink once even thou i said no when there was a party..people dont respect my words & keep insisting u had once , u had once nu......When i said this to my parents they didnt believe i took a drink... i kept a pull stop to that last new year.

I believe in this a smoker kills himself & kills others..
a alcoholist kills himself
A druggist kills all and cheat the god....

vennai1
02-10-2004, 10:43 PM
I believe in this a smoker kills himself & kills others..





katteri anne, you are 100% right.... passive smoking kastam periya kastam... :evil: :evil:

butterfly
02-10-2004, 11:33 PM
hmmm...voted others...In my case its too late for me to vote for mapillai :)

But i second anitam & 1st 4 points of shy :)....he shud also be a man of principles

p_arunsrinivasan
02-11-2004, 12:31 AM
Katteri,

"Vulagathil vullaa ella pazhakammum
Srigan, naughty, pola nallla payankal
very very innocent character".....

Ithu enna increasing order of Qualitya illa decreasing order of Qualitya????

Seny

Seny,

Sooooooper kelvi.. ennala idha padikkum pothu serippa adakka mudiyalai....

Cheers,
Arun.P.

sri_gan
02-11-2004, 02:01 AM
(5) Appo Appo konjam beer, smoke ok..but not like a drunker or chain smoker. Other kaeta palakam irukavae kuudaathu


Enath oorule Thamum thaniyum nalla pazhakkamnu solluranga....

Even US le oru complete organization is working on stopping the smoking in music videos.. pathathu illaiya...

Honeyarjun
02-12-2004, 02:15 PM
Anne honey,

your are grossly mistaken anne...

to be a person with self-control, one does not need to get involved with

vices in the first place...


If one has never tried something and restrict himself from it.. where does self control comes to play here?? He has never tried it and can refrain himself from it forever... but after trying it once and still he can refrain ...there comes the real self control..

Apart from self control... the other qualities in a man should be(what i expect)... He should be frank and honest.. Should have goals in life and should have' never say die' attitude. Even if you push him down from a mountain ,he should be able to climb it..(no matter how many times U push him--- for seny...this U doesnt refer me... it means the situations and hurdles in life ). He should make me go to him rather than coming after me all the time..I mean shouldnt be a jollu party..

suha
02-12-2004, 02:24 PM
naan others thaan pottein........... yenna idhu la yedhuvum pidikalla yenoda taste tei thanni :wink:

:sm11: :sm11: :sm11: :sm11: :sm11: :sm11: :sm11: :sm11:

seny
02-12-2004, 02:46 PM
[quote]

Should have goals in life and should have' never say die' attitude. Even if you push him down from a mountain ,he should be able to climb it..(no matter how many times u push him). He should make me go to him rather than coming after me all the time..I mean shouldnt be a jollu party..



Valkaiyil men en kalyanathukku appuram viluranganu ippa than theriyuthu.. kella villalanalum mela kuttitupoi thalli vudurathu ippadi readya irupanganu na edhirpakkala.... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Seny

sri_gan
02-12-2004, 02:46 PM
naan others thaan pottein........... yenna idhu la yedhuvum pidikalla yenoda taste tei thanni :wink:

:sm11: :sm11: :sm11: :sm11: :sm11: :sm11: :sm11: :sm11:


Keladu paatii kku ellam taste vera theriyumakkum :sm12:

Ellam kalak kodumai.

Honeyarjun
02-12-2004, 02:52 PM
Valkaiyil men en kalyanathukku appuram viluranganu ippa than theriyuthu.. kella villalanalum mela kuttitupoi thalli vudurathu ippadi readya irupanganu na edhirpakkala....

Seny


I have edited my post after seeing the way u have taken my point..pls see that ....

katteri
02-12-2004, 02:53 PM
Government m evvalovatry pannuthu to decrease the no of people who smoke , drink by charging tax..in every budget anna makkal athula ellam kandukirathe illai.

katteri
02-12-2004, 02:56 PM
Sari Girls 4 peru than ithu varikku opinion kudthu irukanghaaa..'' sample is very less to give theerpu''..

katteri
02-12-2004, 03:03 PM
Honey rajun,mink,shy,anitam,butterfl y all 5 have voted for others...''appuram yaru pa rendu vote sriganku,1 smoke,1 innocent charcter.Srigan has voted for others.So others kannaku la 1 short..
Guys do not vote ur opinion its for the girls to vote..

suha
02-12-2004, 03:09 PM
Keladu paatii kku ellam taste vera theriyumakkum

Ellam kalak kodumai.


paati na apdi thaan yelamei teriyum :ahha:

katteri yengo,,,,,, ungaluku kannu terilliya yenna :sm10: naanum others pottu irrukein :Ksp:

sri_gan
02-12-2004, 03:09 PM
Vote pottutu pesama irrukanvangala enna pannalam? :think:

katteri
02-12-2004, 03:24 PM
Keladu paatii kku ellam taste vera theriyumakkum

Ellam kalak kodumai.


paati na apdi thaan yelamei teriyum :ahha:

katteri yengo,,,,,, ungaluku kannu terilliya yenna :sm10: naanum others pottu irrukein :Ksp:
Naan childrens vote ellam invalid a consider pandreen...''nenngha thane sonnegha vunhalluku 5 vayasunu

katteri
02-12-2004, 03:25 PM
Vote pottutu pesama irrukanvangala enna pannalam? :think:
Athu ku oru thandanai kodukkanum sreee...''ethavathhu dubakoor padathu links kodukalam''
Illaina puthu sa oru avatar edukalam..

suha
02-12-2004, 03:38 PM
Naan childrens vote ellam invalid a consider pandreen...''nenngha thane sonnegha vunhalluku 5 vayasunu


katteri,

naa yepo sonnein yennaku 5 vayasundu :Ksp:

katteri
02-12-2004, 03:43 PM
Naan childrens vote ellam invalid a consider pandreen...''nenngha thane sonnegha vunhalluku 5 vayasunu


katteri,

naa yepo sonnein yennaku 5 vayasundu :Ksp:
Drooler section la sonna tha nyabhgham.. 5 irukkalam 10 vum irukalum... i cudn t recollect

sri_gan
02-12-2004, 03:44 PM
Athu ku oru thandanai kodukkanum sreee...''ethavathhu dubakoor padathu links kodukalam''
Illaina puthu sa oru avatar edukalam..



Ammam, Vote pottavanga yaaru nu kandupuduchu... kathamba movie kodukanum....

Vote pottavnaga they have to justify their points appo than antha votekku value ...

illai yaarunu kandu pidichu avangalukku dubakooor padam + random part movies kodukananum...appo than seri paduvanga.

silican
02-12-2004, 04:58 PM
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katteri
02-12-2004, 05:04 PM
Enna silican Boom boom madu ku pathilaaa vandi madai kattureenghaaa....

silican
02-12-2004, 05:12 PM
Avanga pesum bodhu Boom Boom mada irukkanum. Vandi maadu madhiri veratra verattukku ponum..(under Control)

katteri
02-12-2004, 05:21 PM
Silican partheenghala nama than girls a parthu payapudrom......

Shy
02-12-2004, 07:50 PM
Elalr voteum validate panniaacha ellai iinum under investigationa..

Katteri.. suha enum kulanthai eppothu teen sweet 16..please ava vote'aiyum consider pannungo

Silican.. boom boom maada.. irukaalaam thappu ellai.. unga wife thaanae.. boom boom maadu enna kuujaava kuuda irukalaam.. familynu vanthuta ethu ellam sakajampa ;)

Shy

silican
02-12-2004, 08:18 PM
Silican.. boom boom maada.. irukaalaam thappu ellai.. unga wife thaanae.. boom boom maadu enna kuujaava kuuda irukalaam.. familynu vanthuta ethu ellam sakajampa ;)

Shy


Makkale paathukkunga,
Ushaar'a irunga illena Maakan'aa aakiduvanga. :00:

Mehala
02-12-2004, 08:56 PM
ayioo Katteri,
enna neengal, smoke, drugs, alcohol ellaam paavikira entha maapilayayium oru ponnum virumba maadda enru theriyaatha. :nono: Better unga wife anumathippaava? :ee:
innocent but not too innocent maapillay thaan neraya gals virumbuvaanga.
:yes:

katteri
02-12-2004, 09:32 PM
ayioo Katteri,
enna neengal, smoke, drugs, alcohol ellaam paavikira entha maapilayayium oru ponnum virumba maadda enru theriyaatha. :nono: Better unga wife anumathippaava? :ee:
innocent but not too innocent maapillay thaan neraya gals virumbuvaanga.
:yes:
Mehala , neegha first post a paaaka villaiya appuram othernu option koduthu irukenaa athai parkalaiyaaa....
Neengha yarukku vote pannengha en nu sollungha ok
:D

katteri
02-12-2004, 09:36 PM
Katteri.. suha enum kulanthai eppothu teen sweet 16..please ava vote'aiyum consider pannungo
Shy

Tharmapadi partha 18 vayasu ke mela than vote vurimai nu engha captain :think: :think: soliiirukar.Irunthalum...vote ennikai kamiyaa irukirathala ..antha vore serthukireeenn..Sari meethi nalu per vore potavangha pesa kanom

sri_gan
02-12-2004, 09:56 PM
ayioo Katteri,
enna neengal, smoke, drugs, alcohol ellaam paavikira entha maapilayayium oru ponnum virumba maadda enru theriyaatha. :nono: Better unga wife anumathippaava? :ee:
innocent but not too innocent maapillay thaan neraya gals virumbuvaanga.
:yes:

Kathal Virus pattu... "Aiyoo enna achu unkku.." pattu ezhuthuna pulavarnu nenapa....

illa kekuren... ethu enna innocent and not too innocent :sm12:

Enakku eppadi kettuchuna...

Komali anna muzhu komali illai appidingamari kekuthu.... enna morpheus serithane :sm12:

suha
02-13-2004, 12:02 AM
Tharmapadi partha 18 vayasu ke mela than vote vurimai nu engha captain soliiirukar.Irunthalum...vote ennikai kamiyaa irukirathala ..antha vore serthukireeenn..Sari meethi nalu per vore potavangha pesa kanom


katteri yennaku 45 yrs aiyuduchu yein vote sellum ok ya :sm10:

sri_gan
02-13-2004, 12:33 AM
katteri yennaku 45 yrs aiyuduchu yein vote sellum ok ya


Actually after 65 yrs.. we call them as retired ones.. vote podurathum onnuthan podathathum onnuthan.

Either way unga vote is not considered. :sm12:

suha
02-13-2004, 02:13 AM
Actually after 65 yrs.. we call them as retired ones.. vote podurathum onnuthan podathathum onnuthan.

Either way unga vote is not considered.


innum yennaku 65 yrs agalla :wink: yepadi irrundallum yein vote sellum..........huh :sm11:

Mehala
02-13-2004, 11:14 AM
Mehala , neegha first post a paaaka villaiya appuram othernu option koduthu irukenaa athai parkalaiyaaa....
Neengha yarukku vote pannengha en nu sollungha ok
:D
Katteri,
In any questions, the options r given which suits at least 20-30%. But, smoking, drugs, etc. is actually relevant on 0%. Becoz, it's obvious that no gals like smoking, etc. people. Eventhough u gave an option to 'Others' it's less effective approach of asking questions which has nil relevant to the fact of the question. So, it's better if u could change the options like bit tempered person, bit jealosy person, bit kindful person. Here, eventhough gals never like tempered people, but she can adjust to live with them. But, no gals actually like their husband kill by themselves. I mean if the husband smokes then day-by-day he ruins his life. So, the wife can't tolerate in this fact! Okaya!
I selected others! U c that most of them selected others since the options r irrelevant!

Mehala
02-13-2004, 11:22 AM
Kathal Virus pattu... "Aiyoo enna achu unkku.." pattu ezhuthuna pulavarnu nenapa....

illa kekuren... ethu enna innocent and not too innocent :sm12:

Enakku eppadi kettuchuna...

Komali anna muzhu komali illai appidingamari kekuthu.... enna morpheus serithane :sm12:
sri,
ippo konjam ungalukku kovam quick aaka varukkuthu enru ninaikiran. those days when i'm start to geetham, u seemed to b childish, but u r becoming more tempered person.
anyway, come to the matter.
Innocent people may be defined as a person who is non smoker, non drunker, etc. who never jump to people (getting angry and shouting all the time), be patient in normal cases unless it's serious, kindful person, etc. Too innocent people r like girlish (normal girls, but nowadays girls r more bad than even boys - that's y i said normal girls) type. Those feel shy, those r very reserved type, etc. Even these type of guys also gals didn't like.
Did u understand now?

katteri
02-13-2004, 11:55 AM
Katteri,
In any questions, the options r given which suits at least 20-30%. But, smoking, drugs, etc. is actually relevant on 0%. Becoz, it's obvious that no gals like smoking, etc. people. Eventhough u gave an option to 'Others' it's less effective approach of asking questions which has nil relevant to the fact of the question. So, it's better if u could change the options like bit tempered person, bit jealosy person, bit kindful person. Here, eventhough gals never like tempered people

Thanks for ur suggestion we can conduct another poll

unique
02-16-2004, 08:42 PM
My vote is for others....occasional drink is ok,but not always. Smoke.....a big naaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh and so is the answer for other options

sagi
02-20-2004, 09:28 AM
ennoda avanga oru ambhillaiya iruntha pothum..maththathellam naane maaththikkuven... ;)

Abhinaya
02-20-2004, 04:50 PM
Oru Ketta pazhakam um vandaame......How come guys get all these bad habits of smoking, drinking, etc etc and then say it is all for fun and that is temporary, blah blah..
And how come women hardly get into these habits....women also do have a lot of fun, but for that they do not look for bad habits. They enjoy in a good way.

People who smoke , drink, etc think that they are having fun and enjoying life, but in the long run, they are spoiling their own health...

I do not think girls like boys who have these bad habits....we only keep begging them to stop, but they never listen. God knows when their will-powers will work

take care....