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Teena
02-19-2004, 02:30 PM
A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said:

"When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

appu
02-19-2004, 02:41 PM
ayya siva...kalakkittappo....

gokulan42
02-19-2004, 03:06 PM
I like the poem very much. Its very true.

Its true for every mom and so every wife (after some life experience).

Thanks for posting here. Good to read in the morning.

Shy
02-19-2004, 04:03 PM
Siva :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:

Kalakeeteenga :) Good one !!!

Shy

venky1974
02-19-2004, 04:06 PM
Good one... :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:

appu
02-19-2004, 05:34 PM
I like the poem very much.

thambi gokul poem padichathae illa pola irukku :ee: :ee: ...ithu oru short story....kavithai illai...

vennai1
02-19-2004, 05:43 PM
sivam akkov... ithelaam seri thaan... ;)



And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."



itha sela ponnunga.. (esp. my sis :lol:) thappaa underwear pannikaraango...

and cry even for petty things...atthu thaan imsai... :(


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sri_gan
02-19-2004, 06:26 PM
Inge enakku vellai illai... still doubting my avatar will clear that :D.

Shy
02-19-2004, 07:07 PM
sivam akkov... ithelaam seri thaan... ;)



And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."



itha sela ponnunga.. (esp. my sis :lol:) thappaa underwear pannikaraango...

and cry even for petty things...atthu thaan imsai... :(


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vennai.. appadi ellam ellai.. its ur fault.. avalai yaen ala vidureenga.. athuku munnavae u can get her what she wants right ;)

Shy

silican
02-19-2004, 07:17 PM
Illa Shy,
Ungalukku theriyadhu...Naanum idhu madhiri ponnungalai pathrukken. Azhudhe kaariyathai saadhippanga. Class exam'la 38 mark vangi Fail aagi, appuram Professor kitta azhudhu 45 mark vang pass aana party ellam enakku theriyum.
(Ofcourse sila samayam, andha ponnukku mattum mark potta asanga Gaandayduvangannu andha Prof'um Full class'kum 7 mark add panna koothum nadandhirukku) :lol:


Silican

vennai1
02-19-2004, 07:45 PM
Illa Shy,
Ungalukku theriyadhu...Naanum idhu madhiri ponnungalai pathrukken. Azhudhe kaariyathai saadhippanga. Class exam'la 38 mark vangi Fail aagi, appuram Professor kitta azhudhu 45 mark vang pass aana party ellam enakku theriyum.
(Ofcourse sila samayam, andha ponnukku mattum mark potta asanga Gaandayduvangannu andha Prof'um Full class'kum 7 mark add panna koothum nadandhirukku)






oho ...ippadi elaam oru social service-aa... :ahha:

whatever it is I cannot condone it when girls cry for every itsy bitsy thing ! grrrrr :evil:

Jsi, paarungo...even the Lord gave her the tear only to cry in times of need...

not during times of want ;) ;) hope you underwear ... ! :)



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Shy
02-19-2004, 08:12 PM
:lol: :lol: :lol: supper comedy poonga :)

But ava mark varanum'nu didnt cry.. nalla padichu yaeluthee irunthaa.. but prof sariyaa note panalai.. appuram ava aluthu explain panninaalaam.. the prof got guilty consicous.. sari will give mark to everyone for my mistakes solli he gave :) epapdi ennoda karpanai :ee:

Vennai.. I agree with u... only in need thaan cry pananum.. but the problem is.. want=need in every girls dictionary :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Shy

anainar
02-19-2004, 08:21 PM
Adada, இன்னொரு டாபிக்ல சமாளிப்பு முடிக்கரது க்குள்ள இங்க இன்னொரு சமாளிப்பு! ஷை, உங்களை பேசாம "சமாளிப்பு திலகம்" பட்டம் குடுத்து ஒரு சால்வை போர்த்திரல ாம்.

Vennai, I also get mad if any body cries for itsy bitsy things.

Cheers

vennai1
02-19-2004, 08:22 PM
want=need in every girls dictionary



adi paavi... ippo theriyuthu...yen husband purse-la only spare change thaan irrukkunnu...:(

Shy
02-19-2004, 08:29 PM
Thats suprising... spare change iruka enna :00: irukaathae :think:

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

நீங்க வேற anainar :) நான் சும்ம கிண்டல் அடிச்சுட்ட ு இருக்கேன் :)
சால்வு அது இதுனு சொன்னிங்க அப்புறம் உங்களுக்கே தெரியும் இங்க ஒருத்தர் அப்புறம் என்னொட கால விழுந்துரு வார் :lol: :lol: :lol:

Just kidding guys.. no yaevukanai against me :ee: paavam naan !!!!

Shy

sri_gan
02-19-2004, 08:35 PM
Morpheus,

Nee sollurathu unmai unmai unmai...

Naan boys schoola padichathala enakku vishyaam koncham late a therinchithu colleeesssuu le therinchukitten :ee: ...

Iyanaar nalla sonninga ponga :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: "Samalippu Thilagam" thodaaaa puthu peru :yes:

silican
02-19-2004, 10:07 PM
Samalippu thilagam
Fightu Parimala
Vekka padravanga
Sumo (super mod)
Kalyani covering
Aunty
Teacher

Ippdi ellam koopda koodadhu..kocheepanga.."SHY" nnu mariyadhaiya koopidunga

Silican

sabeshan
02-19-2004, 10:19 PM
That was a nice article sivam... very touching.... :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

sagi
02-20-2004, 08:16 AM
late a purinjukkitaalum pasanga rite a purinju kittanga.. ;)

very emo..... :)

gokulan42
02-20-2004, 04:49 PM
late a purinjukkitaalum pasanga rite a purinju kittanga.. ;)

very emo..... :)

poemla :oops: nalla irukku. But, to answer the question 'why women cry', I will say

Karanammellam thevai illai, eppo thevaiyo appo astratha use pannidanum. Avlothan

Shy
02-20-2004, 05:30 PM
Samalippu thilagam
Fightu Parimala
Vekka padravanga
Sumo (super mod)
Kalyani covering
Aunty
Teacher

Ippdi ellam koopda koodadhu..kocheepanga.."SHY" nnu mariyadhaiya koopidunga

Silican


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Shy

sagi
02-21-2004, 02:46 AM
enna pandrathu. asthiraththa thookalainna sila ambhilaingalukku ethuvume mandaiyila oraikkithuilliye ...rite shy?? :)

gokulan42
02-21-2004, 03:02 AM
enna pandrathu. asthiraththa thookalainna sila ambhilaingalukku ethuvume mandaiyila oraikkithuilliye ...rite shy?? :)

Thanks for being so honest, Sagi ;) So, how often asthiraththa thookiveenga?

Not all ladies are of crying type and I have seen some strong minded ladies in my life.

sagi
02-21-2004, 03:14 AM
you are welcome gokulan. alugaiyellam bhirammasthiram pola enakku. ethukkeduthaalum alutha appuram athukku value illama poidum....so eppavaavathu irunthittu ;)

sagi
02-21-2004, 03:15 AM
you are welcome gokulan. alugaiyellam bhirammasthiram pola enakku. ethukkeduthaalum alutha appuram athukku value illama poidum....so eppavaavathu irunthittu ;) enakku ice-cream vaangi tharalainna mattum thaan naan aluven ;)

gokulan42
02-21-2004, 03:26 AM
you are welcome gokulan. alugaiyellam bhirammasthiram pola enakku. ethukkeduthaalum alutha appuram athukku value illama poidum....so eppavaavathu irunthittu ;) enakku ice-cream vaangi tharalainna mattum thaan naan aluven ;)

Keep it up! Typical girly stuff ;)

sagi
02-21-2004, 03:42 AM
Thanks thanks..but when do you guys cry?? coz you guys don't cry to get anything..guys always fight..show anger and get things done...so when do you cry??? guys cry for love failyyy ? tell me about it.

gokulan42
02-21-2004, 06:42 AM
Thanks thanks..but when do you guys cry?? coz you guys don't cry to get anything..guys always fight..show anger and get things done...so when do you cry??? guys cry for love failyyy ? tell me about it.

Guys do cry. But, there should be a sound reason to it. Surely, not for ice cream.

It happens, when your very dear ones are affected in some way.

Now, because of geetham my wife thinks that I am like a mahatma (compared to the picture you guys draw for a typical guy). Guys always fight, guys always show angry. guys are lazy and do not do any work and what not. Thanks, folks ;)

I never had a love failure to comment on it (guys cry for love failure). A love failure can break a guys heart but would he cry for that. I saw it movies only.

san2003
02-22-2004, 02:33 PM
I never had a love failure to comment on it (guys cry for love failure). A love failure can break a guys heart but would he cry for that. I saw it movies only.


i might be wrong if i said that guys cry for love failure.. but this is something happened to one of my friend ..... he told his love to one his close girl friend but she rejected... he was totally heart broken and i heard he also cried (told by another guy friend of mine... so not sure true) .... but if a guy would cry.. i dun think he would cry in front of gals.. rite guys :) hehe.. no offense ok guys.... i think coz it concerns their image :) hehee.... kochikathingal guys ;)
i agree girls cry for petty things... well.... that is girls.... but tell u all a secret :ush: girls sometimes cry or can be said tryin to be innocent for petty things.. coz they know they will get it out of mercy :) hehhee... sori gals...
i better escape b4 the gals come n bash me up ;)

gokulan42
02-22-2004, 03:41 PM
I never had a love failure to comment on it (guys cry for love failure). A love failure can break a guys heart but would he cry for that. I saw it movies only.


i might be wrong if i said that guys cry for love failure.. but this is something happened to one of my friend ..... he told his love to one his close girl friend but she rejected... he was totally heart broken and i heard he also cried (told by another guy friend of mine... so not sure true) .... but if a guy would cry.. i dun think he would cry in front of gals.. rite guys :) hehe.. no offense ok guys.... i think coz it concerns their image :) hehee.... kochikathingal guys ;)
i agree girls cry for petty things... well.... that is girls.... but tell u all a secret :ush: girls sometimes cry or can be said tryin to be innocent for petty things.. coz they know they will get it out of mercy :) hehhee... sori gals...
i better escape b4 the gals come n bash me up ;)
Good to know about your friends. But, may be that guy was playing ladies game to get what he wants ;)

BTW, guys know why gals cry and so he does not care (though cannot show it).

san2003
02-22-2004, 04:23 PM
BTW, guys know why gals cry and so he does not care (though cannot show it).


well... we dun care u know or not ....;) but at least we get wat we want :) so thats good rite ;) hehehehe

gokulan42
02-22-2004, 04:57 PM
BTW, guys know why gals cry and so he does not care (though cannot show it).


well... we dun care u know or not ....;) but at least we get wat we want :) so thats good rite ;) hehehehe

Guys, listen to this. A gem from or Sans :D :D :D

Nethiyadi for ladies ;)

sWEEtmICHe
02-22-2004, 05:05 PM
Guys, listen to this. A gem from or Sans

Nethiyadi for ladies
http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

gokulan42
02-22-2004, 05:27 PM
Guys, listen to this. A gem from or Sans

Nethiyadi for ladies
http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif http://www.tamilterra.com/forum/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif

Adi pavingala (with respect), aniyayam! :cry: :cry:

san2003
02-22-2004, 05:45 PM
Guys, listen to this. A gem from or Sans

Nethiyadi for ladies


enna pa.... ippadi sollutingal :(



Adi pavingala (with respect), aniyayam!


hahahahahahaha

sWEEtmICHe
02-22-2004, 05:50 PM
http://www.geetham.net/forums/images/smiles/icon_dance.gif


Adi pavingala (with respect), aniyayam!
hahahahahahaha
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sagi
02-23-2004, 03:37 AM
BTW, guys know why gals cry and so he does not care (though cannot show it).

Manni, note this point. ;)

enna enna? naanillaina silarukku rombha thairiyamo.....enga en kita sollunga paarkkalaam. :)

gokulan42
02-23-2004, 04:47 AM
BTW, guys know why gals cry and so he does not care (though cannot show it).

Manni, note this point. ;)

enna enna? naanillaina silarukku rombha thairiyamo.....enga en kita sollunga paarkkalaam. :)
Hey, I was talking about guys in general. As my wife say very often, I am special, you know ;)

I understand and care very much ;)

sagi
02-23-2004, 05:06 AM
oh you mean you are one in 1000.. ? ;) ok ok. en manni nanna iruntha nekku santhosam thaane....

gokulan42
02-23-2004, 05:26 AM
oh you mean you are one in 1000.. ? ;) ok ok. en manni nanna iruntha nekku santhosam thaane....
1 in 1000? I am the only one and I am unique (like everybody else).

sagi
02-23-2004, 05:28 AM
YAYA UNGALA POLA ADIYUM VAANGINTTU, LUCH UM COOK PANNI KODUTHUTTI VERA YAARALA IRUKKA MUDIYU.....OFCS YOU ARE VERY UNIQUE;) [MANNI NO HARD FEELINGS]

gokulan42
02-23-2004, 05:54 AM
YAYA UNGALA POLA ADIYUM VAANGINTTU, LUCH UM COOK PANNI KODUTHUTTI VERA YAARALA IRUKKA MUDIYU.....OFCS YOU ARE VERY UNIQUE;) [MANNI NO HARD FEELINGS]
No offense taken :)

What ever you say, I am unique. My wife also thinks that way. Why do I care about others?

However, if a good looking gal (not sis) thinks against it, I will care :)

sagi
02-23-2004, 06:27 AM
ahrrrrrrrrrrr so naan enna sonnalum unga kaathila erathu since i am ur sis..rite??
manni itkku nalla manasu...avanga kettathaiyum nallathunnu solluvanga..thangamaana konam... ;)

nithukumar
05-25-2004, 09:05 PM
It was really great, enjoyed it very much.Keep going.