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arunsharavan
03-02-2004, 06:07 PM
I have a doubt for a long time....
now, I dont have a galfriend, and I feel that having a galfriend will be so nice and more interesting.
My doubt is for u guys and gals with their spouses, do u feel the same after getting ur spouse(bf or gf) too...what do u ppl think??
athavathu inda feeling vandu "ikkaraikku akkarai pacchai" maathiriya ..illai fact-a??

Arun

vennai1
03-02-2004, 08:45 PM
anne arun... not getting emotional... I have to say that to be loved

being in love is certainly a superb feeling! before a year even i was like

you just dating girls... roaming around and stuff... but it is nothing

to equal the love feeling...so makkale, please kadalinga ! ;) :b:

arunsharavan
03-02-2004, 09:10 PM
BUTTER anne...love thaan BETTER-nnu solreenga...apram en a significant percentage of love marriages still fail even in a country like India (where there is significant importance for the marriage bond)??

Arun

Honeyarjun
03-02-2004, 09:21 PM
A very very difficult question arun... Even though I would like to answer ..yes..the feelings would remain the same...yet ...they may not be like the past..The love would be there..Thats the basic thing behind the relationship but the thrill wont be there anymore...

when we climb a mountain..we strain so much and finally reach the top..once reaching it..we feel like there is nothing..we feel empty.. Thats how people who do love marriages feel...thats why some of the (note the word some) love marriages fail... This is just my opinion...more opinions from others would start pouring soon.....

vennai1
03-02-2004, 09:23 PM
BUTTER anne...love thaan BETTER-nnu solreenga...apram en a significant percentage of love marriages still fail even in a country like India (where there is significant importance for the marriage bond)??

Arun




Well..I dont have the numbers with me...so I am not all that sure if significant

% of love marriages fail...! But any marriage be it love/fixed by family

is bound to fail if the significant two donot keep loving ... !

and again...petty bickering between spouses does not always mean

a marriage has failed ! as some old man in tamil said long back...

'oodal illaiyel kaathal ethu !' ;)

suha
03-03-2004, 12:40 AM
:sm12: :sm12: :sm12: :sm12: paavam arun........love maatum thaan teriyummaa :ahha: :sm12: :sm12: :sm12:

chumma kidding ok va :sm11: ......adhukaga yenoda akka......anna kitalaam solladinga......... :Ksp:

arunsharavan
03-03-2004, 12:52 AM
Suha...unnai yaaru inda section-la ulle permit senjachathu..ithellam periavanga samaacharam..ok-va?? poi Barbie doll collection-la velaiyaadu..chellam..nalla ponnu illai..po ma

Arun

suha
03-03-2004, 01:02 AM
Suha...unnai yaaru inda section-la ulle permit senjachathu..ithellam periavanga samaacharam..ok-va?? poi Barbie doll collection-la velaiyaadu..chellam..nalla ponnu illai..po ma


yennaku yaar pemission koduppa....naan yellar kitayum ketta varein...... :sm10: ........barbie doll ippo nalla tungudhu.......adhu thaan summa inga vandein....... :ahha: :sm12: :sm12: :sm12:

sagi
03-03-2004, 02:32 AM
BUTTER anne...love thaan BETTER-nnu solreenga...apram en a significant percentage of love marriages still fail even in a country like India (where there is significant importance for the marriage bond)??

Arun
%
the reason for this is...well letme think..mm i think although they love each other 100%, when they are in a situation..on that moment they care about themselves than thier partners..this is the reason...SELFISHNESS :)

gokulan42
03-03-2004, 03:27 AM
Having a gal friend is different than being in love. I have had many gal friends ( we never went very serious). But, never ever loved anybody (bef marriage). And, gf and lover is completly different than a wife :(

sagi
03-03-2004, 06:24 AM
are you saying that you had many gfs, lovers before you met manni :evil:

aswin
03-03-2004, 04:20 PM
People change and it is a natural thing. One has to maintain love , otherwise things will change. I feel caring for eachother and sharing and doing things together has much impact in love, also never letting down the other for whatever sake. The real problem arises when one takes the other for granted. Love will remain the same when there is a real respect for eachother, its not difficult. Good Luck :)

gokulan42
03-03-2004, 04:36 PM
are you saying that you had many gfs, lovers before you met manni :evil:

Ofcourse ;) After I met your manni, I started loving everybody ;)

vennai1
03-03-2004, 07:18 PM
Having a gal friend is different than being in love. I have had many gal friends ( we never went very serious). But, never ever loved anybody (bef marriage). And, gf and lover is completly different than a wife





anne gokkol,

well..i strongly deviate from that statement..:nono:

life has never been so much exciting...and thrilling... ;) :b:


the very feel that someone is loving you for what you are...is superb ! :)


well going on dates, kadalai, and girl friends are a totally different story...

it was a lot of fun too... ;)

unique
03-03-2004, 07:27 PM
Kalyanam aana aparam they ll still have the same feeling "LOVE",but adhai express pannikara vidham venumna konjam change aagalam.....wat i am trying to saying u don t have to pretend anything to prove u r self, cos ippo thaan u have come to reality(that is starting a family).....But that does nt mean that they don t Love each other anymore.......

sri_gan
03-04-2004, 03:46 AM
When you have a Spouse (Married), I personally would not like to Date any one, I don't feel any necessity part from that point when you have a spouse.

Girls as friends is not a problem, athaiye sakka vachikittu intha private date like time killing chumma blind date first date freaking date etc....

For me, those fit in a category called how they cannot control themselves.

Odane nee enna periya ramana appadi nu kekathinga, less than perfect nu vachikonga, atleast try panni pakuren avlothan.

sagi
03-04-2004, 04:59 AM
Odane nee enna periya ramana appadi nu kekathinga, less than perfect nu vachikonga, atleast try panni pakuren avlothan

கீதம்ல இதுவும் நடக்கின்றத ா? ;)

suha
03-04-2004, 05:43 AM
கீதம்ல இதுவும் நடக்கின்றத ா?


baiyaa....... va vambukku illuklienna ungalluku tukkam varadha mom
:doh:

sagi
03-04-2004, 05:44 AM
VAMBA???A PDINNA ENNA???

arunsharavan
03-04-2004, 05:49 AM
Inda Suha irukke...atukku onnum teruyadu...varum, vandu yaarayavathu vambukku ilukkum..ilaati yaravathu rendu pera sandai poda vachittu poidum...idu vandu innocent-nu shy solraanga..ellam geetham-oda nerum :):):):):):):):):):):):):):):) :)


Arun

RaasuKutty
03-04-2004, 05:56 AM
anne arun... not getting emotional... I have to say that to be loved
being in love is certainly a superb feeling! before a year even i was like
you just dating girls... roaming around and stuff... but it is nothing
to equal the love feeling...so makkale, please kadalinga ! ;) :b:


vennai, unga advice kku mikka nandri... thalaivar vennai vaalga...

naan love ellam pannathillai :( :( :( :( :( .. but nalla flirt panni irukken... :ahha: :ahha: :ahha: all these time I always felt that nothing is better than this...

sagi
03-04-2004, 07:16 AM
Inda Suha irukke...atukku onnum teruyadu...varum, vandu yaarayavathu vambukku ilukkum..ilaati yaravathu rendu pera sandai poda vachittu poidum...idu vandu innocent-nu shy solraanga..ellam geetham-oda nerum :):):):):):):):):):):):):):):) :)


Arun

Appadi sollunga Arun. Atleast one in a while you are coming out and supporting me. Thanks.

Rasukutti - ;) very very very very---

yocks
05-03-2004, 07:10 PM
Arun khanna romba research panre polirukku......sari en pangukku edhachchum solluren kelu.....kalyanam pannama irukkira vara ok edho samalichchikkalam......pannitt ena romba thondharavu.......adhukkappura ma thaan ellame starting......!!

Ennaththa solla....one yearkku unakku kavanippu balama irukkum adhukkappuram naayie pozhappuththaan partner kitte irundhu unakku support korainchidum.....appuram thindaattam thaen.......!!

emppa oru palamoli sollatta......

thuppaakki thuppaya thooki thuppaya thooo thum thuppakki mazhai ......he hehe he....

nalla palamoli illa ....... :D oh idhu thirukurala.......adhuvum illaiya...? edho onnu aala vidu.....

aama sagi aththe en un neththila ezhudhi vachiruke...... :D
varta,
- yocks :sm35:

sagi
05-04-2004, 01:12 AM
aama sagi aththe en un neththila ezhudhi vachiruke......
varta,
- yocks

lollu??? :nono:

suha
05-04-2004, 01:17 AM
Inda Suha irukke...atukku onnum teruyadu...varum, vandu yaarayavathu vambukku ilukkum..ilaati yaravathu rendu pera sandai poda vachittu poidum...idu vandu innocent-nu shy solraanga..ellam geetham-oda nerum :):):):):):):):):):):):):):):) :)


Arun

Appadi sollunga Arun. Atleast one in a while you are coming out and supporting me. Thanks.

Rasukutti - ;) very very very very---

oi sagi mom idhu yeppo nadadhadhu naan pakavei ila :think: ..........yenna paathi naladha vera soli irukaru arun......ningo idhu ku vera chingu cha pottu irrukingo yenna kidalla :evil:


ps: indha yocks yaaru yepo paaru orei kelvi kekurango :doh:

sagi
05-04-2004, 01:20 AM
hehehehehehehe kadantha kaalaththai ninaivu paduthatha pappa ;)

well why are you annoyed? now you know how we feel when you ask questions? ;) ehehehe kidding :ee:

suha
05-04-2004, 02:02 AM
hehehehehehehe kadantha kaalaththai ninaivu paduthatha pappa ;)

well why are you annoyed? now you know how we feel when you ask questions? ;) ehehehe kidding :ee:

yocks wrote

aama sagi aththe en un neththila ezhudhi vachiruke

acho sagi mom :doh: ...orei kelvi means........naan sonaadhu one question na repaet panranannu yengah paaru indha question kekurangalei....why :think:

yocks
05-04-2004, 02:11 AM
Sagi ju ju,

aama sagi aththe en un neththila ezhudhi vachiruke......
varta,
- yocks
Sagi wrote:


lollu???

Suha wrote:

ps: indha yocks yaaru yepo paaru orei kelvi kekurango

Suha adhu enna azhagu rani titlelama.......... :P Nan first HoneyMoon thaan kondadurangalonnu ninaichchen.........adhaane appadiye kondadinalum aththe en inge......?

Aiya sami, kavukkaradhukkune oru kumbal engayum irukkuppa ----
kaalaila office vandhu sari forum check pannuvomnu paathtaalum adhu thaan kannula padudhu..
puricnhikka maattudhunga ennaththa panna...

sari varta,
- yocks :sm35:

sagi
05-04-2004, 02:13 AM
yocks? what happ to my name ? sagi juju?????

athu vera onnum illai suha namma yocks kku kalyana aasai vanthidichu ;)