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shalu462000
03-11-2004, 03:21 PM
உங்கள் ஆலோசனை தேவை.

நான் ஒருத்தறை காதலிக்கிற ேன். அவனும் என்னை காதலிப்பதா க நான் 90% நம்புகிறேன ். ஆனால் நான் அவனை காதலிப்பதா க அவனுக்கு உணர்த்த பயமாகயிடுக ்கிறது. ஏன் என்றல் அவன் குணமும் என் குணமும் முற்றிலும் வித்தியாசம ். நான் என்ன செய்யட்டும ்.

vennai1
03-11-2004, 09:55 PM
shalu akka,

ஆர்பாட்டமி ல்லா நேரத்தில காதல திடமா தைரியமாச் சொல்லுங்க... :b:


நீங்க சொல்லாதவர உண்மை விளங்காது... அதுனால போய் சொல்லுங்க.. ;)

வாழ்த்துக் கள் ! :b: :)

Bluelotus
03-11-2004, 10:15 PM
Vennai Anna
it's all very well to tell the person .....but what is Shalu Akka scared off?
Is he the violent type who could errupt at finding out that somebody loves him?

naan chumma chumma...Akka poy ungal anbae avarittai solungal ....find the right moment for it though....come on take courage according to u, u have 90% chance of obtaining a positive result...tht's really good probabilty .

(what did u mean by: "avan kunamum en kunamum muttrilum vithiyasam"?)

good luck.

vennai1
03-11-2004, 10:26 PM
illa blue lotus akka,

i can understand totally her position... coz I was in similar grounds not very long ago... :00:


infact i squandared a lot of time without telling my love for more than 4 months... :doh:

thinking of which...I am still squandaring all ma time... but in a good way though :ahha:


shalini akka, just let the word out ! noting to lose and all to gain in love ! ;)

Bluelotus
03-11-2004, 10:33 PM
4 months in this age of instant messaging?
chi chi what a waste...

Shalu akka...better hurry up honey....time ponnaaapponathu thaan

suha
03-12-2004, 12:12 AM
:00: :00: :00: :00: :00: idhulaam vera nadukudha :think: .....seri yennaku orru alosaniye solungo........naan orruthana .....hate panrein.....adhu yeppadi sollanum...........yarachum solungalein plsssss :pray:

Bluelotus
03-12-2004, 12:30 AM
Ayooo Suha athu mathum solevenam amma......avangal mannam rumba kashta padum...

gokulan42
03-12-2004, 02:16 AM
Shalu, I love this name :)

First make sure that he beleives in love. Yyour he is of different type makes me suspect that he may not beleive in love (though very negligible chance). Then, make sure you are his typa gal (I mean his expectations). Most of the questions can be asked casually.

The first thing you will learn in any investigation training is 'the best way to get any info is to ask'. So do these two. And, then the third and final question would not be tough to ask :)

Good luck :b: If at all, it does not work out this time, dont give up. Human mind is strange. I know some human psychology. PM me and I can help you ;)

sagi
03-12-2004, 04:02 AM
Shalu, வாழ்த்துகள ் சகோதரி. உங்கள் வாழ்வில் அனைத்தும் இனிதாஇ நடக்க நான் இற்இவனை பிரார்த்தி க்கிறேன். I agree with Gokulan.[go gokulan go go] I think you better get to know his mind first..before you tell him. But don't delay....:) Good Luck.

suha
03-12-2004, 12:18 PM
Ayooo Suha athu mathum solevenam amma......avangal mannam rumba kashta padum



bluelotus...........yein sollavenaam :? ....appo yenna thaan sollanum :Ksp:

ragi_kutty
03-12-2004, 12:23 PM
adhaane?............. ;)

sagi
03-12-2004, 12:28 PM
aama, enna thaan sollanum??

ragi_kutty
03-12-2004, 12:34 PM
aamaa..........

suha
03-12-2004, 12:40 PM
ragi wrote

adhaane?.............


sagi wrote

aama, enna thaan sollanum??


ragi wrote

aamaa..........





ningha 2ndu perum yenna chingu chan podringha kuda vandhu :evil: :evil: ......naan yevola kastama quetion ketutu irrukkein :Ksp: ......pinala vandhu chorus kodukringha :nono: :Ksp: :Ksp: :Ksp:

ragi_kutty
03-12-2004, 01:45 PM
naanga sivappu color chingu cha podurom.............hey eppa andha lolipop share panrathu?

shalu462000
03-12-2004, 05:19 PM
i told him today but he doesn't love me, and he loves someone. it not me. what do i do now?

Bluelotus
03-12-2004, 08:49 PM
Shalu...don't worry ...trust me it will be fine in the end
it will take time
for the moment go grab some ben&jerrys and go watch some Friends rerun
Just remember you're a great girl, it's his loss.

take heart

Shy
03-14-2004, 04:59 AM
Shalu,

Dont worry, As bluelotus sona mathiri its his loss.. Ungalukkunu oru cute guy varuvaar kandeepa, he will love u than no one else and will look after u !!! cheer up and wait for that guy :)..

Shy

gokulan42
03-14-2004, 05:35 AM
Sad to hear about that, Shalu.

Sometimes guys have the tendency to tell this excuse :)

But, there is nothing like that 1 perfect guy/gal in life stuff :)

Beleive me, you will have much more options in your life :b:

sagi
03-14-2004, 11:50 PM
yes please think about what gokulan said..:) we all love you ans here to support you

vennai1
03-17-2004, 08:56 PM
shalu, dont worry too much... I second what gokul and Jsi say...

time will answer all kustins.. enjoy life ! :)

ragi_kutty
03-18-2004, 10:12 AM
aamaa nee lifai enjoy pannu........ :)

sagi
03-19-2004, 12:24 AM
Ragi - nii ellam advise panna aarambhicittiya ? kadavule....
[ragi your avatar is super...enga amma photo paarthirukken...99.9% like this actress..i was shocked when i first saw this avatar]

unique
03-19-2004, 02:16 AM
Shalu dont worry abt this....to say that guy is not lucky enough to love u......kandipa oru naal ongalai migavum virumbaravar varuvaar......u ll be the most luckiest person....enjoy u r life not thinking abt this anymore.....Life is to live so enjoy it.......Take care da

indhu2000
03-29-2004, 02:19 AM
shallu don't worry! its not a sad news my dear sweet friend!

oruvelai ungalluku vara pora husband rombha nalavara amaivaar!

that is what god rejected him! so think possitive..avanoda charector vera ungaloda charector verannu solaringha..after marraige0ku apparam evalavu clashes varum..think panungha!
logic-ka yosingha shaalu! konjam kashtam dhaan marakka..

but one side love is nothing! avan koduthu vetchadhu avalavu dhaan solli vidunggha shaalu..
ungala purinjipaar & thirumbha varauvaar-nu nenatchi thirumbum yemaaraadhingha...
past is past!!! defenetly u will get very nice husband with full of love & affection!ok...

all the best for yr future!!!!

bharanishan
03-29-2004, 02:58 AM
ennanga shalu...

intha kaalathula enna thayakkam ...poi thairiyama kaathala sollunga........ neenga

thaan avaru ungala 90 % love pannuratha ninaikureengalae appuram enna thayakkam...

go ahead....kaadhalikka arambinga appuram kunam ellam onna vanthudum....

good luck and wishes....

indhu2000
04-01-2004, 02:32 AM
ennanga shalu...

intha kaalathula enna thayakkam ...poi thairiyama kaathala sollunga........ neenga

thaan avaru ungala 90 % love pannuratha ninaikureengalae appuram enna thayakkam...

go ahead....kaadhalikka arambinga appuram kunam ellam onna vanthudum....

good luck and wishes....


illa barani neengha muzhusaa padikalunnu nenaikirein...so fulla padingha & write yr comments,
shaalu mudinja alavuku andha paiyana marakka yedhaavadhu practical idea kodungappa!!!

Indhu

indhu2000
04-01-2004, 02:36 AM
shaalu,

manasum manasum nenaithaal dhaan kadhal, manase illadha oruthana nenaitchi kashtappatu adhu kadhallunu neengha nenatchaa adhu sathyamaa muttaal thanam!
oru velai andha 90% nambinigal illaiyaa, adhuvum oru action-naa irukalaam illaiyaa...
yein mela kashta padaadhinga shaalu, indha kalathila some girls or guyz playing with genuine peoples heart daaa....

so avaroda answer ippovaavadhu kidatchudhennu sandhosha padungapaaa......