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katteri
04-07-2004, 05:47 PM
This was en email i got 2day read it very interesting

In the following article the views shared by the author are his own &
are
based on his personal experience. These views may not be applicable in
all
circumstances. Please interpret the article based on your own free
judgment.
Wish you a very happy married life. Thank you.



Arranged marriage

There are times in a person's life when he needs to take crucial
decisions
on his own. Marriage is one of them. Believe me, the decision on whom to

marry is the most important decision a person will make in his life.
After
marriage, your wife is the most important person in your life. She can
make
or break your life. The mere thought of this is very frightening.



Some of the questions that crop up are -

What sort of a girl do I marry?

Will she adjust in my family?

How can I decide on a girl by just meeting her for a few times?

When should I get married?

This is my life. So, I should choose the girl I marry, but then what if

I make a mistake? ... so on and so forth...



I will try to address these & many more questions in the following
sections.



The Nine Rules of Arranged marriage:



Rule 1 -- Magic no. 28

In an ideal scenario, a girl goes to college at the age of 18. By the
time
she graduates, goes for her post graduation and/ or works for 1-2 years,

she
will be about 23- 24. This means that she has spent about 5 years away
from
her home. In the 5 years period, she would meet many smart guys at
college
or during her first few years on job.



So, in all probability it would be difficult to find a beautiful girl older
than
24 yrs. Secondly, in Indian families there is lot of pressure on the
girl's
toget married by the time they become 24-25.



Statistics says that there is a generation gap after every 5 years. So,
in
such scenario, one would prefer to marry a girl who is about 3-4 years
younger to you. Thus, working backwards, an ideal age for a guy to get
married is by 28. Earlier the marriage, the better it is.



Well, as we all know, in the current market scenario, there will never
be
stability in our career. So, I believe there is no such thing as, "I
will
marry when I settle down".



Rule 2 -- Subset of marriage-able girls
At times you hear statements like, "I am not getting the right match, I
will
look after 3 months, I will find a better match then". Well the truth is

otherwise. The subset of unmarried girl looking for a match is fixed.



From this subset, there would be girls who would get married & there
would
be new girls added who would be looking for a match. The net result is
that
at any given time, the variety & number of marriage-able girls are
fixed.



Rule 3 -- Competition for girls

Like all other facets of life, there is lot of competition for good
girls.
In my own case, I was rejected by girls. So, if you are looking for a
girl
who is post graduate, done her Engg, is working, very beautiful, smart,
from
a good family etc. etc, just think again. There are other guys who are
also
looking for similar girls & probably they are better off than you in
terms
of career, looks personality etc. Given a choice every guy would like
to
marry Aishwarya Rai, but then for all Ashs in the world, there are many
Salman Khans who also want to marry them. So, set your expectations
accordingly.



Rule 4 -- Understanding girls

You would have met a lot of people during your life. As we all know, its

difficult to judge a person based on a few meetings. I am sure you would

agree with me that in case of girls it is even more difficult to
understand
them in a few meetings. I am still trying to understand my wife... ;-)..

Understanding your spouse is a life long assignment. So, then how do you

select a girl based on a few meeting?



This is where you need to take the help of your parents/ friends &
latest
technologies like email/ chat to choose your girl.



Rule 5 -- Society expectation



The selection process is tough on every one who is involved in the
process.
In arranged marriage, involvement of family & society is pretty high.
You
can't meet a girl 3-4 times & then say no to her. It is bad for her
future.
So, you should have a good short-listing criterion. Meet only a few
girls &
be sure what you are looking for. It is for the benefit of everyone
involved.



Rule 6 -- Marriage between equals



Unlike love marriage, in arranged marriage you also marry into the
girl's
family. In arranged marriages, family support plays a major role in
ensuring
a successful marriage. This is where the compatibility of social status,

family values & caste/ religion plays a major role. It's important to
note
that in case there is a perfect match between the two families, the
marriage
is destined to succeed.



Rule 6 -- Know yourself



Unlike love marriage, in arranged marriage you first marry a person &
then
fall in love. So, it's very important that you do self-assessment on the

kind of person you would love. They say, "Opposite attract", while they
also
say, "Bird of same feather flock together". So, you take a call on what
sort
of person you like. Take a pen & paper; write down the kind of
attributes
you are looking for in a girl. Say, she should ideally have the looks of

Sonia, the style of Monica, the voice of Sheena, the patience of Rashmi.

You
will certainly not find the perfect girl, but then you would have a good

idea of what you are looking for.



The secret here is to set some minimum criteria for selection. Don't
forget
rule no.3 here.



Rule 7 -- Girl's Beauty



A girl's looks attract, but then no one wants to end up marrying a dumb
blonde. It is like buying your bike. When you initially buy it, you are
crazy about the looks, but later on you love it for its reliability,
fuel
economy & comfort level. Similarly, a girl's looks are important, but
then
it should not be the most important criteria. Later on it life, you will

get
bored of her looks. It is then that her personality & behavior will make

all
the difference to your marriage. I am sure your parents will be able to
advice you a lot better on this topic.



Rule 8 -- Taking advice



As I have mentioned in the next rule, it's very important that the final

decision on whom to marry must necessarily be ours. However, don't do
the
mistake of isolating yourself from the world while planning your
marriage.
Discuss with your parents & very close friends on this issue. They are
your
well wishers.



Secondly, in such important matters its necessary that you analyze all
possibilities. Remember, I am not suggesting that you follow others'
advice,
but don't forget to take their advice.



Rule 9 -- Own decision



All said & done, it's your marriage & your life that is at stake. Once
you
are married, you & your wife are the only persons who will be facing the

music. Don't marry a girl just because your parents or friends asked you
to
do so. After marriage, if things don't work out & you end up saying,
"It's
because of my friends or my parents that I married you", then your
marriage
is destined for disaster. If the girl is of your choice, it is you who
will
be responsible for whatever happens. That's when the marriage works out
perfectly. So, ensure that you marry the girl of your choice.



How to approach the selection process?



From the day, a person decides to get married; the selection process
takes
a
minimum of 3 months. The whole process needs a lot of patience &
commitment.



The ideal steps to be followed are:



* Definition phase -- Define the minimum criteria for the kind of life
partner you are looking for in terms of education, physical appearance,
social status, family values, future career plans. Remember the Rule 3
here.



* Lead Generation phase - Place ads in various newspapers, magazines,
websites, through friends, family friends, family societies &
association
etc. You need to exhaust all possible means of getting biodatas at one
go.
Remember the Rule 2 here.



* Short listing phase - Based on your selection criteria, short-list the

interesting biodatas. The general process followed for correspondence is
as
follows:

- The initiator sends a one page profile of himself/ herself

- Based on the profile, the receiver sends his/her one page profile
along
with request for detailed profile, photo, horoscope

- The initiator then sends the requested information along with a
request
for similar information

- The receiver sends similar information

- If the biodata is selected, it is passed over to the next phase



* Casual interaction phase - Based on shortlisting, about 7 to 10
biodatas
are taken forwarded to this phase. The next step to follow here is to
exchange email/ chat ids.



The guy & the girl then interact for 10 - 15 days to try & judge mutual
compatibility through email/chat.



* Family interaction phase - Based on the earlier phase, about 5 leads
are
taken for consideration in this phase. During this phase, the parents
get
involved & check the background information about the families to find
mutual compatibility.



* The dating phase - Based on the earlier phase about 3 leads are taken
forward to this phase. During this phase, the guy & the girl interact by

going out alone for 2-3 times. The guy needs to prepare a set of simple
questions like who is your favorite star, what are your hobbies? He
needs
to
use his judgment to analyze the girl based on her responses.



* The D-day phase - Finally, the D-day comes when the guy has to select
the
girl he wants to spend his life with. If the process if followed
systematically, there will be no ambiguity in deciding who should be
your
life partner.



Finally, my dear friends, marriage is all about compromises. In spite of

all
the planning that you do, there are a lot of uncertainties in a
marriage.
In
fact this is the best part about marriage. Just remember that the person

you
marry must be of your choice. In such case, there would be no going back

for
both of you.



A few words of advice: To make your marriage a success, just believe in
the
age-old virtue, "Never do anything to others that you don't like for
yourself".



Enjoy the selection process, it is fun .... :-)

Bluelotus
04-07-2004, 06:23 PM
:think: ..Hmmm...Katteri neenga enna Dating Agency vachrikingalaa?...cos u seen to post a lot abt marriage and the steps leading to it. :ee: *just pulling ur leg* :ee:

This is enough to put anyone off the whole topic of marriage forever....it seems to me to be alot harder to get hitched this way than getting a book published, climbing mount everest or passing usmle. :00:

it looks to me like u guys plan a whole military campaign just to get married....is it worth it in the end? better be ! so much effort :Ksp:

never actually heard buying a bike being compared to getting married b4.... :evil:

Very entertaining post :ee:

Good luck in your marriage venture...hope it's very fruitful :ahha:

Blue.

Shy
04-07-2004, 06:33 PM
:think: ..Hmmm...Katteri neenga enna Dating Agency vachrikingalaa?...cos u seen to post a lot abt marriage and the steps leading to it. :ee: *just pulling ur leg* :ee:

Good luck in your marriage venture...hope it's very fruitful :ahha:

Blue.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Thevaiyaa katteri :sm12: :sm12:

But angry with u.. oru super business nadatheetu irunthuirukeenga.. oru vaarthai soneengala :snooty: :snooty: namba dinesh, silican, gokul ;) ellarkkum evalavu usefula irunthu irukkum !!!

Shy

dinesh
04-07-2004, 07:59 PM
Wht kind of a girl r u looking for

no one in particular.....can't afford such a luxury item actually.... :lol:

seems a nice article....can't be bothered to read thru it though... :(



oru vaarthai soneengala namba dinesh, silican, gokul ellarkkum evalavu usefula irunthu irukkum !!!

why? do you want me to follow katteri's footsteps and do a similar business myself? :sm12:

vennai1
04-07-2004, 09:31 PM
katteri anne,

Rule 7... was the highlight of this piece ! :b: :b:

Makkale, if not the whole rules set atleast read rule 7... :) :)

btw, some of the rules do apply in love marriage too... :sm12:

Shy
04-07-2004, 10:58 PM
Wht kind of a girl r u looking for

no one in particular.....can't afford such a luxury item actually.... :lol:

seems a nice article....can't be bothered to read thru it though... :(



oru vaarthai soneengala namba dinesh, silican, gokul ellarkkum evalavu usefula irunthu irukkum !!!

why? do you want me to follow katteri's footsteps and do a similar business myself? :sm12:

As a start.. appadi aarambingo.. Appuram women are not evil theriyum ungalukku.. Appuram my task accomplished :ee:

Shy

unique
04-07-2004, 11:49 PM
Katteri Manal kaiyiru range la oru periya liste koduthu irukeenga.......idhellam velaiku aaguma....aparam s.ve.shekar maadhiri ella pasangalum muzhika vendiyadhu thaan :lol: :lol: :lol:

RaasuKutty
04-08-2004, 12:23 AM
aiyooo.. naan thappu pannitten.. neengalaavathu paathu escape ayikoongaa nnu sollara maariye irukku.... message keezha oru moral of the e-Mail nnu onnu irundhaa sooper aa irundhirukkum....

Anyway, I really liked rule 7...

Also, if any body has some interesting personal experience that can be shared..pls.. Than reading novels, book, chat, internet.. these stories amaze me.... and I have seen lot of ppl like me...

Luv,
....RK

Bluelotus
04-08-2004, 12:42 AM
What is it abt Rule 7 and all the guys... :think:


No Raasu...Katteri is trying to start a new business ...a dating/marriage broking agency...this is his frist ad see :ee: *still just kidding* (don't get mad....remember ur dealing with an extremely puerile person)

I'm gonna send this one to my friend ...and scare the living daylights out of her :lol: ...poor girl... :evil:

katteri
04-08-2004, 01:31 AM
intha list ellam kalyanam aagaa poravangalukkuuu....than....pu ricnhithoooo

seny
04-08-2004, 11:37 AM
katteri, nalla list eduthu post pani irukinga... rule 7 rule 7 nu ellarum solli irunthanga.. ennaku ennamo antha alavukku impressiveva theriyala athu.. but total outlookla article prematham..

Seny

katteri
04-08-2004, 12:32 PM
Neeela thamarai (bluelotus)... neengha enna enagha agency la work panna application potttu irukkeenghalaaa.....

Thapppe illaingha ;;;broker thozhil is the best....

Bluelotus
04-08-2004, 03:11 PM
Katteri r u looking for an assistant? ;)
I dunno...rumbo thalai-adi kudukkum pola enakku thunuthu....what if they don't like who they get and want a refund or an exchange? appa enna panvingae katteri?

Seny I don't get rule 7 either........

katteri
04-08-2004, 03:22 PM
nanngha munnadiyaaa no objection form la sign vagiduvom.....

Bluelotus
04-08-2004, 03:51 PM
hmmm sounds very interesting....appa solungo ..Katteri ...enna salary kudipinga? what would the job involve...just PR? I'm quite good at PR...even If I say so myself

Annaaa oru condition...neenga enna mattivida kudathu....Athu signed sealed and delivered would be nice ;)

But tell me ...how can u have a successful dating agency when ur not even committed yourself, huh?
Yaaru ungala nambi partner thedaa kaepanga?

katteri
04-08-2004, 04:15 PM
Nambikkai than vazhkai.....


Business secret ellam veliyala solrathu illai :snooty: :wink: :snooty: :wink: :snooty: :wink: :snooty: :wink: :snooty: :wink: :snooty: :wink:

Bluelotus
04-08-2004, 05:01 PM
Enna Katteri Neenga ...athu oru periya State secret pola sollringaa? :Ksp:

Chumma oru little side business-thaanae....you can tell me....Ennakku sollamae naan eppdi PR velai start-panrethu? :ahha:

sollunga plz... :D

rumba thaan thalaiya atringaa....konjum pathu attungo...kila vilundrapothu :wink:


Very Trustworthy Business-Moghul-to-be,

Blue.

katteri
04-08-2004, 07:00 PM
Top secrets cant be revealed,...

Bluelotus
04-08-2004, 07:38 PM
hmm so u realise that u just said top secrets can be revealed....well Kind sir I am waiting ...do reveal them ...plz do :D

unique
04-08-2004, 07:54 PM
Enna Katteri Neenga ...athu oru periya State secret pola sollringaa? :Ksp:

Chumma oru little side business-thaanae....you can tell me....Ennakku sollamae naan eppdi PR velai start-panrethu? :ahha:

sollunga plz... :D

rumba thaan thalaiya atringaa....konjum pathu attungo...kila vilundrapothu :wink:


Very Trustworthy Business-Moghul-to-be,

Blue.

Adhu onnum illai Blues...neenga avarkitta andha ragasiyathai terinjukittu neengalae thaniya agency onnu aarambichuduveengalonu thaan bayam avarukku..... :wink: :wink: :wink:

Shy
04-08-2004, 08:13 PM
:sm12: :sm12: lotus paavam katteri already business tensionla CANT bhathil CAN solitaar.. mateetaar unkita nalla !!!!

Shy

vennai1
04-08-2004, 08:21 PM
But tell me ...how can u have a successful dating agency when ur not even committed yourself, huh?



hey blues,

anyone can start a dating agency... ;) but katteri and dinesh kinda people are
best suited... coz due their own policies and principles they wont get attracted
to the girls that come by ! :P
So bujiness will sure be a success... ithu thaan secret :P

btw, katteri, before you start the agency full fledged
if you want to try a trial run just let me know ;) ;)

Shy
04-08-2004, 08:40 PM
But tell me ...how can u have a successful dating agency when ur not even committed yourself, huh?



hey blues,

anyone can start a dating agency... ;) but katteri and dinesh kinda people are
best suited... coz due their own policies and principles they wont get attracted
to the girls that come by ! :P
So bujiness will sure be a success... ithu thaan secret :P

btw, katteri, before you start the agency full fledged
if you want to try a trial run just let me know ;) ;)


Ada paavi :00: irunga irunga veetula matee viduraen !!!

Shy

vennai1
04-08-2004, 08:53 PM
Ada paavi irunga irunga veetula matee viduraen !!!

Shy


Jsi... acho... you got me wrong... :( i meant to say help for a trial run
like setting up things, phone line checking...anda maari... ;) :P
ippo underwear !? :think:

Shy
04-08-2004, 09:01 PM
Ada paavi irunga irunga veetula matee viduraen !!!

Shy


Jsi... acho... you got me wrong... :( i meant to say help for a trial run
like setting up things, phone line checking...anda maari... ;) :P
ippo underwear !? :think:

:yes: yes.. Now I understand :)

thappa purinchutaen ungalai appo ;) manichudunga

Shy

vennai1
04-08-2004, 09:06 PM
yes.. Now I understand

thappa purinchutaen ungalai appo manichudunga

Shy


Jsi daanke .. :P


yappa.. finally escappppppeeee... :P



but seriously, do you people think that having 5+ years difference
in hubby and wife is a generation gap... :00:

thats scary ! :( :cry:

Bluelotus
04-08-2004, 09:11 PM
Unique:
Adhu onnum illai Blues...neenga avarkitta andha ragasiyathai terinjukittu neengalae thaniya agency onnu aarambichuduveengalonu thaan bayam avarukku.....
Katteri:
Neeela thamarai (bluelotus)... neengha enna enagha agency la work panna application potttu irukkeenghalaaa.....

Unique avar thaan job offer pannittu ...ippo ematthae pakkraru....

:evil: Katteri ... don't even think abt it Dude...
It could be to ur advantage to have me as ur partner...foget assistant :sm10: 40-60 (still kind enough to offer ya the bigger cut :D )

Shy:
lotus paavam katteri already business tensionla CANT bhathil CAN solitaar.. mateetaar unkita nalla !!!!

See Katteri ...Shy kudda ungallukku advise pannuraanga....Having me as ur new business partner would make ur life a lot easier...I would take care of all the stressful stuff...so u don't get confused between can and can't :ahha:
Don't have an MBA...but did do business studies..combined with a little pop-psychology...I can have the customers and the bank manager eating out of my hand :wink:

Victor:
hey blues,

anyone can start a dating agency... but katteri and dinesh kinda people are
best suited... coz due their own policies and principles they wont get attracted
to the girls that come by !
So bujiness will sure be a success... ithu thaan secret

Victor dude....u may be a lawyer...but u need to open ur eyes....after Dinesh and katteri get through interviewing each customer they might not sign up.... they will put the women off men for a very long time...:lol:



Shy:

vennai1 wrote:



But tell me ...how can u have a successful dating agency when ur not even committed yourself, huh?



hey blues,

anyone can start a dating agency... but katteri and dinesh kinda people are
best suited... coz due their own policies and principles they wont get attracted
to the girls that come by !
So bujiness will sure be a success... ithu thaan secret

btw, katteri, before you start the agency full fledged
if you want to try a trial run just let me know



Ada paavi irunga irunga veetula matee viduraen !!!

Shy

I was gonna say something abt tht...but I see that ur taking care of it Shy :ee: :ee:



Anyways...if ya don't wanna tell me the big trade-secret ...tht's fine :snooty:
I'll just go find myself a new venture :ahha:

Blue.

katteri
04-08-2004, 09:59 PM
Vennai ..enna help pa panna pooraaa.....


Neelathamarai... rombha than aasai.. partnership venummaaa never......

Shy advice pannala vunami solranghaaa.....

Neenghaaa ennaaa pottti ku vareenghallaaa...
en address note pannikongha.....

Thiru RK groups (athan Ratha katteri)
Tamil nadu Bhavan
India gate
ASia...
phone :000020002 007
email: saithan@yahoo.com

I ll teach u the busineess.. ok....
but neengha starting la adi vanghuveenghaa sariya.....''ponnugha kitta irunthu POORI KATTAI ADI'' as ur ent experienced.....

Nan businees start pannum pothu intha problem ellam illai.....

Bluelotus
04-09-2004, 02:53 PM
Vennai ..enna help pa panna pooraaa.....


Neelathamarai... rombha than aasai.. partnership venummaaa never......

Shy advice pannala vunami solranghaaa.....

Neenghaaa ennaaa pottti ku vareenghallaaa...
en address note pannikongha.....

Thiru RK groups (athan Ratha katteri)
Tamil nadu Bhavan
India gate
ASia...
phone :000020002 007
email: saithan@yahoo.com

I ll teach u the busineess.. ok....
but neengha starting la adi vanghuveenghaa sariya.....''ponnugha kitta irunthu POORI KATTAI ADI'' as ur ent experienced.....

Nan businees start pannum pothu intha problem ellam illai.....


Chumma ennae use panni ...neenga unga Address advertise pannringalaaa? :think:

Are u sure neenga Raasu kutti(RK) illae Ragi kutti(RK) family member illaendu?

athu enna RK ....(I don't actually know what Ratha Katteri means...is it like Radha Katteri :? ?)

oru alahana peaer ondru vaithirukkallamae....athai parthu custommers-ukku ellam thirumana assai varum polla oru paeer...athu vittutu...enno katteri Ratha endringael :Ksp:


ungallukku oru kashtammum vendam....nanae learn pannikrean :sm10:
Nanai oru ponnu...ennokku theriyathaa pengallukku enna vendrum endru? :P
Let's face it Men are no big deal....they're pretty much an open book...and doesn't take a genius to pair them up :wink:
Rolling-pin, shmolling-pin
Ennakku ellam poorikatai tharamattanga....poori thaan satisfied aunties ellorum seithu kudupargaal :wink:

Ladies and Gents...let me present you:

Thirumana-malargal Ltd

we guarantee that u will :sm05: , meet ur :yes: , :sm09: and live :sm33: :sm08: for ur time on this Earth and have many :baby: (that's not babies but divine blessings :ahha: )

And we care so much abt ur happiness that we shall provide Beautiful flower garlands for ur wedding day :sm30:


so do contact us at
Thirumana Malihai
Heaven's gate
Earth.

(btw....athu enna neenga 007 endru fone number vachirkingae....shouldn't it be simha narasimha :wink: )


Anyway Katteri neenga boat-ta miss pannitinga

So long,
Blue.

katteri
04-09-2004, 04:28 PM
Thank god for missing the boat as air travel is faster than water...

RaasuKutty
04-09-2004, 10:33 PM
Are u sure neenga Raasu kutti(RK) illae Ragi kutti(RK) family member illaendu?
athu enna RK ....(I don't actually know what Ratha Katteri means...is it like Radha Katteri ?)


Blues,

indha maari RK group nnu yaaravathu start panna maataangalaa nnu ithanai naal wait pannittu irundhen.. adha neenga spoil panni ruveenga pola irukke...

katteri.. neenga RK nne veingaa...

Luv,
....RK

vennai1
04-09-2004, 10:45 PM
Whoever starting agency... muthal customer naan thaan ... :ahha: :ahha:

may be 2nd... RK anne... ;)

sri_gan
04-14-2004, 06:13 PM
Intha topic le I'm a blind man... :snooty: :snooty: :snooty: :snooty: :snooty: :snooty:

Shy
04-14-2004, 07:26 PM
Yeah thats true sri.. coz when u are in love, u will be blind :sm12: :sm12:

Just kidding

Shy

Shy
04-14-2004, 07:31 PM
Blues and Ktteri..

Arambhichuteengala :sm12: :sm12: unga business... Good luck..

But dinesh, sri, silican mathiri peopleum , vennai, anainar mathiri peopleyum deal panrapoo be careful ;) first set of people naala business will either go to peak ellaina iluthu mooda vaendiyathu thaan :) second set of people naala ungalukkum saethu poori kattai adi vila naraiyaa chances undu :sm12: :sm12:

Anyway rendu paerum :b: kalakureenga

Shy

vennai1
04-14-2004, 08:18 PM
welcome back Jsi... :sm08:

did you bring those candies i was asking for... :think: :00:

Shy
04-14-2004, 08:33 PM
Yes vennai, in shape of poori kattai's :sm12: :sm12: :sm12:

Shy

dinesh
04-14-2004, 09:11 PM
Victor dude....u may be a lawyer...but u need to open ur eyes....after Dinesh and katteri get through interviewing each custommer they might not sign up....either they will put the women off men for a very long time...or they'll fall for their one liners

what EXACTLY do you mean by falling for one liners? are you trying to imply something else here?

I think I'd actually make a very good interviewer. It's like finding the correct fish for the correct bait. Innit? :sm12:

Bluelotus
04-14-2004, 11:32 PM
:00: Dinesh ....me imply anything abt u ..never mate, never (that would be like setting myself up to be shredded into tiny pieces :? ) .....I may be slightly mysanthropic at times but never suicidal :ee:

U a good interviewer :think: ...nah mate, there's no innit abt it ...u would scare the poor ladies away :ahha: not impartial enough :Ksp:

it's not abt fishing ...nope, it's abt puzzles ...or lock and key mechanisms :cool:
forget the bait ...the fish are already reeled in ...the dating business is abt finding the correct peg or whotnot ..so u win the jackpot...(the highly exorbitant fee, which any good business person would charge :ahha: )

Shy,
shall stay clear of both groups ..u can count on it ....gosh ...they would be terribly bad for the profit margins wouldn't they ...
On second thought...perhaps I should just hang up the business suit and go back to my modern fairy tales ....much more fun :D

dinesh
04-15-2004, 12:08 AM
me imply anything abt u ..never mate, never

er....good....but still......i'm at a loss what you meant by falling for one liners.......i still feel you are trying to imply something...... :(
me scaring the ladies.....nope....they scare the hell out of me.....if the gals here are anything to go by, i'll keep very silent in front of women......scary people...

suha
04-15-2004, 01:06 AM
acho why apdi shidi anna ..........ningo not brave va........ :? girls ku poi baiyama :Ksp: ........aama ungalluku kunfu teriyadha yenna :think:

Bluelotus
04-15-2004, 05:20 PM
:oops: sorry, Shidinesh didn't realise u would be upset by that remark...was terribly insensitive of me...edited earlier post.

Suha, I don't think Shidinesh is truly scared of women ...just some women like the Gorgons I suppose or a Hydra, or the Furies....I'm pretty sure these ladies are now gone forever....so nothing to worry right?