want to know about this.....
what makes the married life successful?
1) is it mutual understanding
2) get adjusted with ur partner and go as per his/her wishes.
jus few days back i was discussing with one of my collegues who is in early 30s and not married. her mind set is like this, all men are dominant and women ve to go adjusting with men always. her thinking is that once after marriage, women loose their individuality and independence.
I was bit shocked to hear these. bcoz, i thot like for her age, she wud be matured that she wud've known all these stuff.
then, I tried to make her understand what is a married life. whats the meaning of mutual understanding.
her first point is men r dominating and women ve to get adjusted with him.
My point: At one point everybody has to adjust with other ppl. even that can be ur parents, sisters, brothers or friends. so, if u want to be very adament and u wont ve adjusting thing... then its very difficult to move on with other ppl.![]()
2nd point: women loose individuality after marriage.
My point: it all depends on how u take. In this advanced world, i dont think men can be like that to let her be in home and do nothing other than cooking for him. athellam andha kaalam.![]()
so, now guys and gals, i want ur opinion in this topic.... jus correct me if i've written anything wrong abt this... :D :D
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