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    hi all,
    For ppl who have fallen in love/been loved, how much do u think the physical appearance of ur partner played a role......

    to give my opinion to start with, i feel physical appearance is pretty important (but not the only reason) ..... and in some cases, thats the sole reason, which make u go and initiate a talk....

    so, wat do u comment on the adage "love is blind".....? i feel, it isnt blind after all...... it does have 2 eyes!!!!! kaadhal kottai madhiri caselaam once in a million chance.....

    do voice in ur comments,
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    For good guys like arumugam only two small circles and one big back ground matters a lot . Then only he will try to approach that girl.

    For kaanju pona parties like sri gan , shidinesg and madhu aish any one with female name is sufficient and they will go and initiate the process.

    For uncles like vennai , siva kumar , anainaar girls should look like shakeela aunty. Then only they will get switched on.

    So physical appreance matters the whole for guys in selecting their female partner.

    For girls !!! The guys hsould have lot of money. Should have Bike , should have nice structure , should talk good english. And above all "Ilitcha vayan " nu nethiyila otti irukanum. then only they will try those guys.

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    well 6face,
    appo nee solratha paatha..... yaarudaiya kaadhalum deiveega kadhal illai/irukka vaipu illa..... correcta? appo na, ethukku ellarum love marriage is betternu argue panranga..... parents seidhu vekkara arranged marriage better illa.... coz in a marriage, which started in love, the reasons for a person loving another was either

    1) Lust (looks)
    2) Money
    3) Personal gains.... raise in status etc....

    which is all ..... ennappa idhu??????????
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    love is first sight is bullshit. It's all eye attraction, u need yr two eyes to c attract den conversation den den den so on....

    so love is not blind, its not tasteless, not wordless .....

    i don't believe when some 1 says "i m in love" I can't eat, sleep or anything else.

    Boyz, now wanna girls to be sexy & complexion is very important. Career is also one of it. At de same time for gals, they wanna all the five "c"s.

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    love is first sight is bullshit
    I'm tempted to agree with you. But there have been instances where love at first sight has happened. I don't really know how to explain it.
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    Love at First sight can happen. To me love between two is a total agression, so correct proption le match achu enjoy, illai na thindattam than.


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    Quote Originally Posted by arumugam57
    For kaanju pona parties like sri gan , shidinesg and madhu aish any one with female name is sufficient and they will go and initiate the process.
    Neriya per ponnunga id le enn varanganu ippo theriyuthu... athula yaru specialist o avaru than ithu ellam theliva pesa mudium.

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    well said dude
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    Quote Originally Posted by sri_gan
    Neriya per ponnunga id le enn varanganu ippo theriyuthu... athula yaru specialist o avaru than ithu ellam theliva pesa mudium.
    Just user id sollu maamu. "Dis Allow names" nu oru option irukkave irukku.
    Dubukkunu amukkiralaam.

    But Don't forget what happened with sivam.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arumugam57
    Quote Originally Posted by sri_gan
    Neriya per ponnunga id le enn varanganu ippo theriyuthu... athula yaru specialist o avaru than ithu ellam theliva pesa mudium.
    Just user id sollu maamu. "Dis Allow names" nu oru option irukkave irukku.
    Dubukkunu amukkiralaam.

    But Don't forget what happened with sivam.
    Intha kozhi amukkuren korangu pudikiren ellam naan vittuten... ponnu id le yaarachum vantha jollu vidavendi vantha nalla jollu viduven... siricha sirichuttu po... enn jolla parkathane antha idle vanthe... atha kuda naan pannati naan enna payyan...

    unmai theriyum pothu naanum kai kotti sirippen.... ethukku nu ippo therinchirukkume...

    90% jollu vida matten, venumune vida vacha vidamalaum irruka matten.

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    Yov sri.. Ennaya nee confuse pannuree..
    Quote Originally Posted by arumugam57
    For kaanju pona parties like sri gan , shidinesg and madhu aish any one with female name is sufficient and they will go and initiate the process
    Means..Just name shake she is a girl. But nothing is there in her body as well as back ground. Only bones. Antha maathri ponna kooda nee vittu vaika maatennu sonnen.

    Now you can continue the discussion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arumugam57
    Yov sri.. Ennaya nee confuse pannuree..
    Quote Originally Posted by arumugam57
    For kaanju pona parties like sri gan , shidinesg and madhu aish any one with female name is sufficient and they will go and initiate the process
    Means..Just name shake she is a girl. But nothing is there in her body as well as back ground. Only bones. Antha maathri ponna kooda nee vittu vaika maatennu sonnen.

    Now you can continue the discussion.
    welcome to my world, confuse aitiya... ithu thane enakku venum.

    Internet is a complete hide and seek game, intha pasanga ponnu mari varathu vanthu rombe rombe palasu... i mean it happened like 3 and half yrs back itself... ithelam puthusu illai pa.

    I have a weird sense of humour theriyumla, let say you come as a girl for 10 days and you talk some nonsense nu vachippom, I have the the ability to virtually draw what you are saying.

    In a 11 th day you come say you are a guy nu solli siricha.... think about the sequences you said by yourself as a guy in a girls feel.... to a guy...

    Appuram nee pesunathu, pm adichathu ellam public le release achu nu vachipom... innum jora irrukum

    Thalai suthutha?? See thats the main reason, I don't play around with those kind of stuff specially identity.

    Neriya per itha solla vekka paduranga.... after all you make your self funny in a feel thinking others as funny....

    Finally onnu unmai, avalo sikiram naan yarukkum pidi kodukka matten, romba kettukitta kodukamalum irruka matten.

    When we sow seeds, we ripe the grain.
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    Sari Ippa nee enna ennamo solree? Topic pathi pesu raja..

    Cheers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arumugam57
    Sari Ippa nee enna ennamo solree? Topic pathi pesu raja..

    Cheers.
    Appadi vaa valikku.

    Love at first sight can happen.

    To maintain any Love, first sight , 100th sight everyone need to have:

    Honesty and Patience.


    If the above two things are not there, what ever love it is, It will take its chances to ruin it.

    So be honest and have patience.

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    Thalai suthuchula?? Unmaya sollu.

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    yoov,
    neengellarum solradha patha, yaarume, oru ponna paathu, konja naal piragu love vandhe madhiriye solla mattendreenga...... i have cn instances whre a couple had NOT been attracted physically....but in due course, after being friends, they have felt, that they are made for each other..... wat do u comment abt that.....

    appadiye erundalam, the word love has finally come down to
    1) lust
    2) money
    .............................. .............................. .............................. .

    seri, u go around with a girl/guy who has looks/money..... wat if when u r going around the guy/girl dad becomes a pauper? will u ditch...... ennappa sollureenga? has the word "love" lost its sanctity?

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    நினைத்த மாத்திரத்த ில் அவசரமாக ஒருதலைக் காதலில் விழுபவர்கள ில் ஆண்கள்தான் அதிகம் என்பது என் கருத்து (நானே பள்ளிப் படிப்பை முடிப்பதற் குள்ளாகவே ஏழு பெண்களைக் காதலித்தேன ்!). இந்த விஷயத்தில் பெண்கள் நிதானமானவர ்கள். ஆனால், அவர்கள் காதலில் ஆழம் அதிகம். 'செக்ஸி'ன் போதுகூட ஆண்களின் ஆர்வம் (உடலுறவுக் ுப் பிறகு) அவசரமாகக் குறைந்துவி டுகிறது. எல்லாவற்று க்கும் 'கெமிஸ்டிர 'தான் அடிப்படை. ஒரு பெண்ணைப் பார்த்தவுட ன் அவளிடமிருந ்து Phermones என்கிற வாசனை கெமிக்கல்க ள் உங்கள் மூக்கை வந்தடைகின் றன. முதலில் காதலை உணர்வது மூக்குதான் என்கிறார்க ள் விஞ்ஞானிகள ்! அந்த கெமிக்கல்க ள் பெண்ணின் தோல் மீது படிந்துள்ள பாக்டீரியா வுடன் கலந்து அதுதான் வாசனையாக மாறுகிறது என்பது (தர்மசங்கட ான) வேறு விஷயம்! பிறகு காதலியைப் பார்க்கும் போதெல்லாம் மூளைக்குள் பெனைலிதை லெமைன் என்கிற கெமிக்கல் ஏராளமாக உற்பத்தியா கிறது. ரோலர்கோஸ்ட ர், பாராசூட் மற்றும் பஞ்சீ ஜம்பிங்போத ு உற்பத்தியா கிற கெமிக்கல் இது! ஏதோ கூட்டத்தில ் திடீரென்று காதலியைப் பார்த்தவுட ன் ஜிகுஜிகு என்று உணர்ச்சிகள ் கொந்தளிப்ப தற்கு இந்த றிணிகி கெமிக்கல்த ான் காரணம்! ஒரு ஆச்சரியம் - சாக்லெட் சாப்பிடும் போதும் இந்த கெமிக்கல் கிளர்ச்சிய டைகிறது என்று கண்டுபிடித ்திருக்கிற ார்கள்!
    (காதலி உங்கள் எதிரே சாக்லெட் வாங்கிச் சாப்பிட்டா ல் அது ஒரு அறிகுறி!)


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    6 face,
    that was pretty interesting.... so there r no other views? so the fairer sex dont have any view regarding this topic? this concerns them too.... come on.... wake up guys and girls and give in ur views...... is SEX and MONEY the only components in LOVE?
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    Adaadaaa, enna idea 6Face? Chocolate saapitta chemicalsaa? Appo pasanga chocolate saapitaa? I used to buy tons of chocolate and distribute it in office to colleagues, whenever I visited India. Ellam chemicalsaa? Aiyo! Romba waste pannitanay? Intha idea ellam, I should have known 2-3 years back.

    Seriously, I believe, at first sight you can be attracted to a lady or a guy. It is not only looks, it is the way they interact or may be the way comb their hair! Or some thing that attracts and makes that person to stay in your mind for a few more moments. If within those moments, you get to meet that person or get to know more, you get attracted. Some people this incubation period might be 1 day, for some it might even be a year. After that it might blossom into love. But it is that spark which ignites love and it is very much possible.

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    Arumuga,

    Naan 7 ponne love panninen, 10 ponne love panninen ellam inga vanthu sollathe, we have one more term called infatuation.

    Exact English Meaning: A foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction.

    Since for the petty reasons, you may fall in love.

    Neruppu onnu than athoda vadivam ovoru edathula oru mari irrukum.

    Love at first sight nu naan sollurathu jothi mari...Kumpida thoonum.

    Nee 7 pera love panninen nu sollurathu kaatu thee mari...extinguisher eduthu amatha than thonum...

    Now the topic will heat up.

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    A foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sri_gan
    Neruppu onnu than athoda vadivam ovoru edathula oru mari irrukum.

    Love at first sight nu naan sollurathu jothi mari...Kumpida thoonum.

    Nee 7 pera love panninen nu sollurathu kaatu thee mari...extinguisher eduthu amatha than thonum...
    Wonderful explanation Sri_gan. But First Love is always a special love. 6F solra madhiri 6/7 per love pannalume (though actually its not Love) modhal modhal'la vara Love feeling is something great and always lingers in memories. What do u say ?

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