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    Most guys get caught up in guessing what to say; here's what they really should do
    By David Wygant Special to Yahoo! Personals

    What do you do when you see a woman you are attracted to? Do you run and hide? Do you use some canned line that you read on the Internet? Do you stand there in fear trying to think of the right thing to say? What is the right thing to do?
    When approaching a woman, most guys make the mistake of thinking too much about what to say. They believe there's one magic line that will work in all situations. They rehearse this magic line, and when they deliver it, they hope the woman will become instantly attracted to them.
    Unfortunately, rarely does this approach work -- because most of what you say is irrelevant. To catch a woman's attention, it is all about the confidence you display when approaching her.
    Here are 10 surefire ways to intrigue her every time:
    1. Observe something. Make a comment about something you observe in the environment. This is especially effective at the grocery store. For example, if she is ordering a turkey sandwich, ask herif the turkey is good here. Make your comment immediate to the situation





    Make your comment immediate to the situation and it will seem perfectly natural. No matter where you are, there is always something interesting to comment on. 2. Smile. This shows her that you are friendly and confident. A genuine smile not only feels good to you, but will put her at ease while creating openness in the interaction -- a requirement for building rapport.
    3. Do not hesitate. If you hesitate in your approach, this tells her that you are not feeling confident -- an immediate turn-off. When you see her, walk over to her within a short period of time (the three-second rule). Show her you are a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.
    4. Positive body language. If you approach hunched over with your head down, you are sending negative information about yourself, which makes you dead in the water before you begin. Stand up straight, with shoulders back and chest out, and use a firm yet relaxed walk.
    5. Not too fast. If you walk over too fast, you could likely trigger her internal alarm. A calm, casual approach is usually the best way to make her feel at ease with you.
    6. Keep eye contact. Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the message that you are not feeling good about approaching. When you use strong eye contact, she will feel more drawn to you. With practice, you can master this.
    7. Listen up. Make sure you pay careful attention to what she says. Do not have your response pre-thought out. Women love a man who pays attention to the details of what she says. If you start throwing out random words, she will lose interest fast.
    8. Do not fidget. Fidgeting after you approach is distracting and shows you are uncomfortable. If you communicate that you are uncomfortable, she will feel uncomfortable, too, and will close up. Practice being aware of your movements. Pay attention to those movements, or lack of movements, that communicate comfort and confidence.
    9. Lighten your tone of voice. The tone of your voice is a very powerful tool. Approaching her in a light and playful tone is one of the best ways to start. You could also begin in a serious tone, accusing her of something like " I hope you saved some turkey for me





    I hope you saved some turkey for me," followed by a quick smile to let her know you are joking. Practice playing with your vocal tone with your friends -- notice the different reactions you get when you say the exact same thing using varied tones and fluctuations.
    10. Lean away from her. A man who leans in too far when he talks often makes a woman feel crowded. A better approach is to lean away from her slightly. This lets her know that you respect her space, boundaries, and are comfortable with yourself.
    The key to making these tips work for you is putting them into practice! Practice these tips and see the reaction you get. When you put them all together, you will be surprised at their power.


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    சூரியனுக்க ே candle-ஆ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vasan View Post
    சூரியனுக்க ே candle-ஆ?

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    திருப்பதிக ்கே லட்டா?



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    வெத்திலை போட்டீங்கள ா? நாக்கு எல்லாம் சிவப்பா இருக்கு?

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    சூரியனுக்க ே candle-ஆ?

    nice




    first 3 points okai.................but kiddaponavudanai ena kathaikirathandai theriyaamapoidum

    நான் பெரிது நீ பெரிது என்று வாழாமல் நாடு பெரிது என்று வாழ்வோம்!

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    ithellam waste...

    namma oru ponnugalku kadalaiya potta automatica yellam work out agum...

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    Ithu ellam panni oru ponno pudikanuma....

    It's better to stay away from girls.

    Girls and Unnecesseary problems r reversible.
    Un Kannil Neer Vazhinthal.....En Nenjil Uthiram Kotuthadi......

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    Quote Originally Posted by experiments View Post
    Ithu ellam panni oru ponno pudikanuma....

    It's better to stay away from girls.

    Girls and Unnecesseary problems r reversible.
    நான் பெரிது நீ பெரிது என்று வாழாமல் நாடு பெரிது என்று வாழ்வோம்!

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    Teacher,

    சொந்த அனுபவம் சொல்லணும் நீங்கோ.இப் டி படிச்சது சொன்னா எப்படி நம்பரது? எது வொர்க் அவுட் ஆச்சு சொல்லுங்கோ .

    Thanks for the tips. But I cant try anyways!!

    Cheers
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    Quote Originally Posted by anainar View Post
    Teacher,

    சொந்த அனுபவம் சொல்லணும் நீங்கோ.இப் டி படிச்சது சொன்னா எப்படி நம்பரது? எது வொர்க் அவுட் ஆச்சு சொல்லுங்கோ .

    Thanks for the tips. But I cant try anyways!!

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    may I know Y venus ellam search panreengo.. but cant do anything in earth huh

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    I'm just puzzled, on one hand we bombard men with various tips on how to woo and court women, then on the other we have problems with violent miscreants forcing themselves on their wives ...
    Cum recte vivis, ne cures verba malorum


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    Lol. Nice topic.

    Obviously some will work

    ஆக மொத்ததுல நல்லா டீசன்டா இருக்கனும் னு சொல்லுரீங் க
    I don't want a signature.

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    ithu ellam ennathukku....namma tamizh kalachara padi, T.R.Mahalingam stylae "Kaayatha Kaanakathe nindru ulaavum nar kaarikayae" innu paatu padi asathita poradhu......

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    You should add these thing for the healthy and balanced Morning meal Whole grain like Rolls, bagels, cereal products, low fat wheat bran cupcakes, biscuits, or Melba toasted bread, Low fat proteins such as per Training prevent you from diseases, help in body weight decreasing body weight decrease and better rest....

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    Good point...

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